Very VERY bad K1 situation

[Hobidyali 267]

5 minutes ago, C-ma'am said:

Without the immigration condiment on Sarah's story, I had this exact scenario with an ex who had been cheating for a long time and had a relationship with the other woman.  This happened over 20 years ago but I still remember when he had his mother call me. It's a manipulative tactic. 

 

Give Sarah big hugs. I remember how it all feels and it's just a devastating situation because you are a victim but because you also have to own up to all the things we chose to ignore and continued to push through. Nothing wrong with any of this. We are human, we make mistakes and we want to be loved. Imagine that, huh? 

 

Exactly, couldn't agree more.

[VALU 55]

I have been following this thread. Thanks for the updates. I hope Sarah moves on quicker than expected and God bless her with a good husband in the near future, after healing or one who will help her heal.

 

As for the cheater... I hope his relationship with the girlfriend is forever ruined and they too breakup. #karma is a b....

Edited April 12, 2019 by VALU

[Hobidyali 267]

1 minute ago, VALU said:

I have been folk this thread. Thanks for the updates. I hope Sarah moves on quicker than expected and God will bless her with a good husband in the near future after healing or one that will help her heal.

 

As for the cheater... I hope his relationship with the girlfriend is forever ruined and they too breakup. #karma is a b....

They both deserve eachother, what type of woman allows her man to marry and date another, sleep with another for the purpose of a visa, she's as much a pos as he is.

[VALU 55]

1 minute ago, Hobidyali said:

They both deserve eachother, what type of woman allows her man to marry and date another, sleep with another for the purpose of a visa, she's as much a pos as he is.

True but I doubt he will want anything to do with her after she supposedly messed up their plan by making that call... I still don't understand why she did... Was she pissed at him or what?

[Hobidyali 267]

Just now, VALU said:

True but I doubt he will want anything to do with her after she supposedly messed up their plan by making that call... I still don't understand why she did... Was she pissed at him or what?

I dont know exactly why she did it, but logic tells me that she did it without the interntion to speak to her but for her to see the profile and kill that relationship before it proceeded .

[VALU 55]

5 minutes ago, Hobidyali said:

I dont know exactly why she did it, but logic tells me that she did it without the interntion to speak to her but for her to see the profile and kill that relationship before it proceeded .

That makes sense. Especially considering that she only made the call after the visa got approved. But then she blocked Sarah soon after. What if she hadn'tdug deeper soon after the call before she blocked her? Wonder how she was able to FB call someone who is not her FB friend. I tested it out on my FB but I can only call people I'm friends with.

Edited April 12, 2019 by VALU

[Hobidyali 267]

1 minute ago, VALU said:

That makes sense. Especially considering that she only made the call after the visa got approved. But then she block Sarah soon after. Wonder how she was able to FB call someone who is not her FB friend. I tested it out on my FB but I can only call people I'm friends with.

Yews, I thought the same, that part is confusing.

[VALU 55]

3 minutes ago, Hobidyali said:

Yews, I thought the same, that part is confusing.

Yes, the WHOLE Facebook part doesn't make sense to me at all. But, it is what it is...

Edited April 12, 2019 by VALU

[TBoneTX 45,329]

Assuming that the consulate comes through with the visa revocation on the basis of fraud, this has turned out just about as well as such things could.

 

Although endings of relationships are almost always traumatic to some extent, Sarah has been saved a lot of time, heartache, and complex entanglements.  She can look ahead and not back.

[Boiler 45,564]

I would imagine they would look for a non fraud reason as that requires a definitive finding, now if this had happened before the visa was approved it would be much simpler.

[TBoneTX 45,329]

It will be interesting to learn the precise justification for revocation, if indeed this is revealed to the petitioner.

[Going through 5,671]

52 minutes ago, VALU said:

 Wonder how she was able to FB call someone who is not her FB friend. I tested it out on my FB but I can only call people I'm friends with.

 I believe it has to do with how the other person's privacy settings are?  I've made FB calls to people not on my list before.

[Hobidyali 267]

1 minute ago, TBoneTX said:

It will be interesting to learn the precise justification for revocation, if indeed this is revealed to the petitioner.

Does there have to be an exact reason? Is fraud or attempt of fraud not a justifiable reason? Does this type of situation prevent the beneficiary of ever applying for a visa and/or is there a permanent ban because of something like this?

 

[geowrian 22,337]

4 minutes ago, Hobidyali said:

Does there have to be an exact reason? Is fraud or attempt of fraud not a justifiable reason? Does this type of situation prevent the beneficiary of ever applying for a visa and/or is there a permanent ban because of something like this?

A finding of fraud or a willful, material misrepresentation must be demonstrated. That comes with a permanent (but waivable) bar on any visa.  It's not something they can just impose though - they need a factual basis. A claim by the petitioner does not constitute fact. They would need to investigate it before they could impost any such restriction.

Edited April 12, 2019 by geowrian

[Boiler 45,564]

I see no ban, at the moment it is a he says she say situation, all the Consulate knows as a fact is that she does not wish to proceed.