Interview after divorce

[Spring745 0]

1 hour ago, Amadia said:

If he is already married, he cannot marry you and think he can get away with that just for a life in America. USCIS can and will see thru the lies he has put on the application. The interview is a formality to understand the "relationship" and have him tell them what they already suspect. 

Like others have suggested, pull your Affidavit of Support and inform USCIS immediately about the issues you have discovered about him.

 

I am sorry that you had to endure this but how long did you 2 know each other and figure each other out before committing to marriage?

We knew each other for 18 months. My trip to him was short due to work schedule. After he got here, within 2-3days everything was unraveling small at a time subduely. I didn’t want to go through with the marriage but I felt pressure because he said he left everything for me and he had nothing to go back to. I felt horrible and under obligation to go ahead with the marriage. Also at this point, most of the issue were normal relationship issues especially when it was about culture differences. But a week after the marriage everything just unfolding in a strong ripple effect type of way. After 6 wks of marriage, it was crystal clear that it was a sham.  He immediately moved out after my interrogative questions became too much. He refused to tell me where he was. But he was asking for marriage counseling 

 

thank you everyone for all your replies. I really appreciate it it. 

Edited April 22, 2019 by Spring745

[Amadia 711]

25 minutes ago, Spring745 said:

We knew each other for 18 months. My trip to him was short due to work schedule. After he got here, within 2-3days everything was unraveling small at a time subduely. I didn’t want to go through with the marriage but I felt pressure because he said he left everything for me and he had nothing to go back to. I felt horrible and under obligation to go ahead with the marriage. Also at this point, most of the issue were normal relationship issues especially when it was about culture differences. But a week after the marriage everything just unfolding in a strong ripple effect type of way. After 6 wks of marriage, it was crystal clear that it was a sham.  He immediately moved out after my interrogative questions became too much. He refused to tell me where he was. But he was asking for marriage counseling 

 

thank you everyone for all your replies. I really appreciate it it. 

Again, I am sorry that you had to endure this. No person should be pressured into doing something that EVERY fiber of your being is screaming at you not to do. You had good intent whereas he did not.....shame on him! You should have nothing to fear when you pull your application. It is highly unlikely that he would attend the interview and get any kind of approval.

[Spring745 0]

23 minutes ago, Amadia said:

Again, I am sorry that you had to endure this. No person should be pressured into doing something that EVERY fiber of your being is screaming at you not to do. You had good intent whereas he did not.....shame on him! You should have nothing to fear when you pull your application. It is highly unlikely that he would attend the interview and get any kind of approval.

Thank you so much. I feel a lot better now. I just want to close this chapter of my life ASAP. 

[Roel 7,193]

6 hours ago, Ben&Zian said:

And we keep saying how people will lie about anything to get into the US and people still don't believe it happens.

Of course. How dare we question true love  😛 that's what we usually hear. 

[Cathi 5,795]

13 hours ago, Roel said:

Call USCIS and pull the plug on AOS. Mention the lie on the form. Mention bigamy. That's it. 

 

Also... what the hell...  putting your nephews name as your own son to make it sound believable? Believable what and how? I'm so baffled by that. 

You cannot call USCIS and pull the plug on the I-864. This needs to be done in written form.

[Mike E 11,745]

12 hours ago, Going through said:

Make *what* sound believable, exactly?

 

I'd wage a strong bet that the child is his....he wouldn't be able to sponsor a "nephew".

I'd make a strong bet that child is both his son and nephew. 😉