Very VERY bad K1 situation

[SJordanS 343]

VJ'ers

 

I have a friend over who has been trying to become a member of VJ for 2 days now. System is not sending the verification email for her to verify and she's re-tried several times. Same thing happened to me and it took me a week to join. Hopefully any moderators reading this can help fix this problem the site is having.  She applied K1 Visa and I will let her tell you her story below and maybe you can all tell her your thoughts and the OBVIOUS on what to do. In the meantime I put in her K1 timeline for her:

 

NOA1: 5/20

NOA2: 12/28

CSC

Jordan

Interview: 3/5 - Approved

 

hi everyone. my name is sarah and im completely heartbroken and unsure what to do. after having this long distance relationship with the love of my life, we finally got to the end of our journey and got the k1 visa approved. We were both overjoyed.  best two weeks of my life following the approval. Now I recently came back from Jordan following and we planned to have my fiance come end of this month when he hopefully received his visa cuz its still shows in AP up until i left.

 

So now, about a week before I left jordan and after the interview, I received a call on fb messenger from a woman. no one was on the other line so I figured by accident? I wasnt going to think much of it but then opened up her facebook timeline to see if I knew her or if shes related to my fiance since I see she is in Jordan and as im scrolling saw many of the same romantic quotes and photos my fiance sent me. i immediately though this girl is obsessed with my fiance, stealing these posts from my wall, checking out who I am and somehow clicked call. But a voice said keep digging. i messaged her several times and she didnt reply. there is only one photo of her. i saved it. and saved all the posts. i took a moment to sit and absorb it all and think. i opened up her page again to have another look but couldnt. she blocked me. But not before I had flashed screened and saved everything because a voice just told me to. i made a fake account and took a full day looking up her friends, family etc. before i left jordan I had a girl I know there call, ask around, inquire, and do everything she can to find out "more". whatever "more" means. Boom! My friend knows HER friend. We made that phone call and several others following it. then i left it to info gathering over the last few days. to make this long and sad story short, so my fiance ends up having a long time relationship with this woman for many years. hes the love of her life and according to some, she is his. there was no money to marry her and her family is poor. So in order to "secure" her and their future he would make this sacrifice. hes going to do what a lot of muslim men do. take on a "second" wife. he will become legal, get the green card, get the citizenship then divorce and go back to marry his damn love and bring her here. He was pressured to marry her religiously prior to his "leaving" but she and him decided against it since he needed to produce the "letter of eligibility" showing he is single and free to marry. well good for them they thought ahead!!! He doesnt know I know all of this yet as the details were still coming in up until this morning. so so many details! but the picture is clear and looking back this explains alot of red flags i chose to ignore. like the texts he would receive and walk away to reply. i tried peeking over a few times. It was in arabic couldnt read it. I spent so much money from day one to invest in our love and life. i thought he loved me endlessly like he said. they way he crooned to me and things he said and how he did it. Just a great actor! i dont think his family knows. i met them they would never allow it. i will talk to them about it after i confront him. i know im lucky to know this now but i am broken. i need to recover from this shock. i will not confront him yet but will BEFORE he gets his Visa issued. So I want to know two things. WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO REQUEST THE CANCELLiNG OF HIS VISA since its been approved or IS IT TOO LATE? Second, how can I report him to USCIS or Embassy of what he was planning? I want him banned for life! I will confront him tonight or tomorrow as soon as I have all the timeline put together and after I sent the request to cancel. please if anyone knows the best phone numbers or the links, send those here if you can so my friend can simply forward them to me and I can click and go through the proper channels. I dont want aramex deliver visa to him. when I am able to make an account here i will update more. thank you. sarah. 

 

[Ben&Zian 4,398]

9 minutes ago, SJordanS said:

VJ'ers

 

I have a friend over who has been trying to become a member of VJ for 2 days now. System is not sending the verification email for her to verify and she's re-tried several times. Same thing happened to me and it took me a week to join. Hopefully any moderators reading this can help fix this problem the site is having.  She applied K1 Visa and I will let her tell you her story below and maybe you can all tell her your thoughts and the OBVIOUS on what to do. In the meantime I put in her K1 timeline for her:

 

NOA1: 5/20

NOA2: 12/28

CSC

Jordan

Interview: 3/5 - Approved

 

hi everyone. my name is sarah and im completely heartbroken and unsure what to do. after having this long distance relationship with the love of my life, we finally got to the end of our journey and got the k1 visa approved. We were both overjoyed.  best two weeks of my life following the approval. Now I recently came back from Jordan following and we planned to have my fiance come end of this month when he hopefully received his visa cuz its still shows in AP up until i left.

 

