VAWA, Part 14

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

2 hours ago, AJJU said:

My suggestion is you should get back together. Love don't just happen.

It's brave to kiss and make up, however when love hurts, it WON'T work!!! A cycle has been established! Meaning 10 times out of 10 it will continue!!! These people do NOT suddenly change!!!

[Elisana 33]

16 hours ago, Trizzle said:

I’ve never heard of someone getting a negative result from a RFE. It’s kinda hard to mess up a RFE response because the RFE itself will be specific what USCIS needs from you. Most of the time is something missing, additional information/document or needs some clarification. Good luck. 

HAPPY to known that are moving,I'm march 23 2018

[Optimistic1986 146]

On 7/17/2019 at 12:06 AM, CrimsonWarrior26 said:

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We’re only married for a year. He said he will go to the interview no matter what. I’m also afraid what he’s going to tell them. It’s a genuine marriage. I left the house 3x and called the police 2x on him and he was arrested. Im just worried how this interview will turn out. I have no intention of lying to the IO but I’m sure he will deny everythind and will put the blame on me.

Upon reading your story, we have a similar situation. He promised to show up to the interview too then after few days told me he’s going to screw it all up ( interview was coming in about two weeks)  but a week before that we went to court for the FINAL RESTRAINING ORDER. I did not believed his BS. The whole process broke my heart, crushed my world completely but I’ve had enough of the abuse. The abuse has been going on for more than a year, I had bruises everywhere and lost myself in the process. ABUSE IS A NEVER ENDING CYCLE. GET OUT NOW WHILE YOU CAN. SAFETY IS THE TOP PRIORITY! 

 

[Adex2rise 3]

On 7/13/2019 at 8:00 PM, Kersac said:

I dont think $500 is cheap. And you should not just be looking at cost. You should concentrate more on quality. I had a pretty good 15 page evaluation report at the end of my sessions and it was clearly professionally written, no doubt about it. I did my psychological evaliation in dallas, Texas around Farmer's Branch area and it costed me $1500 but i was pretty satisfied with the report. So, be very careful with who ever is asking for $500. Check their history, and their experience with immigration. At the end of the day, what you want is a pretty good report that is going to help your VAWA petition and i realized when i was shopping for a psychologist that a lot of them really didnt understand what i was asking for. Once i noticed that i just moved on to the next because my thinking is that if you dont know what i am asking for then you dont have experience writing the kind of report that i wanted. That should be your thought process going into this. The last thing you need is a psychological evaluation report that will be sent back for clarification and i have seen some people in this forum who had request from USCIS for clarifications about their psychological evaluation report. So please be careful as you shop and dont concentrate solely on just cheap cost. I know money is a big deal and a lot of us can not afford but your priority should be a good quality report first before cost. If cost is really a very big deal then try the charity organizations or Bro bonos psychologist who are usually tough to get to. 

Thanks for your reply...would do as suggested..Thanks and God bless 

[Adex2rise 3]

On 7/13/2019 at 7:59 PM, FridayGirl@69 said:

Look for catholic charities or a Jewish organization they give help to all regardless your religion. I do go to Josselyn Center in Northfield Illinois. Try in your area plus when I lived there I went to The Looking Glass $70 per session.

I hope it helps, best!

Thanks@fridaygirl..would look around hopefully I can find one 

[Roms2017 115]

1 hour ago, Adex2rise said:

Thanks@fridaygirl..would look around hopefully I can find one 

Hi Guys 

How are you doing?

Not many people called for interview yet? I keep praying for you guys to be called so ya go and bring that GC.

On my side i am doing good,when i woke up i looked my GC, i just Thank God.

More interviews coming soon in

1 month 

God bless

[portorusa 431]

13 hours ago, AJJU said:

My suggestion is you should get back together. Love don't just happen.

What a bad advise from someone who clearly has never been abused, has no idea what abuse is and how the cycle of abuse works. God bless your ignorance and you are welcome to read and get informed and educated on this subforum, but please please refrain from saying something that may have a negative impact or confuse the OP.

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1 hour ago, Roms2017 said:

Hi Guys 

How are you doing?

Not many people called for interview yet? I keep praying for you guys to be called so ya go and bring that GC.

On my side i am doing good,when i woke up i looked my GC, i just Thank God.

More interviews coming soon in

1 month 

God bless

Am tapping in this and claiming it, in Jesus name amen

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5 hours ago, Optimistic1986 said:

Upon reading your story, we have a similar situation. He promised to show up to the interview too then after few days told me he’s going to screw it all up ( interview was coming in about two weeks)  but a week before that we went to court for the FINAL RESTRAINING ORDER. I did not believed his BS. The whole process broke my heart, crushed my world completely but I’ve had enough of the abuse. The abuse has been going on for more than a year, I had bruises everywhere and lost myself in the process. ABUSE IS A NEVER ENDING CYCLE. GET OUT NOW WHILE YOU CAN. SAFETY IS THE TOP PRIORITY! 

 

Well said👏👏 I hope Crimson warrior26 will see the wisdom of our collective advice and gather the courage and strength to leave before it's too late! In many words we have all said just about the same thing! It's an unpleasant merry go round! There's no happiness there! LORD!! Don't be part of the statistics for reference, RUN🏃girl RUN!!

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1 hour ago, Roms2017 said:

Hi Guys 

How are you doing?

Not many people called for interview yet? I keep praying for you guys to be called so ya go and bring that GC.

On my side i am doing good,when i woke up i looked my GC, i just Thank God.

More interviews coming soon in

1 month 

God bless

Hey you😊👋 we're good over here looking forward to the future and praying it holds peace, joy and happiness! Most folks have been waiting 4eva😏..I pray also for a season of unlimited testimonies on here🙏 Godbless you!

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is uscis case status site down all day? its not working for me

[FridayGirl@69 318]

21 hours ago, Sunnyman said:

Divorce decree of previous marriage or with the abuser? Response will be appreciated. Thanks in advance 

Previous marriage 

27 minutes ago, ahmad- said:

is uscis case status site down all day? its not working for me

It is under maintenance 

[FridayGirl@69 318]

38 minutes ago, ahmad- said:

is uscis case status site down all day? its not working for me

It is under maintenance 

[Optimistic1986 146]

1 hour ago, Stillwinning!!!😊 said:

Well said👏👏 I hope Crimson warrior26 will see the wisdom of our collective advice and gather the courage and strength to leave before it's too late! In many words we have all said just about the same thing! It's an unpleasant merry go round! There's no happiness there! LORD!! Don't be part of the statistics for reference, RUN🏃girl RUN!!

Thanks hun, I just want her to realize that it’s hard to cut the cycle the longer you stay in an abusive relationship!

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2 minutes ago, Optimistic1986 said:

Thanks hun, I just want her to realize that it’s hard to cut the cycle the longer you stay in an abusive relationship!

👍😘Gn.