need help on divorced please

[welldone12345 0]

hi everyone 

my friend told me go to this website this is my first time i am here and i read some story about people but right now i am living in nightmare , I will make my story short and fair .

 

I got married to us citizen 6 years ago and i come to america 4 years ago and got green card 10 years them apply for naturalization and got my passport  everything  i have been wonderful husband i did take care of my 82 years mother in law i have been take care of my wife since i married her never cheat never go to bar never do anything bad to hurts my family even tho they were all so hateful to me and her mother was always against me on our married which is i forget it and let it go long time ago but we do happy married with faith during this time I have been take care of my wife mother in law and my step daughter were with us too for short while cos she got no job and she was not getting job or never apply and was always waiting for my paycheck i work before full time right now i am part time and its hard for me to do paid the bills and everything on time and i am only one suffer from this nightmare take care of my step daughter  and mother in law and my wife which is non of them working and depend on me right now my wife and me has been fighting lately a lot cos she wants  to me take care of our step grand kids which is 16 and 14 both are grow up and living in another states this is gonna be very hard and nightmare for me to take care of all of them with my part time job and unhappy stress worried sick in stomach everyday wake up screaming yells in our house mom fighting with daughter and daughter fighting with mother every day every day i am listening it and i just let it go but i am sick and tired of it and I just want to move on from here my wife told me that if i ever moved out i have to be deported or have to paid her 600$ a month to take care of everyone else i don't never understand that why i have to paid her we never have child together and i have always paid bills even tho i did everything for her buy her car help her on everything which is as husband everyone supposed to do but i am not responded for everyone  else so please help me i have no body this country and i am lost and stress and losing my hair everyday and under alot of presser.

 

Can anyone tell me how to started getting divorced  and move on from this nightmare please ?

 

What are my chance am i getting deport  ? i am us citizen got passport last year 

anyone if i can moved on to another states how to started divorced ? papers or anything like that please ?

 

I highly thanks to everyone to help me in this matter 

 

 

[VNN 147]

- You must establish your residency and it must be established for certain period of time. You need to check this requirement. 

 

- Complicated divorce requires a (good) divorce lawyer. I tried to do a divorce paperwork before, even there was no contest and it was not easy .

 

- You are USC. Only US Government can revoke your USC but they must have a valid reason and prove that you lied to get your USC. The chance of deportation is like 0.000001% (I make this up but the point is do not worry).

 

Edited: You may consider to place some “.” and “,”. Very hard to follow your story.

 

Edited May 18, 2019 by VNN

[Pinkrlion 2,724]

You go down to local legal services or courthouse and file divorce. How many times are you going to ask this same question?!?!? Is this a new account you made?

[Roel 7,192]

You dont have any immigration issues. Just Google divorce rules in your state. 

[SalishSea 17,847]

Why are you worry about getting deported if you are a US citizen??  That makes no sense.

[Crazy Cat 41,904]

1.  You are a US citizen.  You will not be deported.

2.  Find a divorce attorney to help you protect your resources.

That is all.

[SalishSea 17,847]

31 minutes ago, VNN said:

- You must establish your residency and it must be established for certain period of time. You need to check this requirement. 

Residency for what?  He is already a USC.

[bestluck 71]

divorce and move on and block  her and her family good luck  

[nastra30 2,287]

Your wife is trying to scare you for nothing; don't fall for it. You are a USC and divorcing won't have any effect on your citizenship or immigration. You are a US citizen so you can't be deported to the US; since you are already here

Look for a divorce lawyer and do what you have to do to be happy. Goodluck.

[welldone12345 0]

thank you all for comment i am looking foreword to take a step to get out from this nightmare i feel like i am slave to this family they used me everywhere for every penny i don't get no respect or love from anyone on this family they treat me like i am working for them until i have to moved on to some another states i did everything for them and give them all my energy been there for them almost 5 years everyday i have to wake up and they have list for me doing things for them every day i feel like its not worth to live with them anymore .

 

Here is my question please if anyone knows about it ? 

