VAWA, Part 16

[RoDaMo 58]

7 minutes ago, Nu B said:

That’s what my husband and my father-in-law said, that they taking care of me, so why I went from the house, but my counselor said they’re clever and manipulated me.

1. I like hiking but I don’t like hiking off the trail because anything could be happen and it happened one time. We get lost. Even my husband already get mad and screaming because we can’t get back to the trail. I don’t like hiking off the the trails, for me it’s kinda danger.
2. Father-in-law pay for the first and second month but not 3rd and 4th, and wants to pay the 5th since I’m runaway. I stopped work since May 2019 since I moved to their house and they know my condition.

3. They know I don’t like some kind of movies according to my belief, I’m not saying I’m perfect, but they force we to sit with them as spending time with them.

4. Not only movies, show or sports, they forced me to have the same favorite team, interests, political views, etc

5. They suggested to cancel all my religious activities or any kind of invitations from friends became we need to spend our time together.

6. Even, they asked me to stop any kind of social media, and phone, because they love old fashioned, and they force me to do the same.

7. Also all the food, the vitamins, and so on.....

No physical abuse, but I feel trapped. 

 

Quick question... do you have any kind of proof of that??? Text messages... pictures... witnesses... something that could help you out to get evidence of emotional abuse 

[Nu B 5]

10 minutes ago, NeverGiveUp Nov17 said:

Quick question... do you have any kind of proof of that??? Text messages... pictures... witnesses... something that could help you out to get evidence of emotional abuse 

Yes for credit card bills and all the invitations, but no proof for the rest

[Pinkrlion 2,724]

23 minutes ago, Nu B said:

That’s what my husband and my father-in-law said, that they taking care of me, so why I went from the house, but my counselor said they’re clever and manipulated me.

1. I like hiking but I don’t like hiking off the trail because anything could be happen and it happened one time. We get lost. Even my husband already get mad and screaming because we can’t get back to the trail. I don’t like hiking off the the trails, for me it’s kinda danger.
2. Father-in-law pay for the first and second month but not 3rd and 4th, and wants to pay the 5th since I’m runaway. I stopped work since May 2019 since I moved to their house and they know my condition.

3. They know I don’t like some kind of movies according to my belief, I’m not saying I’m perfect, but they force we to sit with them as spending time with them.

4. Not only movies, show or sports, they forced me to have the same favorite team, interests, political views, etc

5. They suggested to cancel all my religious activities or any kind of invitations from friends became we need to spend our time together.

6. Even, they asked me to stop any kind of social media, and phone, because they love old fashioned, and they force me to do the same.

7. Also all the food, the vitamins, and so on.....

No physical abuse, but I feel trapped. 
 

I know my husband didn’t about withdrawing i130 but my father-in-law sent email to me that they can’t wait forever. 
 

I don’t want comeback since I’m not sure they will change as I want. I just afraid.

PS: 2 years ago, my mother-in-law did suicidal through overdose xanax, in their house. Now I understand what the mother-in-law feeling that time.

 

You cannot say that about mother-n-law, you dont know her or what she was thinking.  Your father-n-law is not responsible for your bills, so that is not financial abuse that he stopped paying them.

 

If you do not want to return to the house, that is your choice, but I do not see VAWA.  How did you enter the country, if you have a pending I-130?  Who are you living with now, since you are now in a different city?

 

Again all I read is incompatibility, the marriage did not work out.  Same thing my boyfriend likes wrestling, and doesn't eat pork, I hate it!!! but I deal with it.  

 

Let her respond to if you have a case or not.  She is the lawyer on this group.   @sandranj

Edited October 16, 2019 by Pinkrlion

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1 minute ago, Nu B said:

Yes for credit card bills and all the invitations, but no proof for the rest

With this petition, proof even if it's not first hand, is everything! Try and get statements from anyone willing to testify..it helps!

[RoDaMo 58]

1 minute ago, Nu B said:

Yes for credit card bills and all the invitations, but no proof for the rest

If you feel emotional abuse... It took me a while to recognize that was happening to myself... you will need to support all that is happening to you, that will be your abuse evidence, as soon as I can, I will send you a pdf with the vawa step by step

[Nu B 5]

1 hour ago, Pinkrlion said:

This does not sound like abuse.  It sounds like incompatibility.  If you want to divorce and go home you have that option.  They are not denying you anything by paying your bills.  What basis is your restraining order...You don't like the outside?  @sandranj

I like outside but not the same location and then have an idea to off the trails, it’s danger since we never know what will happen. 
So... better ask divorce and go back to my country? Thank you for your suggestion.

