what do you thnk?

[Nearly Done 8]

My boss came into work today and told me about one of our customers. The customer is a registered sex offender!!! I just went online to check. ######!!! I speak often with this customer and my little girl gets dropped off at work from the school bus. It makes me sick to think that he has even spoken with her!

Anyway I am totally shocked and don't know how I will be when he comes back in!!! I don't give a ###### how much money he spends in there!!!

[almaty 19]

i can understand your horror, but remember when he is in the store, he is a customer...i do not want you to get into any trouble...

[Nearly Done 8]

i can understand your horror, but remember when he is in the store, he is a customer...i do not want you to get into any trouble...

Yes your right and I will be normal..ish with him.

[SteveLaura 0]

Also remember that he may not necessarily be a paedophile.

Sex offender registration has been applied to crimes other than rape, child molestation, and child pornography offenses.

Teenagers have been forced to register after being convicted of having consensual sex with other teens. In some jurisdictions, repeat misdemeanor convictions for public urination or public lewdness can trigger registration. Occasionally, people on probation for non-sexual offenses are required to register if the probation authority believes them to be at risk for committing a sexual offense.

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[almaty 19]

i can understand your horror, but remember when he is in the store, he is a customer...i do not want you to get into any trouble...

Yes your right and I will be normal..ish with him.

cool...i know it will be difficult....

[KarenCee 3]

This person may not be a paedophile but to me, a sex offender is a sex offender. I would be very uncomfortable around such.

[Nearly Done 8]

Also remember that he may not necessarily be a paedophile.

Sex offender registration has been applied to crimes other than rape, child molestation, and child pornography offenses.

Teenagers have been forced to register after being convicted of having consensual sex with other teens. In some jurisdictions, repeat misdemeanor convictions for public urination or public lewdness can trigger registration. Occasionally, people on probation for non-sexual offenses are required to register if the probation authority believes them to be at risk for committing a sexual offense.

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Yes I understand , I did read what he was charged with and it was againt 2 young children. I am in shock really!

[Sinergy 3]

Just keep your cool, you dont wanna lose your job over him. I would however have a talk with your kid about staying away from him

[Nearly Done 8]

This person may not be a paedophile but to me, a sex offender is a sex offender. I would be very uncomfortable around such.

Absolutely!!! and to me it does not matter to what degree the offense was either. Touching any child in a sexual manner makes me sick!!! I am so bloody shocked, I talk to this piece of ###### almost everyday!!!

[Nearly Done 8]

Just keep your cool, you dont wanna lose your job over him. I would however have a talk with your kid about staying away from him

I just warned my daughter and showed her his pic. She is usually only in work with me for about 20mins and I do keep a close eye on her. I will keep my cool, to be honest my boss who I get along with is furious about this customer,he too is in shock.

[KarenCee 3]

This person may not be a paedophile but to me, a sex offender is a sex offender. I would be very uncomfortable around such.

Absolutely!!! and to me it does not matter to what degree the offense was either. Touching any child in a sexual manner makes me sick!!! I am so bloody shocked, I talk to this piece of ###### almost everyday!!!

*sigh* Hopefully things will change for you Margy and you won't have to deal with this person. I have no sympathies NOR do I have any understanding in my heart or soul for someone who will do such a beastly thing to a child. People who do these things make me sick to my very soul.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Is there a recommended site for advice for parents in such situations? From what I understand, such perpetrators seek out victims that are easy prey - perhaps there are visible signals/signs that you as a parent can project to make it clear you very protective of your child?

[Nearly Done 8]

This person may not be a paedophile but to me, a sex offender is a sex offender. I would be very uncomfortable around such.

Absolutely!!! and to me it does not matter to what degree the offense was either. Touching any child in a sexual manner makes me sick!!! I am so bloody shocked, I talk to this piece of ###### almost everyday!!!

*sigh* Hopefully things will change for you Margy and you won't have to deal with this person. I have no sympathies NOR do I have any understanding in my heart or soul for someone who will do such a beastly thing to a child. People who do these things make me sick to my very soul.

Thank you, you are so right I don't have sympathies or understanding of these people and I heard someone say it is an illness to them!!!Grrrrrrrr makes me mad!!! I feel sick that I have even laughed and joked with this person!!

I am sorry if I am coming across like a raving lunatic, but I am truly shocked.

[Nearly Done 8]

Is there a recommended site for advice for parents in such situations? From what I understand, such perpetrators seek out victims that are easy prey - perhaps there are visible signals/signs that you as a parent can project to make it clear you very protective of your child?

Yes I am sure there is. I am so tempted to put pics of the local sex offenders in work to warn people!!! but I am sure it won't be legal in some way and ofcourse I am sure I won't be allowed to do that. I just spoke with my boss, he asked whether I had checked it out on here. He is as shocked and sickened as me. I told him it will be very hard for me to be normal to him again. He told me not to worry about it and be the way I want, he will support me.

[Nearly Done 8]

I have to add, I am not going to start calling him names or show him that he makes me sick BUT I am sure he will be able to tell that I am aware of him and what he has done. I just won't be friendly anymore, but still give customer care!!!