VAWA, Part 14

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

Just now, FeDaniela said:

I will like to know too, because mines with childrens even thought i already setter child support and custody they still wants to go over $1,500... This is the reason i have waited i cannot afford this right now.

And here I was hoping we could get the answer from you Daniella!😂😂 ok we in trouble now😕😕

[Trizzle 194]

3 minutes ago, sparrowxxx419 said:

That is just wicked. Yeah, you’re right he should take it easy and not in a hurry since he has his green card now 

Yeah I was thinking about waiting a bit but it was just shocking she popped up back in town, went about and got my number and demanding money. Even wants me to pay off her debts which is roughly $30,000.00 😳😳😳😳😳 and ranting about not filing for my green card. “Was just laughing to my self.”  So I said I want a divorce and she said I have to pay her. So this is what I’m gonna do, just finish clearing my bills and whenever I save up I’ll just use a lawyer and just avoid her cuz she’s still being aggressive and saying bad things to me. 

[FeDaniela 673]

Just now, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

And here I was hoping we could get the answer from you Daniella!😂😂 ok we in trouble now😕😕

 Nooo 😨😨 I still searching for this , NYC have do it yourself option online, for uncontested one but is not accepted if you have children. but when you open the files is around 20 pages of documents which i can easily make a mistake the will not benefit me. and is also very confusing... So when searching for pro-bono or legal aid they just want to answer some questions but not help you all the way thru it... So i guess i will wait for next year to afford it . Any suggestion did you got divorce?? 

[Trizzle 194]

5 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

Do you want to marry again soon? If not take it easy! A time will come when your spouse will want to move on..and will be the one pleading to be set free! How about that...or you can pay the ridiculous fees..😏

I don’t think she will wanna move on anytime soon. I haven’t seen her since May 2017 and she finally showed up June 2019 without a text or phone call during that period. I don’t think that’s a person that is willing to get a divorce easily because technically she thinks I don’t have a green card and if she’s still married to me I can’t file for a green card or get remarried. She’s devious like that. 

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4 minutes ago, Trizzle said:

Yeah I was thinking about waiting a bit but it was just shocking she popped up back in town, went about and got my number and demanding money. Even wants me to pay off her debts which is roughly $30,000.00 😳😳😳😳😳 and ranting about not filing for my green card. “Was just laughing to my self.”  So I said I want a divorce and she said I have to pay her. So this is what I’m gonna do, just finish clearing my bills and whenever I save up I’ll just use a lawyer and just avoid her cuz she’s still being aggressive and saying bad things to me. 

Well sounds like a plan! 👍 you got it all figured out!

[FeDaniela 673]

7 minutes ago, Trizzle said:

Yeah I was thinking about waiting a bit but it was just shocking she popped up back in town, went about and got my number and demanding money. Even wants me to pay off her debts which is roughly $30,000.00 😳😳😳😳😳 and ranting about not filing for my green card. “Was just laughing to my self.”  So I said I want a divorce and she said I have to pay her. So this is what I’m gonna do, just finish clearing my bills and whenever I save up I’ll just use a lawyer and just avoid her cuz she’s still being aggressive and saying bad things to me. 

This is something serious the clerk told me the same way we divided properties also the debt have to divided I was in shock.. 

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2 minutes ago, FeDaniela said:

 Nooo 😨😨 I still searching for this , NYC have do it yourself option online, for uncontested one but is not accepted if you have children. but when you open the files is around 20 pages of documents which i can easily make a mistake the will not benefit me. and is also very confusing... So when searching for pro-bono or legal aid they just want to answer some questions but not help you all the way thru it... So i guess i will wait for next year to afford it . Any suggestion did you got divorce?? 

I'm not divorced yet..we don't have kids together..I'm planning on filing any time now..but not really in a hurry! It's definitely uncontested!

[Kleenex12 107]

9 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

If you talking about Louisville KY here's the processing times I found for your location:

 

1. 10.5 Months to 25 Months
   Employment-based adjustment applications
   June 03, 2017
2. 11 Months to 23.5 Months
   Family-based adjustment applications
   July 27, 2017

Yes, i was supprise when i got schedule that early!so i really don’t trust this timelines at times 

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

1 minute ago, Kleenex12 said:

Yes, i was supprise when i got schedule that early!so i really don’t trust this timelines at times 

This is just what I wanted to hear! I keep saying I've seen cases go faster than others regardless of field office..now it's confirmed!😊

[sparrowxxx419 31]

16 minutes ago, Trizzle said:

Yeah I was thinking about waiting a bit but it was just shocking she popped up back in town, went about and got my number and demanding money. Even wants me to pay off her debts which is roughly $30,000.00 😳😳😳😳😳 and ranting about not filing for my green card. “Was just laughing to my self.”  So I said I want a divorce and she said I have to pay her. So this is what I’m gonna do, just finish clearing my bills and whenever I save up I’ll just use a lawyer and just avoid her cuz she’s still being aggressive and saying bad things to me. 

So sorry you’re going through all these. Everyone of us is. Mine was uncontested,no kids nor properties. I signed it last weekend . Am just waiting for the judge to sign the final decree. I can always get the final decree from the court where she filed it. These people treat us so badly and it’s very unnecessary all because we are trying to better ourselves here. 

[Apolo 314]

24 minutes ago, Trizzle said:

Yeah I was thinking about waiting a bit but it was just shocking she popped up back in town, went about and got my number and demanding money. Even wants me to pay off her debts which is roughly $30,000.00 😳😳😳😳😳 and ranting about not filing for my green card. “Was just laughing to my self.”  So I said I want a divorce and she said I have to pay her. So this is what I’m gonna do, just finish clearing my bills and whenever I save up I’ll just use a lawyer and just avoid her cuz she’s still being aggressive and saying bad things to me. 

In filed in Maryland and i didn't had to pay anything i filed my divorce under domestic violence and abuse and everything went ok.

[sabina4 2]

how long does it take to get a biometrics appointment after having filed for vawa and adjustment of status at the same time? do they give you an scheduled date?

[Trizzle 194]

20 minutes ago, Apolo said:

In filed in Maryland and i didn't had to pay anything i filed my divorce under domestic violence and abuse and everything went ok.

Ok thanks I’ll look into this but I realize each state is different. But I’ll still look into it. 

[Trizzle 194]

32 minutes ago, sparrowxxx419 said:

So sorry you’re going through all these. Everyone of us is. Mine was uncontested,no kids nor properties. I signed it last weekend . Am just waiting for the judge to sign the final decree. I can always get the final decree from the court where she filed it. These people treat us so badly and it’s very unnecessary all because we are trying to better ourselves here. 

I wish I was in your position right now. Thought it would be all over but I guess it still continues as long as you keep in touch with your abusive spouse. Imma just stop communicate with her and get a lawyer ASAP. 

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[Trizzle 194]

18 minutes ago, sabina4 said:

how long does it take to get a biometrics appointment after having filed for vawa and adjustment of status at the same time? do they give you an scheduled date?

It depends. I’ve seen persons get RFE early before biometrics but normally should be between 4 weeks to 3 months. Could be earlier could be later. It’s not cast in stone.