[Fishy89 207]

Hello guys ! 
I have a problem .. i sent my renewal application for EAD and advance parole 4 months ago and both applications were approved 10 days ago ,, i received the COMBO CARD but it says not valid for reentry to the states !! However i got the approval notices for advance parole and the EAD .. 
the Card also doesn’t have my fingerprint .. !! 
My question now can i travel or no?  using the approval notice ?

thanks !

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3 minutes ago, Nu B said:

I like outside but not the same location and then have an idea to off the trails, it’s danger since we never know what will happen. 
So... better ask divorce and go back to my country? Thank you for your suggestion.

Hey..not so fast! Weigh your options before taking that decision! There's always a way! Better still wait for Sandra's legal advice!💁

[Pinkrlion 2,724]

Just now, Fishy89 said:

Hello guys ! 
I have a problem .. i sent my renewal application for EAD and advance parole 4 months ago and both applications were approved 10 days ago ,, i received the COMBO CARD but it says not valid for reentry to the states !! However i got the approval notices for advance parole and the EAD .. 
the Card also doesn’t have my fingerprint .. !! 
My question now can i travel or no?  using the approval notice ?

thanks !

Look at your approval notice for AP, sometimes you do not receive a combo card.  AP is in letter form.  

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1 minute ago, Fishy89 said:

Hello guys ! 
I have a problem .. i sent my renewal application for EAD and advance parole 4 months ago and both applications were approved 10 days ago ,, i received the COMBO CARD but it says not valid for reentry to the states !! However i got the approval notices for advance parole and the EAD .. 
the Card also doesn’t have my fingerprint .. !! 
My question now can i travel or no?  using the approval notice ?

thanks !

How does a combo card say not valid for re entry?😕😏 don't take chances now...kinda misleading..

[Nu B 5]

3 minutes ago, NeverGiveUp Nov17 said:

If you feel emotional abuse... It took me a while to recognize that was happening to myself... you will need to support all that is happening to you, that will be your abuse evidence, as soon as I can, I will send you a pdf with the vawa step by step

Yes, first I didn’t notice about that until on Tuesday they asking, will you go hike with us again? I said I don’t want to go if out of trails and go to the place that I got bite of the insects again. They replied, the temperature will go low and no more insect. The next day they asking the same question and the next day again and the next day again until I can’t sleep and cry all night. And finally on Friday, I call USCIS officer and said all my stories and I asked if I go to married counseling, will it help? The USCIS officer said better pack your belongings and go to the police. I went there and meet the counselor and she was agreed with my decision to go out from the house. 

[Pinkrlion 2,724]

2 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

How does a combo card say not valid for re entry?😕😏 don't take chances now...kinda misleading..

Its not a combo card, if AP is not attached.  

[FeDaniela 673]

2 minutes ago, Fishy89 said:

Hello guys ! 
I have a problem .. i sent my renewal application for EAD and advance parole 4 months ago and both applications were approved 10 days ago ,, i received the COMBO CARD but it says not valid for reentry to the states !! However i got the approval notices for advance parole and the EAD .. 
the Card also doesn’t have my fingerprint .. !! 
My question now can i travel or no?  using the approval notice ?

thanks !

Only travel with the appropriate AP document, it seems to be your EAD was not made a combo Card.  Combo Card will say at that bottom Serve as I-512 Advance Parole. If not is just an EAD. Wait for your Advance Parole official document. 

[Nu B 5]

6 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

Hey..not so fast! Weigh your options before taking that decision! There's always a way! Better still wait for Sandra's legal advice!💁

I went to legal service to asked help they suggest to divorce and go to the court but I don’t want to see my husband. And when I asked vawa they said no longer and we can’t help.

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

Just now, Nu B said:

I went to legal service to asked help they suggest to divorce and go to the court but I don’t want to see my husband. And when I asked vawa they said no longer and we can’t help.

As we chat people are sending in i360 petitions...time to look in the right direction! Send @sandranj a message and pour out your heart..she's the attorney here..she'll give you the best legal advice!👍