VAWA, Part 16

[Shroy123 751]

5 hours ago, natalysmile said:

Hello my Dears

I received a request for evidence.

 

Only it:

X - Evidence you are a person of good, moral charater(generally, the Service requests police clearances from each locality in which you have lived for at least 6 months during the past  three years.

 

RFE - This is a request for Petition 1, which I wrote them a letter to cancel.

They received my letter requesting the cancellation of Petition 1, but I do not know (not sure) that they canceled it or not?

Maybe I should give them what they ask. And indicate again that I have a different case number ...

 

What should be included in this answer? I already sent a police note in the first letter.

 

Thank you.

 

Submit your evidences I would say.. but you have received prima facie for 2n petition so there is a confusion.

Submit it and write a detailed statement that you already have petition 2 and you reveived prima facie based on that and you want to cancel this petition - petition 1 but submit your evidences 

[Shroy123 751]

Ok i need help! I am divorced and Vawa approved few days ago. In my relationship, i was isolated, spied and stalked by my ex in laws. So i have a fear that where ever I go, someone keep an eye on my activities, stalking me etc. Although it is not true but since it is on my mind, i am depressed. Yesterday, my ex father in law added me on linked in. I mean what the hell? why he still stalking me and looking at my activities? I never wanted them to know what I am doing, where i am working etc but since linked in profiles are public, he visited my profile last night and sent me a connection request. I immediately blocked him but now I am concern they might harm me again because they know where I am working. what should I do?  

Edited November 26, 2019 by Shroy123

[NiceGuyXLE 11]

I recieved my appt for finger prints for i465 and i765, at least something is moving forward

[FeDaniela 673]

4 minutes ago, Shroy123 said:

Ok i need help! I am divorced and Vawa approved few days ago. In my relationship, i was isolated, spied and stalked by my ex in laws. So i have a fear that where ever I go, someone keep an eye on my activities, stalking me etc. Although it is not true but since it is on my mind, i am depressed. Yesterday, my ex father added me on linked in? I mean what the hell? why he still stalking me and looking at my activities? I never wanted them to know what I am doing, where i am working etc but since linked in profiles are public, he visited my profile last night and sent me a connection request. I immediately blocked him but now I am concern they might harm me again because they know where I am working. what should I do?  

Don't be afraid anymore, Block them from everywhere and if they start again to harass you, There are laws for us, go to the police and arise a complaint against them, I did the same, whoever from my abuser family specially his mother tried to intimidated me,  i did after they received police and court notification ever again.... 

[Shroy123 751]

33 minutes ago, FeDaniela said:

Don't be afraid anymore, Block them from everywhere and if they start again to harass you, There are laws for us, go to the police and arise a complaint against them, I did the same, whoever from my abuser family specially his mother tried to intimidated me,  i did after they received police and court notification ever again.... 

should i go and complaint to police or wait if they stalk me again? I mean they got to know where I am working. it can affect my work

[FeDaniela 673]

1 minute ago, Shroy123 said:

should i go and complaint to police or wait if they stalk me again? I mean they got to know where I am working. it can affect my work

You can make a complaint if they harass you, don't hesitate to do it, if he just add you on a page just blocked them but if it scaled sending you threaten messages or visit your job you go and make the complaint.

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

21 minutes ago, Shroy123 said:

should i go and complaint to police or wait if they stalk me again? I mean they got to know where I am working. it can affect my work

Since adding someone or sending out a request on social media is not a crime, wait till they extend it to your work place then go to the police! They might not bother to go that length..it's easier and more convenient to keep an eye on a person's activities via social media than physically!💁 chill and stay watchful/alert😊👍

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47 minutes ago, NiceGuyXLE said:

I recieved my appt for finger prints for i465 and i765, at least something is moving forward

Glad to hear that! Wish more good news your way nice guy!😊👍

[natalysmile 75]

You might think that I am lying ... But this is a terrible situation. A letter from family members costs a little money, but they told me to pay for the letters they write.
Do you think this is normal? Or do I live in another world where all people are kind and good? Relatives mom and dad

