VAWA, Part 16

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

6 minutes ago, Lola_lalo said:

I read they are fading it our the online self schedule. I'm on a wait line wz the uscis to schedule info pass. it is been 2 month and 15 days since card production update comes and 360 approval but I didn't receive anything. my lawyer send G-28 for inquiry on october 1st still no update. 

Oh I should tell you this...I called USCIS to schedule the infopass, I don't think the online route works anymore...😊 you should do same!👍

[Fishy89 207]

14 minutes ago, Lola_lalo said:

does info pass discontinued?

No they doesn’t But it’s no longer available online you can now make an info-pass through a phone call to USCIS and they will decide .. if the matter you are calling about needs an info-pass or no .. if your concern could be solved over the phone .. they won’t give you an info-pass appointment  .. 

iam on the line waiting for tire 2 officer to call me back to give me my appointment date and time ..

[Vawaonehi 22]

1 hour ago, Walidqa said:

hello everyone,

I applied for Vawa last May 2019 I got my receipt notice, My EAD combo card expired in august 2019. I would like to renew my combo card since my i485 based on my old petition is still pending and I haven't got my interview yet, I am kinda of confused where to send my renewal form is it Vermont or Chicago.

 

thank you guys

Send it to Vermont. Since you have VAWA, everything excluding your N400 when its time for citizenship,  every gad damm thing for now must go to VSC

[Lola_lalo 211]

11 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

Oh I should tell you this...I called USCIS to schedule the infopass, I don't think the online route works anymore...😊 you should do same!👍

okay, still on waiting with them.

 

[Lola_lalo 211]

2 minutes ago, Lola_lalo said:

okay, still on waiting with them.

 

I spoke with the agent but info pass couldn't help with my situation. I don't even know if they get the G-28 inquiry on writing. i've been waiting for two years and keep on waiting. God knows better.

[Lola_lalo 211]

17 minutes ago, Fishy89 said:

No they doesn’t But it’s no longer available online you can now make an info-pass through a phone call to USCIS and they will decide .. if the matter you are calling about needs an info-pass or no .. if your concern could be solved over the phone .. they won’t give you an info-pass appointment  .. 

iam on the line waiting for tire 2 officer to call me back to give me my appointment date and time ..

I just spoke with them and like you said he decided info-pass couldn't help my situation. I should keep on waiting and send my inquiry in writing. 

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

9 minutes ago, Lola_lalo said:

okay, still on waiting with them.

 

👍😊

[portorusa 431]

4 hours ago, Fishy89 said:

Annulment renders that marriage non-existent, the issue of good faith marriage does not arise. 
VAWA eligibility requires good faith marriage, 'marriage' beimng the operative word here.
"Annulment" = no marriage ever existed.

No marriage = no eligibility to file for VAWA relief.

It may be true but ...I know of a case where the marriage ended up in annulment, wife was placed in removal proceedings, yet her I-360 was approved. The green card she got as a result of a decision of immigration judge.

[Caligirl2018 0]

Guys i have a question ..

if a Vawa gets denied the i485 application gets denied right away ? Or after the 30 days window for Vawa decision appeal ?

and one more question .. if a person files i360 concurrently with I485 .. does he have the right to appeal Vawa denial or no ?? 

Edited October 18, 2019 by Caligirl2018

[Loser_Michigan 21]

St. Albans is such a small town seems like people are getting used to slow-pace life. I am done with those people.
 

I-360 pending. My 485 package has been delivered to St. Albans for about three weeks check still not cashed out.

 

I am wondering if I re-send another VAWA 485 package to Chicago will they give me receipt right away? I know they will eventually transfer to VSC. All I need is a I-485 receipt I-797C ASAP. Did anyone here try it out this way?????

 

Apparently Chicago lockbox is known for its high efficiency they give receipt within 72 hours. I really don't mind pay $1225 multiple times.

 

 

Edited October 18, 2019 by silicon_valley

[Fishy89 207]

1 hour ago, silicon_valley said:

St. Albans is such a small town seems like people are getting used to slow-pace life. I am done with those people.
 

