RFE on household member contract

[Miriam n Alain 3]

I called NVC today and asked an operator about the RFE she informed me that it was because I had not submitted proof of my relation to the household member. She also told me that a household member has to be related. I didn’t know this so now I have to send a copy of my parents marriage license to prove that my household member is my stepfather. This Blows !

[simple_male 1]

I called NVC today and asked an operator about the RFE she informed me that it was because I had not submitted proof of my relation to the household member. She also told me that a household member has to be related. I didn’t know this so now I have to send a copy of my parents marriage license to prove that my household member is my stepfather. This Blows !

Have you received the RFE by mail? Follow the instructions and take care of it. Good Luck!

[Yodrak 7]

Miriam n Alain,

This is also your own fault. These things are explained very clearly in the form instructions. RTFM.

Yodrak

I called NVC today and asked an operator about the RFE she informed me that it was because I had not submitted proof of my relation to the household member. She also told me that a household member has to be related. I didn't know this so now I have to send a copy of my parents marriage license to prove that my household member is my stepfather. This Blows !

[MargotDarko 0]

Miriam n Alain,

This is also your own fault. These things are explained very clearly in the form instructions. RTFM.

Yodrak

I called NVC today and asked an operator about the RFE she informed me that it was because I had not submitted proof of my relation to the household member. She also told me that a household member has to be related. I didn't know this so now I have to send a copy of my parents marriage license to prove that my household member is my stepfather. This Blows !

Aww, way to kick her when she's down. Fair enough to point out that it's in the instructions but maybe could have been nicer. I guess I'm just a softie that way though.

[Yodrak 7]

MargotDarko,

The intention is to point out what the true source of the problem is and how to avoid making a similar mistake again.

Yodrak

Aww, way to kick her when she's down. Fair enough to point out that it's in the instructions but maybe could have been nicer. I guess I'm just a softie that way though.

Edited May 29, 2007 by Yodrak

[MargotDarko 0]

MargotDarko,

The intention is to point out what the true source of the problem is and how to avoid making a similar mistake again.

Yodrak

Aww, way to kick her when she's down. Fair enough to point out that it's in the instructions but maybe could have been nicer. I guess I'm just a softie that way though.

I agree that's a good intention and it's something that should be done. It was only the RTFM that I objected to at all.

[Miriam n Alain 3]

MargotDarko,

The intention is to point out what the true source of the problem is and how to avoid making a similar mistake again.

Yodrak

Aww, way to kick her when she's down. Fair enough to point out that it's in the instructions but maybe could have been nicer. I guess I'm just a softie that way though.

I agree that's a good intention and it's something that should be done. It was only the RTFM that I objected to at all.

NO it was not MY OWN FAULT. I didnt fill out the application I had a lawyer do it. It was his job to let me know what I needed thats what I payed him for. I Have done everything myself the only thing that I had a lawyer do was the affidavite because I wanted to make sure that everything was done right and it turns out that its the only thing that his been returned to me. I trusted that him being a lawyer whould of known what I should send.

[Miriam n Alain 3]

MargotDarko,

The intention is to point out what the true source of the problem is and how to avoid making a similar mistake again.

Yodrak

Aww, way to kick her when she's down. Fair enough to point out that it's in the instructions but maybe could have been nicer. I guess I'm just a softie that way though.

I agree that's a good intention and it's something that should be done. It was only the RTFM that I objected to at all.

NO it was not MY OWN FAULT. I didnt fill out the application I had a lawyer do it. It was his job to let me know what I needed thats what I payed him for. I Have done everything myself the only thing that I had a lawyer do was the affidavite because I wanted to make sure that everything was done right and it turns out that its the only thing that his been returned to me. I trusted that him being a lawyer whould of known what I should send.

O and by the way I just read the instructions and it says that you have to be related but no where on their does it say that you have to submit proof. And on my fathers tax returns (all 3 of them) it shows me as a dependent and says daughter and my SS Number. Thats sounds like proof to me.

[Yodrak 7]

Miriam n Alain,

Page 2 of the instructions, under Step-by-Step Instructions for Part I, item 8. In the 2nd paragraph:

"If you check any other relative except for spouse, you must provide proof of the relationship and that you have the same principal residence as the sponsor."

Perhaps the USCIS case officer wants more proof of relationship than a tax return, the primary purpose of which is to provide financial information.

Yodrak

O and by the way I just read the instructions and it says that you have to be related but no where on their does it say that you have to submit proof. .....

[Jackie&Yosdani 0]

Ohhh KK!!

well anyway dont worry too much.. its not going to hurt you that bad.. once you submit the evidence they will continue with the process..

ayhhh chica que jodienda!!

[Cassie 8]

MargotDarko,

The intention is to point out what the true source of the problem is and how to avoid making a similar mistake again.

Yodrak

Aww, way to kick her when she's down. Fair enough to point out that it's in the instructions but maybe could have been nicer. I guess I'm just a softie that way though.

I agree that's a good intention and it's something that should be done. It was only the RTFM that I objected to at all.

NO it was not MY OWN FAULT. I didnt fill out the application I had a lawyer do it. It was his job to let me know what I needed thats what I payed him for. I Have done everything myself the only thing that I had a lawyer do was the affidavite because I wanted to make sure that everything was done right and it turns out that its the only thing that his been returned to me. I trusted that him being a lawyer whould of known what I should send.

If anything, this proves that lawyers don't always do things correctly -- which has been proven time and time again here on VJ -- and it behooves anyone who hires one to know exactly what should be done, even if the lawyer will be the one actually filling out the forms.

[nyseness 0]

[simple_male 1]

Miriam n Alain,

Page 2 of the instructions, under Step-by-Step Instructions for Part I, item 8. In the 2nd paragraph:

"If you check any other relative except for spouse, you must provide proof of the relationship and that you have the same principal residence as the sponsor."

Perhaps the USCIS case officer wants more proof of relationship than a tax return, the primary purpose of which is to provide financial information.

Yodrak

O and by the way I just read the instructions and it says that you have to be related but no where on their does it say that you have to submit proof. .....

Just send NVC what they are asking for.

[Mononoke28 134]

You'll be ok Miriam, nothing to be upset about. They'll finish processing your case at the NVC as soon as you send in what they want and then you'll be a step closer to being with your husband. Just think, you're so close to getting there, unlike so many of us who don't know what is going on with NVC.

And don't pay attention to Yodrak, he's an ogre and answers most questions with an attitude.

[rebex05 1]

Miriam... hang in there girl. Like a few others have said, just send exactly what the RFE asks for and you should be just fine. It delays things a bit, but real soon this will all be over and you will be with your hubby here in the US. Good luck!!!