I'm freaking out I have my fiance saved under contact name My Husband

[SMACEM2019 19]

OMG I'm so worried after reading a lot of people saying not to send anything referring to each other as husband or wife. Unfortunately I've already sent in my K1 visa application in Feb. I didn't send any text msgs because they are all in Spanish but I sent  A LOT of phone logs from whatsapp showing how much we talk and video chat and I have  him saved under the name MY HUSBAND but in Spanish MI ESPOSO.  Now I'm freaking out that this could potentially be an issue. I never thought in a million yrs this would be an issue. Its just how I saved him under my contacts to be cute. We are definitely not married. I would be heart broken if we are denied for something so silly as how I saved him under my contacts. I cant imagine they would deny us for that.  I need some reassurance. Has anyone experienced anything similar and been fine? Also if it did become a problem would it be at the Embassy in the DR or at California office where they a reviewing it now?

Edited May 13, 2019 by SMACEM2019

[nguoivietnam2019 67]

1 minute ago, SMACEM2019 said:

OMG I'm so worried after reading a lot of people saying not to send anything referring to each other as husband or wife. Unfortunately I've already sent in my K1 visa application in Feb. I didn't send any text msgs because they are all in Spanish but I sent  A LOT of phone logs from whatsapp showing how much we talk and video chat and I have  him saved under the name MY HUSBAND but in Spanish MI ESPOSO.  Now I'm freaking out that this could potentially be an issue. I never thought in a million yrs this would be an issue. Its just how I saved him under my contacts to be cute. We are definitely not married. I would be heart broken if we are denied for something so silly as how I saved him under my contacts. I cant imagine they would deny us for that.  I need some reassurance. Has anyone experienced anything similar and been fine? 

I sent pre-photo wedding and wedding photos with my K-1 application and my ex got her K-1 visa approved. This was a few years ago but I did include a statement saying according to Vietnamese Marriage and Family Laws, our marriage was not legally.

So you may be okay - worry too much won't help anyway, what done was done.

[Ben&Zian 4,398]

7 minutes ago, SMACEM2019 said:

OMG I'm so worried after reading a lot of people saying not to send anything referring to each other as husband or wife. Unfortunately I've already sent in my K1 visa application in Feb. I didn't send any text msgs because they are all in Spanish but I sent  A LOT of phone logs from whatsapp showing how much we talk and video chat and I have  him saved under the name MY HUSBAND but in Spanish MI ESPOSO.  Now I'm freaking out that this could potentially be an issue. I never thought in a million yrs this would be an issue. Its just how I saved him under my contacts to be cute. We are definitely not married. I would be heart broken if we are denied for something so silly as how I saved him under my contacts. I cant imagine they would deny us for that.  I need some reassurance. Has anyone experienced anything similar and been fine? Also if it did become a problem would it be at the Embassy in the DR or at California office where they a reviewing it now?

 

It's hard to say. At some point I assume you'll be submitting text/chat logs, so just don't have any more of that in there. Also most people I think have their fiance's listed in their phones as some cute 'pet' name or a nickname, but never seen "my husband" before so... obviously as you mentioned it has been problematic for some before. USCIS won't care, but come the embassy that's where it matters.  Something so small like that though probably won't matter.

 

Also just to note you submitted the I-129f petition which if approved will then give you the opportunity to apply for the K-1 visa at the embassy level.

Edited May 13, 2019 by Ben&Zian

[SMACEM2019 19]

Thanks I appreciate it. Ugh I know worrying wont help but I'm sick to my stomach thinking it could be denied now for something so ridiculous as how I have him saved in my contacts. I only wish I would have read all this great advice before I sent my application.  Now I have no choice but to be a nervous wreck. Even if it gets approved I will worry the embassy and agent doing the interview will have an issue with it.

[SMACEM2019 19]

2 minutes ago, Ben&Zian said:

 

It's hard to say. At some point I assume you'll be submitting text/chat logs, so just don't have any more of that in there. Also most people I think have their fiance's listed in their phones as some cute 'pet' name or a nickname, but never seen "my husband" before so... obviously as you mentioned it has been problematic for some before. USCIS won't care, but come the embassy that's where it matters.  Something so small like that though probably won't matter.

 

Also just to note you submitted the I-129f petition which if approved will then give you the opportunity to apply for the K-1 visa at the embassy level.

I sure am hoping your right about it being something small. I will definitely not submit any text referring to each other as husband or wife. We have lots of texts talking about how we cant wait to get married. There would be nothing else to make them think were married. That's the only thing is his contact name.

[Ben&Zian 4,398]

1 minute ago, SMACEM2019 said:

I sure am hoping your right about it being something small. I will definitely not submit any text referring to each other as husband or wife. We have lots of texts talking about how we cant wait to get married. There would be nothing else to make them think were married. That's the only thing is his contact name.

 

Then wouldn't be stressing too much. Again USCIS won't care but yea embassy is where it will matter but if it's just that one thing, probably not too bad. Try not to stress as what's done is done now.

[Allaboutwaiting 2,503]

IF asked during the interview at the embassy, just kindly explain. It might help, if you can be AT the interview with your fiancé -granted the embassy in DR allows it-. Again, IF asked. Otherwise, don't mention it. 

 

Meanwhile, try not to worry; the process is stressful enough on its own and being so anxious is just weakening and won't change the outcome. 

 

Good luck! 

Edited May 13, 2019 by Allaboutwaiting

[SMACEM2019 19]

10 minutes ago, Allaboutwaiting said:

IF asked during the interview at the embassy, just kindly explain. It might help, if you can be AT the interview with your fiancé -granted the embassy in DR allows it-. Again, IF asked. Otherwise, don't mention it. 

 

Meanwhile, try not to worry; the process is stressful enough on its own and being so anxious is just weakening and won't change the outcome. 

 

Good luck! 

YES I'm for sure going to the interview. Ive read over and over again how the Embassy in the DR wants and likes the applicant to come.

[PA2DR 140]

I don't think it will be a big deal.. you can explain if they ask you about it. I sent in ton of evidence and they didn't even look at it.. or our pictures. In our interview He just looked at my passport stamps since Ive been to DR 7 times and that was it. visa approved! Don't stress!! 

Edited May 13, 2019 by PA2DR
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[SMACEM2019 19]

6 minutes ago, PA2DR said:

I don't think it will be a big deal.. you can explain if they ask you about it. I sent in ton of evidence and they didn't even look at it.. or our pictures. In our interview He just looked at my passport stamps since Ive been to DR 7 times and that was it. visa approved! Don't stress!! 

Thanks. I appreciate the reassurance ;-) I hope everything goes as smoothly for us as it did for you guys.

[Mikayla Harrison 22]

I’m in the same boat, my interview is 6/3

[SMACEM2019 19]

2 hours ago, Mikayla Harrison said:

I’m in the same boat, my interview is 6/3

What are your concerns? 

[Mikayla Harrison 22]

Just now, SMACEM2019 said:

What are your concerns? 

I am going to PM you!