Algeria marriage

[NilsaNAnil 22]

1 hour ago, Ahmed&Freda said:

Correct which is why I said they go on cultural norms.  There is a difference between Religion and Culture in which some seem to confuse...

Yes, unfortunately a lot of people confuse the two... which is my point exactly.

 

i know some people (Muslim) who did in fact marry with a age difference, and even after divorce or widow...  to say in general it’s not normal is not correct.. because there are people who in fact do marry a divorcee or widowed women... 

i do wish the OP all the best in whatever path they choose to take. Just really be careful and think wisely about what is best for you.

[Boiler 45,525]

Nobody it is saying it does not happen, we see such cases here, what is being said that it is very uncommon overall, maybe not on VJ.

[Ahmed&Freda 628]

If sponsor twice before means you petitioned for two other spouses or finances IMO that will be the biggest hurdle to overcome.   You'll need lots of evidence of a bonafide relationship and even more pateince.

 

 

 

 

 

[Melann 0]

He is  10 years younger then me.  The first one I sponsor became a citizen and second in process.   What are my other options ? To live in another country ?

[Melann 0]

We have been talking got a few years off and on but I have not met him in person. I hope to visit soon.  He is from Bechar area of Algeria and had never once asked me for money 

[Crazy Cat 41,884]

18 minutes ago, Melann said:

We have been talking got a few years off and on but I have not met him in person. I hope to visit soon.  He is from Bechar area of Algeria and had never once asked me for money 

Then, I suggest you meet him multiple times before jumping into marriage......To be honest, you are possibly a prime scammer target......I am not judging.....but we have seen it numerous times here.

[Boiler 45,525]

Move to Algeria would seem the obvious.

[Melann 0]

Not that easy for me to live somewhere else cause if fathers son lives here.  The first two marriages were not scams but real 

[Boiler 45,525]

4 minutes ago, Melann said:

Not that easy for me to live somewhere else cause if fathers son lives here.  The first two marriages were not scams but real 

What does that mean.

[Melann 0]

I meant my sons father lives here lol

[Boiler 45,525]

And? Why is that relevant.

[Roel 7,192]

1 hour ago, Melann said:

We have been talking got a few years off and on but I have not met him in person. I hope to visit soon.  He is from Bechar area of Algeria and had never once asked me for money 

You haven't met him but you want to marry him..

 

Just think about this. Imagine having a daughter and she'd tell you she's going to marry some foreigner she never met. Youd probably smack that idea out of her head. 

[milimelo 4,481]

Were the ex husbands also from Algeria? 

[Melann 0]

The first two not Algerian but from Muslim countries.  

I know it sounds crazy that I want to marry him but I haven’t actually met him. I guess I need to visit to see how he really is.  

Like I said my sons dad lives here so if I lived in another country would be hard him to see his dad, although his dad now has not been that much of a dad

[SalishSea 17,834]

On 5/18/2019 at 2:23 PM, Melann said:

The first two not Algerian but from Muslim countries.  

I know it sounds crazy that I want to marry him but I haven’t actually met him. I guess I need to visit to see how he really is.  

Like I said my sons dad lives here so if I lived in another country would be hard him to see his dad, although his dad now has not been that much of a dad

Could be seen as pattern of bringing middle eastern men over for the purpose of immigration benefits.  It is probably possible, but I expect you're in for a process that is not fast or cheap.