Email/chat Conversations

[Zoe12 5]

Do I have to include email or iMessage conversations between my husband and I? If so, how much?

I have about 9 years of iMessages and it‘s a lot to go through. It takes forever just to go through one year of iMessages. Same with Facebook. I included a lot of other proof. 

 

[JFH 12,190]

No. There are other forms of evidence that are much better. Think quality, not quantity. For AOS focus on co-mingled finances, leases or mortgages together, wills, insurance policies, shared bank accounts and so on rather than pages of flirty messages. 

[JFH 12,190]

No. There are other forms of evidence that are much better. Think quality, not quantity. For AOS focus on co-mingled finances, leases or mortgages together, wills, insurance policies, shared bank accounts and so on rather than pages of flirty messages. 

 

*~*~*procedural question moved from “progress reports” to “AOS from work/study/tourist visas”*~*~*

[Zoe12 5]

57 minutes ago, JFH said:

No. There are other forms of evidence that are much better. Think quality, not quantity. For AOS focus on co-mingled finances, leases or mortgages together, wills, insurance policies, shared bank accounts and so on rather than pages of flirty messages. 

 

*~*~*procedural question moved from “progress reports” to “AOS from work/study/tourist visas”*~*~*

Okey, great, we don‘t have a joint bank account yet but we will get one soon. No mortgages either because we don‘t own any property. I hope flight tickets, lease, photos, gift etc is enough ??

[nycaribb 12]

6 hours ago, Zoe12 said:

Do I have to include email or iMessage conversations between my husband and I? If so, how much?

I have about 9 years of iMessages and it‘s a lot to go through. It takes forever just to go through one year of iMessages. Same with Facebook. I included a lot of other proof. 

 

I actually did include some chat conversations as proof when we filed for AOS since we didn’t have a lot of other proofs. I included conversations related to our wedding, congratulatory messages from friends, and just chose different conversations at different time periods in our relationship — spaced out over time to show the length of the relationship.