Short relationship

[SalishSea 17,842]

8 minutes ago, Lnvall said:

Good to hear! So it wont be 12 month? (If everything ok with case)

And keep in mind that start to finish (petition filing to POE) will likely take 8-12 months anyway.

[coloradoman 32]

OP, welcome to VJ! I am from Germany, but with a Hungarian last name

 

I have a question for you. Have you considered visiting your fiance in the U.S. before permanently moving here? As a Hungarian citizen, you are in the fortunate position that you can visit the U.S. with just your passport and no visa required (it's called Visa Waiver Program). How about flying to America with him in November and spending Thanksgiving and/or Christmas together? Not only would that make for great evidence of the relationship, but you would actually SEE for yourself what you're about to get into. It's very different over here than it is in Europe. The visa costs a good chunk of change. Whether you file in November or not has no bearing on this. See it for yourself first and create relationship evidence by doing so.

 

Just a friendly piece of advice from someone who almost moved back home...

Edited September 11, 2019 by coloradoman

[coloradoman 32]

16 hours ago, Duke & Marie said:

Let’s face it, who gets married just 2 months after meeting someone? 

I did. Going on 4 years now and never looked back

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

44 minutes ago, coloradoman said:

OP, welcome to VJ! I am from Germany, but with a Hungarian last name

 

I have a question for you. Have you considered visiting your fiance in the U.S. before permanently moving here? As a Hungarian citizen, you are in the fortunate position that you can visit the U.S. with just your passport and no visa required (it's called Visa Waiver Program). How about flying to America with him in November and spending Thanksgiving and/or Christmas together? Not only would that make for great evidence of the relationship, but you would actually SEE for yourself what you're about to get into. It's very different over here than it is in Europe. The visa costs a good chunk of change. Whether you file in November or not has no bearing on this. See it for yourself first and create relationship evidence by doing so.

 

Just a friendly piece of advice from someone who almost moved back home...

This is a great idea 

[flfreddy 92]

You have a VWP .. go USA and take land mark pictures together to strengthen your K1 visa petition.  Also it tells the US CO that you entered USA, left voluntarily and did not over stay = good character.

 

This will greatly strengthen your k1 I bet.

 

Visa aside, many people come usa, have great visa picture weddings etc, only to find out 1-2 yrs later... dont like the place, dont like the person and divorce.   So on the emotional side... it is the real part.. Do you know your spouse enough?

[Lnvall 7]

6 hours ago, coloradoman said:

OP, welcome to VJ! I am from Germany, but with a Hungarian last name

 

I have a question for you. Have you considered visiting your fiance in the U.S. before permanently moving here? As a Hungarian citizen, you are in the fortunate position that you can visit the U.S. with just your passport and no visa required (it's called Visa Waiver Program). How about flying to America with him in November and spending Thanksgiving and/or Christmas together? Not only would that make for great evidence of the relationship, but you would actually SEE for yourself what you're about to get into. It's very different over here than it is in Europe. The visa costs a good chunk of change. Whether you file in November or not has no bearing on this. See it for yourself first and create relationship evidence by doing so.

 

Just a friendly piece of advice from someone who almost moved back home...

Thank you!

 

unfortunately for some reasons i cant do it now.  (job, etc)

[Lnvall 7]

Hes a US army member. It changes anything?

[SalishSea 17,842]

1 hour ago, Lnvall said:

Hes a US army member. It changes anything?

No.

[<3T&M<3 217]

On 9/10/2019 at 9:55 PM, afrocraft said:

It's not the "knowing" that I doubt. I sense OP's feelings are legit. It's the ability to prove what you know in your heart is real.

 

Please clarify your timelines: Chat for 4 months, meet once, then apply?

I agree. I visited three times between when i filed and his interview, then once after interview and before POE.

We started talking early November. We met mid/late Februrary, then filed end of February. NOA1 was beginning of March.

[Lnvall 7]

44 minutes ago, <3T&M<3 said:

I agree. I visited three times between when i filed and his interview, then once after interview and before POE.

We started talking early November. We met mid/late Februrary, then filed end of February. NOA1 was beginning of March.

We spent the whole summer together, meeting every week average 1-3 times.

 

Maybe we can meet months after we file the petition. We planning he comes.