VAWA, Part 14

[Modu 256]

3 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

Not everyone gets that notification! I never got any of that! It stayed silent for almost 18months..It felt dead to me..next thing I know..RFE! That was when communication started to the glory of GOD!😊

 

3 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

Not everyone gets that notification! I never got any of that! It stayed silent for almost 18months..It felt dead to me..next thing I know..RFE! That was when communication started to the glory of GOD!😊

Woah.... this USCIS thing is really crazy my dear.... Thank God you passed that evil stage... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😊thanks for the response Godbless

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13 minutes ago, Modu said:

 

Woah.... this USCIS thing is really crazy my dear.... Thank God you passed that evil stage... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😊thanks for the response Godbless

I know right..LOL thank God!

[sparrowxxx419 31]

So,I spoke to a divorce attorney as most people advised I do and showed them the paperwork my wife sent. I also spoke to the law library in the city where my wife filed the divorce from and I was told by the attorney that my divorce was a straight case and was uncontested since we both are on same page, have no kids and properties. I was also told by the library that when I send my wife the signed papers that she’ll send me the decree and which I’ll sign and send back to her and she’ll send back to the judge who signs the final divorce decree. 

 

Am am more worried about finishing up with my evaluations, therapy and getting the money together for my immigration lawyer than I am worried about this divorce. My wife just wants to use the divorce to send me out of the country because she knows once she files for the divorce, she knows it affects my i485 since we had our AOS interview January and still awaiting a response for the AOS concerning the AOS interview. 

I am so stressed out and eating less these days. 

 

After, I picked up the divorce papers on Friday. My soon to be ex.wife sends me a text message  saying she still loves me and terribly misses me. I just laughed 

[Wolf2020 19]

40 minutes ago, Pinkrlion said:

If ur son is a US Citizen VAWA does not apply. 

Why it doesn't apply to me the vawa 

My son is 2 and half year??

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1 minute ago, sparrowxxx419 said:

So,I spoke to a divorce attorney as most people advised I do and showed them the paperwork my wife sent. I also spoke to the law library in the city where my wife filed the divorce from and I was told by the attorney that my divorce was a straight case and was uncontested since we both are on same page, have no kids and properties. I was also told by the library that when I send my wife the signed papers that she’ll send me the decree and which I’ll sign and send back to her and she’ll send back to the judge who signs the final divorce decree. 

 

Am am more worried about finishing up with my evaluations, therapy and getting the money together for my immigration lawyer than I am worried about this divorce. My wife just wants to use the divorce to send me out of the country because she knows once she files for the divorce, she knows it affects my i485 since we had our AOS interview January and still awaiting a response for the AOS concerning the AOS interview. 

I am so stressed out and eating less these days. 

 

After, I picked up the divorce papers on Friday. My soon to be ex.wife sends me a text message  saying she still loves me and terribly misses me. I just laughed 

Great thing you sought a legal view on the matter! The divorce doesn't affect your case in any way as you've been told severally! I'm not a relationship expert but you really shouldn't be with someone who plays with your mind and heart in that manner..talk about I love you..after I've hurt you..nah! Just move on..VAWA is a completely different petition..regardless of what happens with your i485..if your VAWA is approved you can always adjust status based on an approved VAWA! #just my opinion!

[sparrowxxx419 31]

10 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

Great thing you sought a legal view on the matter! The divorce doesn't affect your case in any way as you've been told severally! I'm not a relationship expert but you really shouldn't be with someone who plays with your mind and heart in that manner..talk about I love you..after I've hurt you..nah! Just move on..VAWA is a completely different petition..regardless of what happens with your i485..if your VAWA is approved you can always adjust status based on an approved VAWA! #just my opinion!

Yes you’re right. But, what am worried about is since she filed the divorce first does it affect my vawa. And for those who their spouses divorced before they filed vawa, how did you get your final divorce decree after the divorce was finalized ? 

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

5 minutes ago, sparrowxxx419 said:

Yes you’re right. But, what am worried about is since she filed the divorce first does it affect my vawa. And for those who their spouses divorced before they filed vawa, how did you get your final divorce decree after the divorce was finalized ? 

Who filed for divorce first is never and has never been a criteria to qualify for the petition! I've seen various responses including mine assuring you it doesn't affect you..since it doesn't affect your VAWA it will help to focus on the way forward..for more assurance these informations are online..read more about VAWA it probably will help give more credence to what we've been saying! 

Edited June 10, 2019 by Stillwinning!!!😊

[Shroy123 749]

Update- received 4th prima facie today although I applied for renewal last week. still waiting for RFE letter. probably i will get it tomorrow 

 

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28 minutes ago, Shroy123 said:

Update- received 4th prima facie today although I applied for renewal last week. still waiting for RFE letter. probably i will get it tomorrow 

 

Good to know that, we'll all get there! It only gets better!😊 👍

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3 hours ago, sandranj said:

You can  file I-131 but your attorney will find out about it.   Most attorneys resign when they find out the person filed without informing them, just tell your attorney that you will will submit form I-131 because you can't afford to pay his/her fees.

Thank you @sandranj. I was wondering about that.

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3 hours ago, Strife said:

Do we start counting our VAWA approval from the time a new card is being produced under C31, or do we count from the time our case status online changes to “approved”. Just wondering. Anyone with helpful info pls share. Thank you 😊 

I have always wanted to know the answer to this here question but watch this...my card production date was March 28th..official approval update was April 26th..but in an answer to an enquiry I had made through my representative to USCIS, they used this phrase.."your constituents case was approved on the 28th of March....." This here statement answered the very question you asked! When your case is approved, then they produce your card..so I think card production is the same with approval! It's just that after few paper works and all other administrative processes, it is then updated to APPROVED! At least that's how I perceive it!

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11 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

I have always wanted to know the answer to this here question but watch this...my card production date was March 28th..official approval update was April 26th..but in an answer to an enquiry I had made through my representative to USCIS, they used this phrase.."your constituents case was approved on the 28th of March....." This here statement answered the very question you asked! When your case is approved, then they produce your card..so I think card production is the same with approval! It's just that after few paper works and all other administrative processes, it is then updated to APPROVED! At least that's how I perceive it!

@Stillwinning!!!😊 thank you for the helpful info. Also, I's like to thank you for keeping the spirit of positiveness and love alive on this forum. Sending much love and blessings your way!

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2 minutes ago, Strife said:

@Stillwinning!!!😊 thank you for the helpful info. Also, I's like to thank you for keeping the spirit of positiveness and love alive on this forum. Sending much love and blessings your way!

Thank you..it's folks like you that keep me encouraged! I get more love than opposition..90/10(love/opposition) I'll take it anyday!!!😘😍 all the way up ☝🙌 nothing can stop us..🎶💃😂😂

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9 minutes ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

Thank you..it's folks like you that keep me encouraged! I get more love than opposition..90/10(love/opposition) I'll take it anyday!!!😘😍 all the way up ☝🙌 nothing can stop us..🎶💃😂😂

well said. As Martin King Luther said; "Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that."

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

2 minutes ago, Strife said:

well said. As Martin King Luther said; "Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that."

👍 you've got yourself a new fan!😊 I choose wisdom everytime! Godbless you dear!🙏 waiting to celebrate your good news!