Need Help Urgently

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Basically just got done with school,am self Employed...generally there is nothing big am doing here want to leave with my man ...He wants it as well but for him he thinks applying for 2 visas  at the same time will raise flags or one will be denied or the process will be longer than expected 

Edited July 4, 2019 by Kahunde Doreen

[Daphne . 1,852]

32 minutes ago, Kahunde Doreen said:

Basically just got done with school,am self Employed...generally there is nothing big am doing here want to leave with my man ...He wants it as well but for him he thinks applying for 2 visas  at the same time will raise flags or one will be denied or the process will be longer than expected 

Filing for 2 petitions at the same time does not have to raise flags.

 

What kind of job does your BF have? Do you realize that he will be held financially responsible for both his mother and you for a long time? This is a huge financial commitment for him! 

You will not be allowed to work until you receive your work authorization (if the K1 is the option you are going for) so that would even be a bigger financial burden as you will not be able to contribute to the household financially.

 

The way your posts read, you do not seem to have any empathy or understanding for the huge responsibility your BF would have to take on. It seems to have to be all about you and your wants..

 

A good relationship/marriage should be based on equality and respect for each other, both should be investing in it..

Edited July 4, 2019 by Daphne K

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@Jorgedig Basically just got done with school ,am Self Employed...Generally there is nothing big am doing here ,just want to live with my man..he always it as well cz it’s him who talks about it a lot ...the for him he thinks applying for 2 visas at the same time will raise flags or One /all will be denied or they will take along time than Expected...yet it’s not the case...So how should I talk to him about the issue ? 

[NikLR 13,227]

Your boyfriend should join when he has questions about the immigration process. 

[Pinkrlion 2,716]

If he does not want to file 2 at a time. What are you going to talk to him about? That is the decision that he made. He asked u earlier and u said no, so now u have to wait. I agree with the financial support needed in filing for someone. Filing one at a time makes good sense. 

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Ok

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@Daphne K thanks for Explaining to me now I understand...I didn’t know all that ...it’s not about my wants my dear ...it’s about seeking Advice according to what I want ...I live in Uganda never been in the US be4 how would I have known all that without someone Explaining to me ?

Edited July 4, 2019 by Kahunde Doreen

[Daphne . 1,852]

2 hours ago, Kahunde Doreen said:

@Daphne K thanks for Explaining to me now I understand...I didn’t know all that ...it’s not about my wants my dear ...it’s about seeking Advice according to what I want ...I live in Uganda never been in the US be4 how would I have known all that without someone Explaining to me ?

You would have known all that if you would have looked up information about the K1 and did some very basic research before.. I don’t understand how you could have talked about it “a lot” with your BF and have no idea about the process and the enormous costs and responsibilities that come with it. 

Your question was very specific, not a general question like “where can I find information about the K1 visa”. 

If you really are as uninformed about the process as you claim to be, I suggest that you and your BF both start educating yourselves about the process. You can find all the processes under the ‘guides’ tab at the top of the page. It will be an eye opener I hope!

 

 

[Just Paul 4,595]

What is your boyfriends status in the United States?   Is he a Citizen or Lawful Permanent Resident?

[NikLR 13,227]

2 hours ago, Paul & Mary said:

What is your boyfriends status in the United States?   Is he a Citizen or Lawful Permanent Resident?

Op has said several times that he's a citizen.  Plus he's petitioning for his mother, and only a citizen can do that. 

[NikLR 13,227]

5 hours ago, Kahunde Doreen said:

@Daphne K thanks for Explaining to me now I understand...I didn’t know all that ...it’s not about my wants my dear ...it’s about seeking Advice according to what I want ...I live in Uganda never been in the US be4 how would I have known all that without someone Explaining to me ?

Research.

 

I knew the processes and the pros and cons before we were married for 2 countries. 

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@Daphne K I don’t see the reason why you should be rude ...if you can read through my lines I don’t remember where I asked about the k1 Visa cz I know ...what I asked about was if it’s possible to file 2 visas at the same  and the requirements ok ...so I don’t really know where your getting your point of view ,....Thanks  for your concern 

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@Daphne K Am the Victim here,I don’t see the reason why you should be rude ...if you didn’t want to be helpful to my situation...you would have just passed the post ...instead of judging 

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10 hours ago, Kahunde Doreen said:

@Daphne K thanks for Explaining to me now I understand...I didn’t know all that ...it’s not about my wants my dear ...it’s about seeking Advice according to what I want ...I live in Uganda never been in the US be4 how would I have known all that without someone Explaining to me ?

How do you know you want to live here if you’ve never even been?

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@Jorgedig Is that a Question really?or am I the 1st one not to have been in a country ...hmmm🤔