I-360 pending. My 485 package has been delivered to St. Albans for about three weeks check still not cashed out.

 

I am wondering if I re-send another VAWA 485 package to Chicago will they give me receipt right away? I know they will eventually transfer to VSC. All I need is a I-485 receipt I-797C ASAP. Did anyone here try it out this way?????

 

Apparently Chicago lockbox is known for its high efficiency they give receipt within 72 hours. I really don't mind pay $1225 multiple times.

 

 

I don’t know what say .. they are really slow in everything ! 
but i don’t recommend to send another i-485 application to any other offices .. this my cause delays in your I-485 process after vawa approval.. 

my advise to you is to give them more time , better than delays in the whole process .. 

[Sandra G. 5,049]

On 10/17/2019 at 10:18 AM, Jeff&Elena said:

If a US citizen spouse-sponsor withdraws the I-864 for the I-485 before the green card is issued, and the beneficiary subsequently files a VAWA, can that I-485 be put on hold until the VAWA is adjudicated?  Or does she need to file another I-485 ?  Thanks

It will depend of the immigration officer,he/she can put on hold or not.

[Nu B 5]

On 10/16/2019 at 6:39 PM, cashweed said:

@Nu B

1. I like hiking but I don’t like hiking off the trail because anything could be happen and it happened one time. We get lost. Even my husband already get mad and screaming because we can’t get back to the trail. I don’t like hiking off the the trails, for me it’s kinda danger. Does this mean that the reason you dont want to go to the hikes is because you fear that you might get lost and you are afraid of your husbands violent reaction. My question is the last time you did hike with him was his reaction threatening to you? Either physically or emotionally. Was he abusive in any ways to you?. Has he threatened you in such away that you fear he might do anything to you while hiking?. My take on this is, If you can prove anything like that or similar happened then that can be used as evidence. This evidence can be inform of affidavit from anyone you told about this who is willing to do it for you. Ofcourse you can also explain what happened also in your own affidavit. Since you mention that they keep on asking you to follow them on hikes which you already refuse then you can use this evidence to show a pattern. Because they keep on pushing you to do this and you said you just cry and cry. How about you talk to a psychologists. 

2. Father-in-law pay for the first and second month but not 3rd and 4th, and wants to pay the 5th since I’m runaway. I stopped work since May 2019 since I moved to their house and they know my condition. My take on this is that they have already helped you even when you left. I dont think you can use this to your favour at all. The fact that they have accepted to help you financially even after you left favours them. Even if they know your condition as you put it. You are the one who decided to leave and I really doubt they are obliged to help you. They might be helping you inorder to use this in future. It makes them look good. If I were you I would be careful. Did theh force you to live your work?. Did they make any agreement that they will support you which they are breaking?. 

3. They know I don’t like some kind of movies according to my belief, I’m not saying I’m perfect, but they force we to sit with them as spending time with them. The key word here is Force. How do they force you?.Do they threaten you?.  No one should make you do things against your will. If I were you I would be careful so that this incompatibility is not seen as a way to show that your marriage is not bonefide. I have heard that the uscius scrutinises carefully marriages between people of different beliefs. It's always seen as a redflag. This is not to mean that there are no true marriages between people with different beliefs it happens sometimes but it's difficult. In your case if you can prove there was an agreement before that your husband would respect your beliefs. And again you have to explain how you were forced. Again this is just my speculation on what you wrote. I stand to be corrected if I am wrong.  All in all forcing you to do things against your belief can be seen.ad  is psychological abuse but also if he forces you to do this physically then this can be seen as physical abuse. 

5. They suggested to cancel all my religious activities or any kind of invitations from friends became we need to spend our time together. This sounds like abuse inform of isolation and over controlling. Again if you can proof this in some sort of way. Can someone from your religious activities write affidavit showing concern that you have been missing from your religious activities . Your friends whom you have turned down their invitation because you were forced to do so by your husband can also help you out by writting affidavits. The most important is to show patterns of isolation and being overcontrolled. This is some form of domestic abuse. Try father evidence on this. 

