When visiting fiancée, did you book one or two hotel rooms? (Philippines)

[billding 59]

Just out of curiosity, how did you guys do it?

 

I know local customs sometimes it affects the outcome of the K1 visa application. Would staying in one hotel room together look "too married" for the USEM (Philippines)? Should we stay in separate rooms?

 

Thanks everyone!

Edited July 17, 2019 by TXBill

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*** Moved to Regional (Philippines) section of the forum.

 

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[jskibo 588]

One room would not be unusual.  I just stayed at her house

[Hank_ 9,174]

1 hour ago, TXBill said:

Just out of curiosity, how did you guys do it?

 

I know local customs sometimes it affects the outcome of the K1 visa application. Would staying in one hotel room together look "too married" for the USEM (Philippines)? Should we stay in separate rooms?

 

Thanks everyone!

You are overthinking things...        Do as you please

[Nitas_man 3,100]

Don’t recall they ask who was in or what happened in hotel rooms but the hotel receipt counts towards the whole “did you meet in person” evidence pile.

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

Ask her what she feels comfortable with, go with that 

[Falcon Cara 378]

6 hours ago, TXBill said:

Just out of curiosity, how did you guys do it?

 

I know local customs sometimes it affects the outcome of the K1 visa application. Would staying in one hotel room together look "too married" for the USEM (Philippines)? Should we stay in separate rooms?

 

Thanks everyone!

That is pretty much irrelative, Most CO understand you must try it before you buy it

[payxibka 10,045]

6 hours ago, TXBill said:

Just out of curiosity, how did you guys do it?

 

I know local customs sometimes it affects the outcome of the K1 visa application. Would staying in one hotel room together look "too married" for the USEM (Philippines)? Should we stay in separate rooms?

 

Thanks everyone!

Embassy doesn't pass judgment .  Pregnant fiancee's are successful applicants 

Edited July 17, 2019 by payxibka

[Carpe Vinum 2,327]

Manila doesn't care. I did read on here about a Pakistani couple that had problems at the embassy stage because they stayed in one room before they were married....))

Edited July 17, 2019 by boris64

[Hank_ 9,174]

Thankfully ... this isn't Pakistan     

Edited July 17, 2019 by Hank_

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On 7/17/2019 at 11:14 AM, Falcon Cara said:

That is pretty much irrelative, Most CO understand you must try it before you buy it

 

On 7/17/2019 at 9:35 AM, Randyandyuni said:

Ask her what she feels comfortable with, go with that 

Agree with Falcon Cara.  LOL  They never asked us.  But make sure you save the hotel receipts and add it to your "evidence" when you send in your I-129F application.  However, I also agree with Randyandyuni.  Ask her and go with what she says.  Better to be safe than sorry.  

[Just Paul 4,595]

On 7/17/2019 at 3:59 AM, TXBill said:

Just out of curiosity, how did you guys do it?

 

I know local customs sometimes it affects the outcome of the K1 visa application. Would staying in one hotel room together look "too married" for the USEM (Philippines)? Should we stay in separate rooms?

 

Thanks everyone!

two rooms if she is bringing her family

 

[Stevephoto 230]

On 7/17/2019 at 12:26 AM, Hank_ said:

You are overthinking things...        Do as you please

^^^^This^^^^

20 hours ago, Paul & Mary said:

two rooms if she is bringing her family

 

🤣

[Stevephoto 230]

On 7/17/2019 at 3:35 AM, Randyandyuni said:

Ask her what she feels comfortable with, go with that 

All joking aside, this is the best advice given.

[Falcon Cara 378]

7 hours ago, Stevephoto said:

All joking aside, this is the best advice given.

Actually it isn't best.  If you are going to go long term with a person then one must be sure they are compatible in everyway and being sexually compatible can make or break a marriage.

 

I remember many years ago I chatted with a girl for about 3 months, we had the best of times and chatted almost daily, got along great, she was attractive, came from a good family, had a degree in nursing, and was about 22 years old.

 

I made my trek over there and flew to her province, decided to stay at her house in her room, it was a nice house the father was a seaman and they had a nice house with aircon in most rooms.  After spending almost 2 weeks with her I found out we didn't have the chemistry that was needed at least for me to make her a wife.   It was sad to leave her but  knew I wouldn't be happy long term.