Please advise.

[Carpe Vinum 2,327]

On 8/27/2019 at 2:14 PM, ZirZai said:

Sadly, the divorce waiver is just a very nice loophole for duping the system... just get married, act nice for a year when you arrive here, let your spouse take care of you for a while till you get comfortable, get all the documents and proof and then say good bye. And then the adjustment is a piece of cake.  People are abusing this a lot.

 

Sorry OP you are going through this, I DO believe there are legitimate cases out there that don't work out, but 2 years is not enough and then suddenly when the beneficiary is not interested in the reason they get the visa ( the spouse) they JUST have to stay here and cant leave this country which they hardly know and where they know no one? 

Unfortunately we see this way too often....To the OP...Protect yourself the best you can but really there is not much you can do to affect his immigration. Good Luck...

[Just Paul 4,595]

On 8/27/2019 at 1:19 AM, designguy said:

Don’t let him use you to get his GC.

Too late for that.   He can obtain ROC with a divorce waiver.   In fact he doesn't even have to wait for the filing window.   

[BrokenWings 8]

On 8/27/2019 at 2:05 AM, Candy55 said:

Hello Everyone. Please I need your advice. I filed for my husband some months back he got approved and moved into the country. Since he came he doesnt have a job. I have been the one doing all to make sure the family is doing great. His documents are out. Since he got his papers. He has been talking about wanting to divorce me and move into another city. That he feels I am a mistake. He talks with his ex- girlfriend and when I found out he turn it on me. That he feels traps and a prisoner. Because I found out he is in contact with his ex.

Please what should I do. I am confused right now...

 

Leave that dousche bag immediately. Get the evidence of his time line and what he has done after arrival and getting paper works. Get evidences of his talking to his ex. Get the evidences of his not being caring to u. Get the evidences of his real colors and ungrateful actions. Gather all of them and write a page letter to USCIS. Go to local office with his Alien registration number or copy of USCIS paper works. Submit all of them together and get back your own life. 

He may or may not stay here; but that is not your concern any more. Atleast you better unhook yourself from that person. 

Sorry for some offensive words; the way u said really drew a bad picture of him.