6. Even, they asked me to stop any kind of social media, and phone, because they love old fashioned, and they force me to do the same.  This is isolation and overcontrol. Prove how they force you. 

 

Its maybe difficult to prove this kind if psychological abuse. You can talk to therapist who document what you go through for now. Tall to a psychologist. Domestic abuse social workers. Tell them the truth everytime you meet with them. This is a way to document your suffering. And which can be used to prove your abuse for vawa later on. You mentioned that you cry alot because of what they put you through. This can be a sign of depression. A psychologists can help out to by therapy and later they can give you prove to use in your case. 

You mentioned your father in law is a lawyer. If that's the case. They are probably careful so you cant prove anything.  Be careful they probably suspect you would apply using vawa. So whatever you do do it carefully. If you cant talk to police since you dont want him to be arrested. Talk to therapists and also to people who deal with domestic violence so they can document it for you. Once you have gathered evidence enough apply for vawa. Remember to check requirements needed for vawa to make sure you have those as well. Be careful and follow your instincts. 

 

1. Thank you @cashweed @Stillwinning!!!😊 @NeverGiveUp Nov17 @Shroy123 @Pinkrlion @sandranj and all the my fellas... to be honest emotional abuse it’s hard to collect the evidence since my father-in-law is a lawyer too but I think I’ll go talk to the psychologist to talk about this, I hope I have a new hope.

2. I don’t want to make a report in the police station last Friday because I know he had a dv already, I don’t want to put him on a jail. He needs help but not in the jail. He depends his life to his father for everything. I can’t imagine if I’m in danger, get pregnant, having baby or need any kind of help, since he don’t what to do before ask his father’s direction. (Even for our sex life he needs his father’s guidance)

Since we are married having baby is a good as a proof our marriage also I love children, but according to his father, better wait until I have my GC.
3. I didn’t work since I moved to his father’s house, I don’t have money, if I want buy snacks I use my credit card, his father paid only 2 months and stop. So for the next month I need to borrow money to a friend to help me pay my credit card bills. They refused  to have a joint account, while we need that as one of our evidence. I don’t want his $500,000.00 saving, but at least please show his responsible as a husband.

4. They limit and even stop my access to my own life, especially my spiritual needs. I feel like they only wanna fulfill their needs. I’m not their doll. I guess 5 months was enough for me to be silent. I want to have my own freedom again.

5. I know it’s hard to find any evidence in my case, all I want is a new life. I don’t want him, his money, or anything related to him, I want to leave everything behind, is it possible?? It’s hard for me to meet with him or his Dad for while. I need a time to recover.... Please pray for me guys, since I have no status in this country... Thank you so much again. God bless us all!

[blujewel 94]

5 hours ago, silicon_valley said:

St. Albans is such a small town seems like people are getting used to slow-pace life. I am done with those people.
 

I-360 pending. My 485 package has been delivered to St. Albans for about three weeks check still not cashed out.

 

I am wondering if I re-send another VAWA 485 package to Chicago will they give me receipt right away? I know they will eventually transfer to VSC. All I need is a I-485 receipt I-797C ASAP. Did anyone here try it out this way?????

 

Apparently Chicago lockbox is known for its high efficiency they give receipt within 72 hours. I really don't mind pay $1225 multiple times.

 

 

Omg! don't send it twice.  And the you not minding to pay twice made me laugh. Why would you want to do that? This process takes a lot a patience. You have to be very very patient. So please be. You will get it in a matter of time.

[Sandra G. 5,049]

22 hours ago, natalysmile said:

The same confirmation NOA1
But this is a different number Case
Because I sent two times.
How can I tell them to come together these two things together?

Nataly you are acting  impulsively and making a mess in your case. Why on earth did you file Vawa twice? YOU CAN'T PUT THE TWO FILES TOGETHER NOW. You have to withdraw one of the form I-360. Take your time to handle your case carefully.