Do i must have his permission ?

[Boris Farage 353]

1 hour ago, ShinyDaisy said:

In a legal sense, no. You don't need his permission. In a personal sense, I hope he's informed. I most certainly would want my husband to let me know if he's going to be outside the country.

Agreed. I would not want my wife to disappear without so much as a good-bye or informing me where she's flying off to. Speaks to a remarkable lack of trust between spouses if one finds such behaviour acceptable. 

[JFH 12,190]

5 hours ago, zimbalo said:

Christianity, Islam and Judaism will tell you to ask your wife or your husband a permission before traveling, and we have all religions here in the USA. It depends on your relationship with your partner and what you are facing.

And in our faith, a minority pagan faith, women are in charge. So, if anything, my husband would have to ask MY permission to travel. But I'm not like that. Maybe the poster isn't religious?

[zimbalo 8]

11 minutes ago, JFH said:

And in our faith, a minority pagan faith, women are in charge. So, if anything, my husband would have to ask MY permission to travel. But I'm not like that. Maybe the poster isn't religious?

I surprised nobody supported me 

[Just Paul 4,595]

3 minutes ago, zimbalo said:

I surprised nobody supported me 

Post a topic of your own about what type of support you need and I am sure we would all be willing to give you an opinion.

[Nitas_man 3,100]

5 hours ago, zimbalo said:

Christianity, Islam and Judaism will tell you to ask your wife or your husband a permission before traveling, and we have all religions here in the USA. It depends on your relationship with your partner and what you are facing.

(WE, Americans) have no such laws or beliefs however extremists teach this about other faiths to justify their disregard for rights in their utopias.

 

It is not true.

 

You should really plan to leave those teachings at your POE as they are 100% contradictory to our laws here and indeed “trapping” a spouse here is considered abusive and is illegal.

[ClickityClackity 134]

53 minutes ago, zimbalo said:

I surprised nobody supported me 

That might be because your answer is not really an answer, it's your own personal beliefs. I would say that I respect them, but I'd be lying. A religious belief that prevents another human being from making their own choices regarding travel and when to tell their spouse to f*** right off is not worthy of respect. 

I'm sorry but if you want to live in 21st century America and enjoy the privileges and liberties that that entails, you should understand and accept that bringing 14th century customs and traditions is maybe not the best idea. You don't get to pick and choose, specially if it does not pertain to you. 

 

I would kindly ask you to please refrain to spread your ignorance and retrograde and narrow mind on this forum.

 

Love you otherwise and good luck in the land of the free and home of the brave.

[mcdull 474]

7 hours ago, zimbalo said:

Christianity, Islam and Judaism will tell you to ask your wife or your husband a permission before traveling, and we have all religions here in the USA. It depends on your relationship with your partner and what you are facing.

If a religion tells a grown woman to ask for permission before she travels, I'd tell her to quit that cult.

[zimbalo 8]

Getting permission from your wife or your husband to do something isn’t a bad behavior, you guys misunderstood my words,

[ClickityClackity 134]

2 minutes ago, zimbalo said:

Getting permission from your wife or your husband to do something isn’t a bad behavior, you guys misunderstood my words,

I, for one, would love to hear what exactly did we misunderstood and what exactly you meant.

[Boris Farage 353]

1 minute ago, zimbalo said:

Getting permission from your wife or your husband to do something isn’t a bad behavior, you guys misunderstood my words,

May be a language issue here. Getting 'permission' implies that your spouse can forbid you from leaving, which is not the done thing in western cultures. Asking your spouse's opinion on your travel plans would not be objectionable to most people. Presume you mean the latter, but I could be wrong.

[HRQX 4,145]

2 hours ago, Boris Farage said:

I would not want my wife to disappear without so much as a good-bye or informing me where she's flying off to. Speaks to a remarkable lack of trust between spouses if one finds such behaviour acceptable. 

Sounds like the plot for Gone Girl:

 

1 hour ago, Nitas_man said:

“trapping” a spouse here is considered abusive and is illegal.

Yup. Yet, for some it's a learning curve:

 

[laylalex 7,293]

3 hours ago, Boris Farage said:

Agreed. I would not want my wife to disappear without so much as a good-bye or informing me where she's flying off to. Speaks to a remarkable lack of trust between spouses if one finds such behaviour acceptable. 

Well, I think if a wife (or a husband) thought she was in danger, that might be an excuse for leaving without explaining. But at that point trust would be broken anyway. But yeah, I see what you mean. Under normal circumstances I would be panicked if I woke up and found my fiance gone with no word, and I would wonder what I'd done wrong.

[Unlockable 7,315]

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[Nitas_man 3,100]

2 hours ago, ClickityClackity said:

I, for one, would love to hear what exactly did we misunderstood and what exactly you meant.

🍿 

[Nitas_man 3,100]

10 hours ago, zimbalo said:

Yes , in a religious way, you have to!

This what you meant by your post?  By all means please clarify.