JUST A RANT(update merged)

[Going through 5,671]

I've asked the  Mods to merge the two threads, since this one is an update of that, so all info is in one place (and makes for easier reading).

 

Best of luck to you---you tried to make this work with her, and hopefully you can move on to a brighter future.

[Boris Farage 353]

I read your other thread. Take it from another immigrant who propped up and spoiled his American wife, divorce is an excellent option. Doesn't sound like there is much left for you to save. Don't end up like me, six years invested in the marriage and I find out that not only have I been bankrolling her for years (she was a housewife), she was also having an affair with my best friend. As they say in this country, lawyer up. Get the best representation you can afford, because it sounds like she will. 

 

Best of luck to you. One day this will all be in the past. 

[Cryssiekins 976]

Your wife is disgusting.  I know there are plenty of immigrants with malicious intent against USC’s, but your USC wife is taking extreme advantage of you.  

 

I’m sorry your wife has treated you in such a cruel way- but you have done everything you can (and then some) to make it work.  She is a spoiled little brat.  

 

Divorce is never easy, but in 5 years you will be in a much better place than she will.  

[Ontarkie 14,234]

~~Update thread merged to existing thread. Please keep further updates to this one thread. It really does help to keep everything to one thread.~~

[Rohit004 8]

40 minutes ago, Boris Farage said:

I read your other thread. Take it from another immigrant who propped up and spoiled his American wife, divorce is an excellent option. Doesn't sound like there is much left for you to save. Don't end up like me, six years invested in the marriage and I find out that not only have I been bankrolling her for years (she was a housewife), she was also having an affair with my best friend. As they say in this country, lawyer up. Get the best representation you can afford, because it sounds like she will. 

 

Best of luck to you. One day this will all be in the past. 

Sorry to hear about you experience.  I hope you're in a better place now.

 

25 minutes ago, Cryssiekins said:

Your wife is disgusting.  I know there are plenty of immigrants with malicious intent against USC’s, but your USC wife is taking extreme advantage of you.  

 

I’m sorry your wife has treated you in such a cruel way- but you have done everything you can (and then some) to make it work.  She is a spoiled little brat.  

 

Divorce is never easy, but in 5 years you will be in a much better place than she will.  

I have decided to move along. Best of luck to her.

 

43 minutes ago, Going through said:

I've asked the  Mods to merge the two threads, since this one is an update of that, so all info is in one place (and makes for easier reading).

 

Best of luck to you---you tried to make this work with her, and hopefully you can move on to a brighter future.

Thanks 

[Rohit004 8]

I have been asking her to pay up her portion of the insurance. Seems I will not be getting the money. Yes, i can pay for it. However, the agreement was that she would pay her portion as I literary pay for everything. 

[Going through 5,671]

Did you take her off the policy?  Let her figure it out on her own now.

[Rohit004 8]

11 minutes ago, Going through said:

Did you take her off the policy?  Let her figure it out on her own now.

I am doing that tomorrow.  

I came off work early today so that I can fill out the divorce forms. I am hoping for a easy uncontested divorce.  I just sent them over to her by email so that she can look at them and we can meet at notary and all she does is sign. My game plan is to have her sign before I waste money and then she refuses to give me a divorce. I know some documents have to be filed in court first before she signs the remaining set. But I am hoping to "forward date" her signature when we meet at the notary. This will give me atleast some time to file the first set of papers and then the rest will all fall in place perfectly

She's now busy calling. 4 times in 2 mins.  Probably she is gonna throw insults. I will call her in a few and update here. I have to play nice so that she can not retaliate and refuse to show up at the notary.

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[Going through 5,671]

7 minutes ago, Rohit004 said:

But I am hoping to "forward date" her signature when we meet at the notary.

Notaries normally will not agree to post-dating signatures/stamps, if this what you meant.

 

If the document itself is post-dated in the future, that's one thing and it can be notarized...but if you're asking the Notary to write in a different date as to the actual date they notarized your signature(s), unlikely to happen.

Edited June 25, 2019 by Going through

[Rohit004 8]

1 hour ago, Going through said:

Notaries normally will not agree to post-dating signatures/stamps, if this what you meant.

 

If the document itself is post-dated in the future, that's one thing and it can be notarized...but if you're asking the Notary to write in a different date as to the actual date they notarized your signature(s), unlikely to happen.

OMG..time for plan B..

 

Anyway, I talked to her. Rude as hell. And she's asking for $500 as a favor 

[Going through 5,671]

4 hours ago, Rohit004 said:

Anyway, I talked to her. Rude as hell. And she's asking for $500 as a favor

Nice...she's asking you for money and then on the flipside refusing to pay her share of the insurance.

 

My suggestion is to retain a lawyer, and then communicate with her only through them.

 

Please tell me you don't have any children with her.

[Rohit004 8]

4 hours ago, Going through said:

Nice...she's asking you for money and then on the flipside refusing to pay her share of the insurance.

 

My suggestion is to retain a lawyer, and then communicate with her only through them.

 

Please tell me you don't have any children with her.

Nope. I don't have any kids. 

 

I sent her the paperwork for uncontested divorce.  I am to get some $4000 from insurance due to my car getting damaged. She just called me and threatened that she's gonna contest for that. So I told her to go ahead and since we're contesting, I'd be contesting her $30000 car too. So she's gonna owe me $13000 more. What a fool. 

 

Her lawyer has already scooped up $1500 and now since she's turning this into a contest, I'll sit and wait. Then drag it so that she ends up paying the lawyer more. Why would I let your lawyer contest my car payment and not contest your car??

 

And by the way, her mom called me too this morning trying to sweet talk me. We talked for an hour. She's trying to make me forgive her daughter. 

[Rohit004 8]

By midday when I get my break, I will upload screenshots

[Boiler 45,559]

Sounds like she wants to do this the hard way, screams entitlement.

[Rohit004 8]

Will upload remaining 3 later. I cant figure out why I cannot upload all 5 at once