Adjustment of Status

[Larrylpsr59 3]

2 hours ago, missileman said:

There are many, many loan companies out there.........honestly, there are zero benefits in waiting to file AOS.......zero......

My good credit was destroyed by the debt . 

[Larrylpsr59 3]

10 hours ago, JFH said:

I’m female. 

 

If a $1250 fee is burdensome to you, but you make “decent money” (decent to me is “more than you need to survive each month”) then something is not right. 

 

Ultimately it’s your choice whether to keep your wife here at risk of deportation. Only you know where that fits in your priorities right now. 

 

I get that a 10-month stay in a Manila hotel was expensive but that was your choice. You (as the USC) did not have to stay. You could have returned home and worked to save for this additional expense. You surely were aware that this fee was required at this stage when you started out on this journey? But that’s water under the bridge now and cannot be undone. 

 

The current political climate here is not favorable to people who are out of status. But...your life, your choices.

I was here in America working more than deligently to make things happen . 

[iwir 337]

I just don't get it. What do you want us to say? That your wife and son are gonna be okay while waiting for you filing for AOS? USCIS doesn't care about your story. They are still subject to deportation. File AOS ASAP. That's your best bet

[SalishSea 17,656]

7 hours ago, Larrylpsr59 said:

We should have been told by RV to do a DNA on son before we even interviewed the first time since he was born at home. A

Probably well beyond the scope of RV, since they are not legal assistance.

[SalishSea 17,656]

4 hours ago, Larrylpsr59 said:

My good credit was destroyed by the debt . 

So?  "Payday loan" places will lend to anyone.

[Larrylpsr59 3]

1 minute ago, Jorgedig said:

Probably well beyond the scope of RV, since they are not legal assistance.

No but they suppose to make sure you have EVERYTHING in order to be approved.  And a DNA test was obvious to us After being denied we needed. $1.200.00 for no such knowledge ? Lol

[Larrylpsr59 3]

2 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

So?  "Payday loan" places will lend to anyone.

$3.000.00 cost what $6.000.00 to borrow ? 

 

[Larrylpsr59 3]

7 minutes ago, iwir said:

I just don't get it. What do you want us to say? That your wife and son are gonna be okay while waiting for you filing for AOS? USCIS doesn't care about your story. They are still subject to deportation. File AOS ASAP. That's your best bet

I hear so many stories about we are safe and we are not .

But sorry to bother anyone.

Thanks for your time.

[SalishSea 17,656]

2 minutes ago, Larrylpsr59 said:

$3.000.00 cost what $6.000.00 to borrow ? 

 

Cheaper than the consequences of your wife being out of status.

[Crazy Cat 41,469]

1 minute ago, Larrylpsr59 said:

$3.000.00 cost what $6.000.00 to borrow ? 

 

So, what is your plan?  This is the time to be pro-active.....waiting around could be much, much more expensive in several ways.

[Larrylpsr59 3]

1 minute ago, missileman said:

So, what is your plan?  This is the time to be pro-active.....waiting around could be much, much more expensive in several ways.

To work a part-time job with my full-time. 

[aaron2020 11,651]

2 minutes ago, Larrylpsr59 said:

I hear so many stories about we are safe and we are not .

But sorry to bother anyone.

Thanks for your time.

People are trying to help you.

 

Your wife and child are not safe.  They are subject to arrest and deportation.  

Denial is not going solve your problem. 

 

Best of luck.  Hope you find the money to file soon for their sake.  

[geowrian 22,337]

A DNA is not always required. It would have been wise to note that there was a good chance of it being requested given the circumstances, though.

That said, tbh it's something I could see an immigration attorney (or likely their workers) also overlooking. RV has done much worse.

 

ICE may come knocking at her door (very recent case: https://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/712332-k1-visa-ice-came-to-my-house/). Probably not.

She may get into trouble anytime she leaves the house (recent case: https://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/706560-beware-bad-information-on-aos-deadline-for-k1-fresh-out-of-jail/). Probably not.

Nobody can guarantee she will be safe or will be caught before you file. Only sure fire way to make things at least problematic is to file ASAP.

[iwir 337]

11 minutes ago, Larrylpsr59 said:

I hear so many stories about we are safe and we are not .

But sorry to bother anyone.

Thanks for your time.

Your life, your choice. Good luck!

[Nitas_man 3,100]

1 hour ago, Larrylpsr59 said:

I hear so many stories about we are safe and we are not .

But sorry to bother anyone.

Thanks for your time.

Is your son a US citizen or not?  Why do you have to adjust your son’s status?