I cry

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1 minute ago, natalysmile said:

You might think that I am lying ... But this is a terrible situation. A letter from family members costs a little money, but they told me to pay for the letters they write.
Do you think this is normal? Or do I live in another world where all people are kind and good? Relatives mom and dad

I cry

Alright..I've seen lot's of weird stuff but this takes the hat!!!😳😳 what in the world?💁 that's just crazy! It doesn't have to be the people you're depending on right now..you need to get what you can even if they are distant relatives...do people in your church ask for money too?😕😏

[FeDaniela 673]

6 minutes ago, natalysmile said:

You might think that I am lying ... But this is a terrible situation. A letter from family members costs a little money, but they told me to pay for the letters they write.
Do you think this is normal? Or do I live in another world where all people are kind and good? Relatives mom and dad

I cry

Yes i believe this, some family don't even care to do so, helping other without benefits is getting normal now, unbelievable... We need to seek for God more and more.  

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5 minutes ago, natalysmile said:

You might think that I am lying ... But this is a terrible situation. A letter from family members costs a little money, but they told me to pay for the letters they write.
Do you think this is normal? Or do I live in another world where all people are kind and good? Relatives mom and dad

I cry

Before you start crying..get what is within reach! Police report, write an affidavit yourself that you're a person of good moral character! Get busy with these first then worry about extras later! If no one wants to write..which I think is bizzare..submit those two👆💁

[Shroy123 751]

59 minutes ago, natalysmile said:

You might think that I am lying ... But this is a terrible situation. A letter from family members costs a little money, but they told me to pay for the letters they write.
Do you think this is normal? Or do I live in another world where all people are kind and good? Relatives mom and dad

I cry

we trust you sweetheart.. some relatives are like that 😞 

[HopeHope__ 72]

21 hours ago, sandranj said:

You told USCIS already how was the living  arrangement between you and your husband. USCIS will not take into consideration your residence now regarding the time that you lived with him.

 

It doesn't mean because he was not coming home often you can't prove commune residence.To prove residence get affidavits from friends stating you lived with him, if they visited your home and your husband was there they should mention when they met him, ask them to describe your house, if they were there for lunch or  dinner etc.If they attended any party in your house and they saw your husband there. Ask the landlord a letter that he saw your husband several times in your apartment. Ask your family to write affidavits for you if they saw your husband in your house through FaceTime or Skype, how many times they saw him, when and if they talked or not .If you used to go to the church and he went with you ask a letter from the priest/pastor stating he/she saw your husband there a few times and specify at least month and year. Gather all mails that arrived in your house with his name. 

 

 

 

Thank you @sandranj 

I already submitted everything. I submitted bills, rent, car insurance. Everything from FL under his name. I have a lot of pictures of us together in our apartment in Florida. I will try to get Affidavits of friends that visited us.

[AJJU 103]

1 hour ago, natalysmile said:

You might think that I am lying ... But this is a terrible situation. A letter from family members costs a little money, but they told me to pay for the letters they write.
Do you think this is normal? Or do I live in another world where all people are kind and good? Relatives mom and dad

I cry

This is completely normal,  i believe you as its been worst then normal for me.  Mom left dad as she loved some other guy then took off leaving kids behind later she got married kicked me out as her new husband couldn't stand other guys kids. I approached to dad and there was his new wife who couldn't stand another women kids. Got kicked out of school life became worst then imagination. In my home country kids like this are curse to the society. Later i educated my self did my schooling some how managed to complete Engineering and completed Masters.    My father asked for money which he says he spent on me till date 15000$  and on the other hand mom's as for her husband then wants money to support her family also money for interacting with people for my marriage purpose and my community is the biggest in racism and biggest discriminators. so am preety much single who can not mingle.  this is long story short.       So be strong and remember this is your test don't fall back eventually tough time pass and happy days are on its way for you. VJ family is here for you be strong.