APPROVED, ALREADY IN USA BUT FIANCE BROKE UP

[Sextus Empiricus 15]

If this is how he's behaving, be thankful he showed his hand before you got married and have to go through a divorce. See the glass half full instead of half empty. Enjoy the USA as a tourist for the duration of your stay and return before your authorized stay expires.

 

There's really nothing you can do. It sucks but that's life, you keep your head up and keep moving on.

[Cryssiekins 976]

2 minutes ago, missileman said:

She's monitoring the thread....

Interesting.

 

To me it reads that this is a relatively young couple, if her USC fiancé just disappeared and his mom wanted to cancel the visa.  Sounds like something a parent does when their 18 year old kid is like “I’m getting married to a foreigner I met one time”.

[TBoneTX 44,787]

Noncontributory posts and quotes thereof have been removed.  Confine your posting to answering the OP's questions or seeking clarification.

[Boiler 44,943]

She could not get a K1 and be underage, wonder what her plan was coming to the US? To live off child benefit?

Edited June 17, 2019 by Boiler

[TBoneTX 44,787]

2 hours ago, aleful said:

you need to return to your country [...] you have to return to your country

One option, but the better answer is:

2 hours ago, missileman said:

you will have to leave the US

^^ This. ^^

[USS_Voyager 1,972]

20 minutes ago, Boiler said:

She could not get a K1 and be underage, wonder what her plan was coming to the US? To live off child benefit?

I don't know, but I'm gonna give her the benefit of the doubt, that is she came with the hope of finding this guy and reconciliation. It's a possibility. 

[BethyWink 96]

It sounds like your fiance broke up with you, and you still chose to come to the country and wanted to sue him for breaking up with you?   That is not a thing.  Engagement is not a legal status of relationship.   

 

You can apply for child support, but then he has the right to get a DNA test to prove if the kid is his.  You will still not be able to stay in America, regardless of that.  The baby will be a US citizen but it still will not give you the right to stay here.  

 

I would book a ticket home, and call it a day. 

 

Are the Adoptive parents going to adopt YOUR baby?!  Is that what you mean? 

[Cryssiekins 976]

28 minutes ago, USS_Voyager said:

I don't know, but I'm gonna give her the benefit of the doubt, that is she came with the hope of finding this guy and reconciliation. It's a possibility. 

Agreed.  I’m really leaning towards they are very young adults, and perhaps he lives at home and surprised his parents with news of a soon-arriving foreign fiancé.  I can tell you, as a 30-year old when I got my K1, I would not have come over if contact was lost with my fiancé.  

 

Curious though, where she’s staying?  Or surviving?  

[arken 4,197]

6 minutes ago, Cryssiekins said:

Agreed.  I’m really leaning towards they are very young adults, and perhaps he lives at home and surprised his parents with news of a soon-arriving foreign fiancé.  I can tell you, as a 30-year old when I got my K1, I would not have come over if contact was lost with my fiancé.  

 

Curious though, where she’s staying?  Or surviving?  

Per her post she is living with her soon-to-be adoptive parents. She is already referring to them as parents. Not sure how the adoption works for an adult person.

Edited June 17, 2019 by arken

[portorusa 431]

10 minutes ago, arken said:

Per her post she is living with her soon-to-be adoptive parents. She is already referring to them as parents. Not sure how the adoption works for an adult person.

I think she meant to say, the potential adoptive parents for her yet unborn baby.

[Amadia 711]

Fiance visa is a single entry. Like others have stated, you need to leave before your 90 days have ended. 

It sucks that this has happened to you but there must be some reason why your fiance spent the money to file for you only to withdraw himself from the situation.....

[USS_Voyager 1,972]

41 minutes ago, arken said:

Per her post she is living with her soon-to-be adoptive parents. She is already referring to them as parents. Not sure how the adoption works for an adult person.

That could mean anything. My biological Mom still refers to my host family as "adoptive". I came as a J1 exchange visitor many many moons ago and stayed one year in an American host family, who was a lesbian couple. That was one interesting year. 

[arken 4,197]

34 minutes ago, portorusa said:

I think she meant to say, the potential adoptive parents for her yet unborn baby.

Yes, likely, probably planned well before visa was granted.

[Biffa 89]

Try and find this man while you are here and try to reconcile. I can imagine you don’t want to live in a different country to the father of your child. Try reconcile with this man and ask him to be reasonable with the situation (both of you) created! 

 

It will be difficult for you to claim child support from a different country. I am guessing you hopped on the flight because you thought there was still hope. Give it a good shot atleast so when you fly back to your home country you know you tired and that one day you can tell your child you tried your best when you have to explain this situation in the years to come.  

[Cryssiekins 976]

2 minutes ago, USS_Voyager said:

That could mean anything. My biological Mom still refers to my host family as "adoptive". I came as a J1 exchange visitor many many moons ago and stayed one year in an American host family, who was a lesbian couple. That was one interesting year. 

Very true.  My parents had an international student once, and some of the terminology used was incorrect to my ear. English is a difficult language (for me too, and it’s my first one) so sometimes words or phrases are used interchangeably, in error, but the general jist is the same.  

 

Unless adults can be adopted... in which case, I need to have a billionaire and his wife take on a slight used, but still shiny 33 year old princess without a crown