 

How can i file divorced from another states if i moved from here to another states ? 

 

we married in our home country can i divorced her in my home country or here ? 

 

Can us citizens go out of country for a year ? and come back would be any problem ? 

 

Thank you all so much god bless everyone 

[VNN 147]

20 hours ago, Jorgedig said:

Residency for what?  He is already a USC.

I think he may consider divorcing from a different state - he will need to live there for some period of time before you can file a divorce from the new state.

[EM_Vandaveer 2,408]

20 hours ago, Jorgedig said:

Residency for what?  He is already a USC.

Residency for filing for divorce, if he moves to another state first.

[VNN 147]

47 minutes ago, welldone12345 said:

thank you all for comment i am looking foreword to take a step to get out from this nightmare i feel like i am slave to this family they used me everywhere for every penny i don't get no respect or love from anyone on this family they treat me like i am working for them until i have to moved on to some another states i did everything for them and give them all my energy been there for them almost 5 years everyday i have to wake up and they have list for me doing things for them every day i feel like its not worth to live with them anymore .

 

Here is my question please if anyone knows about it ? 

 

How can i file divorced from another states if i moved from here to another states ? 

 

we married in our home country can i divorced her in my home country or here ? 

 

Can us citizens go out of country for a year ? and come back would be any problem ? 

 

Thank you all so much god bless everyone 

• As I said earlier, you need to establish your residency at the new state (meaning you may have to live there 6+ months, this can vary by states). Your wife may file it before you can.  Whoever files the divorce first, the laws from from the person's state will apply.
  • You can go to courthouse or google for the requirements from that state. However, if your wife contests, it may be much more complicated than just filing a paperwork and waiting until your turn. It involves many correspondences which cannot simply answer without using proper way - the way that only lawyer knows.
• You can divorce here as your marriage was already recognized by US Government.
• You can go out as many years as you like. USC is always allowed entry to US.

 

 

 

Edited May 19, 2019 by VNN

[nastra30 2,287]

47 minutes ago, welldone12345 said:

thank you all for comment i am looking foreword to take a step to get out from this nightmare i feel like i am slave to this family they used me everywhere for every penny i don't get no respect or love from anyone on this family they treat me like i am working for them until i have to moved on to some another states i did everything for them and give them all my energy been there for them almost 5 years everyday i have to wake up and they have list for me doing things for them every day i feel like its not worth to live with them anymore .

 

Here is my question please if anyone knows about it ? 

 

How can i file divorced from another states if i moved from here to another states ?  - Yes. But as others have said there 'could' be a requirement for you to be a resident of the state for some months.

 

we married in our home country can i divorced her in my home country or here ? - You can divorce there or here. Either ways it's a valid divorce if legally done.

 

Can us citizens go out of country for a year ? and come back would be any problem ? - you can go out of the country forever and not come back if you like; you'll still remain a US citizen.

 

Thank you all so much god bless everyone 

 

[NikLR 13,227]

1 hour ago, welldone12345 said:

thank you all for comment i am looking foreword to take a step to get out from this nightmare i feel like i am slave to this family they used me everywhere for every penny i don't get no respect or love from anyone on this family they treat me like i am working for them until i have to moved on to some another states i did everything for them and give them all my energy been there for them almost 5 years everyday i have to wake up and they have list for me doing things for them every day i feel like its not worth to live with them anymore .

 

Here is my question please if anyone knows about it ? 

 

How can i file divorced from another states if i moved from here to another states ? 

 

we married in our home country can i divorced her in my home country or here ? 

 

Can us citizens go out of country for a year ? and come back would be any problem ? 

 

Thank you all so much god bless everyone 

1) You need to be a resident of a state to file for divorce in that state.  Look up the state laws.  This is not an immigration issue.

2) here or there.  You'd need to know the divorce laws for your country if you want to divorce from there. 

3) of course.  You are a US citizen.  You can stay outside of the USA for as long as you want and come back whenever you want. This the only immigration related question you've asked.  

 

Find a divorce lawyer.  You do not have an immigration problem.