So now, about a week before I left jordan and after the interview, I received a call on fb messenger from a woman. no one was on the other line so I figured by accident? I wasnt going to think much of it but then opened up her facebook timeline to see if I knew her or if shes related to my fiance since I see she is in Jordan and as im scrolling saw many of the same romantic quotes and photos my fiance sent me. i immediately though this girl is obsessed with my fiance, stealing these posts from my wall, checking out who I am and somehow clicked call. But a voice said keep digging. i messaged her several times and she didnt reply. there is only one photo of her. i saved it. and saved all the posts. i took a moment to sit and absorb it all and think. i opened up her page again to have another look but couldnt. she blocked me. But not before I had flashed screened and saved everything because a voice just told me to. i made a fake account and took a full day looking up her friends, family etc. before i left jordan I had a girl I know there call, ask around, inquire, and do everything she can to find out "more". whatever "more" means. Boom! My friend knows HER friend. We made that phone call and several others following it. then i left it to info gathering over the last few days. to make this long and sad story short, so my fiance ends up having a long time relationship with this woman for many years. hes the love of her life and according to some, she is his. there was no money to marry her and her family is poor. So in order to "secure" her and their future he would make this sacrifice. hes going to do what a lot of muslim men do. take on a "second" wife. he will become legal, get the green card, get the citizenship then divorce and go back to marry his damn love and bring her here. He was pressured to marry her religiously prior to his "leaving" but she and him decided against it since he needed to produce the "letter of eligibility" showing he is single and free to marry. well good for them they thought ahead!!! He doesnt know I know all of this yet as the details were still coming in up until this morning. so so many details! but the picture is clear and looking back this explains alot of red flags i chose to ignore. like the texts he would receive and walk away to reply. i tried peeking over a few times. It was in arabic couldnt read it. I spent so much money from day one to invest in our love and life. i thought he loved me endlessly like he said. they way he crooned to me and things he said and how he did it. Just a great actor! i dont think his family knows. i met them they would never allow it. i will talk to them about it after i confront him. i know im lucky to know this now but i am broken. i need to recover from this shock. i will not confront him yet but will BEFORE he gets his Visa issued. So I want to know two things. WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO REQUEST THE CANCELLiNG OF HIS VISA since its been approved or IS IT TOO LATE? Second, how can I report him to USCIS or Embassy of what he was planning? I want him banned for life! I will confront him tonight or tomorrow as soon as I have all the timeline put together and after I sent the request to cancel. please if anyone knows the best phone numbers or the links, send those here if you can so my friend can simply forward them to me and I can click and go through the proper channels. I dont want aramex deliver visa to him. when I am able to make an account here i will update more. thank you. sarah. 

 

 

First email the embassy there and tell them of your desire to cancel the petition. Only you can cancel it. You can email USCIS too but they don't have any control of the petition anymore so.

 

You can send all evidence and all with the email if you wish as they may be able to put something in their files about him, but doubt can "ban" him forever.

 

Also, even if he gets the visa and managed to travel to the US... he can't adjust status except through marriage and sponsorship through you the petitioner, one fail safe of the K-1 so to say. So he would not be legal, not be able to get a green card let alone citizenship.

 

First and foremost, get in touch with the embassy immediately and have them cancel the petition before it gets issued. He may sit in AP for along time as a lot do, but don't chance it. Get it canceled now. I would contact them first before confronting him personally.

 

Sorry this has happened to you, but at least you found out now instead of later. This is the warning we at VJ give about knowing people because it's amazing the lengths they will go to to deceive people for their own gain. This is proof of what we have been talking about that others say we are crazy to think.

Edited April 10, 2019 by Ben&Zian

[SJordanS 343]

6 minutes ago, Ben&Zian said:

 

First email the embassy there and tell them of your desire to cancel the petition. Only you can cancel it. You can email USCIS too but they don't have any control of the petition anymore so.

 

You can send all evidence and all with the email if you wish as they may be able to put something in their files about him, but doubt can "ban" him forever.

 

Also, even if he gets the visa and managed to travel to the US... he can't adjust status except through marriage and sponsorship through you the petitioner, one fail safe of the K-1 so to say. So he would not be legal, not be able to get a green card let alone citizenship.

 

First and foremost, get in touch with the embassy immediately and have them cancel the petition before it gets issued. He may sit in AP for along time as a lot do, but don't chance it. Get it canceled now. I would contact them first before confronting him personally.

 

Sorry this has happened to you, but at least you found out now instead of later. This is the warning we at VJ give about knowing people because it's amazing the lengths they will go to to deceive people for their own gain. This is proof of what we have been talking about that others say we are crazy to think.

You are absolutely correct! It can happen. Ive seen it happen to others years ago. Sad to know it still does and to a very sweet loving girl. So Im having Sarah hop on my tablet and contact Embassy in Jordan. I found an email and hopefully she can get through on the email that I actually found here on VJ.  I hope its enough. My fiance was also very helpful in gathering details for her as well. We are both upset for her. But at least this one wont fall through the cracks. 

[Ben&Zian 4,398]

1 minute ago, SJordanS said:

You are absolutely correct! It can happen. Ive seen it happen to others years ago. Sad to know it still does and to a very sweet loving girl. So Im having Sarah hop on my tablet and contact Embassy in Jordan. I found an email and hopefully she can get through on the email that I actually found here on VJ.  I hope its enough. My fiance was also very helpful in gathering details for her as well. We are both upset for her. But at least this one wont fall through the cracks. 

 

Better to know now than later again. It's obviously late there now, but if you can find a phone number even I would try that too, but email is definitely first step and hopefully will hear back relatively soon and get everything canceled. Again I'd contact them first before she goes confronting him, least I would personally, he would probably just try talking his way out of it and all I suspect.

[SJordanS 343]

Just now, Ben&Zian said:

 

Better to know now than later again. It's obviously late there now, but if you can find a phone number even I would try that too, but email is definitely first step and hopefully will hear back relatively soon and get everything canceled. Again I'd contact them first before she goes confronting him, least I would personally, he would probably just try talking his way out of it and all I suspect.

Oh I told her just that. Thankfully she is smart and not too gullible. Embassy will know first and shes starting the cancellation process. She is completing her email to them now. Then she will call them late tonight/morning their time and hopefully she will get a hold of someone. Once she has confirmation she said she will have that "video chat" with him. God be with her.  I cant imagine. 

[Ben&Zian 4,398]

2 minutes ago, SJordanS said:

Oh I told her just that. Thankfully she is smart and not too gullible. Embassy will know first and shes starting the cancellation process. She is completing her email to them now. Then she will call them late tonight/morning their time and hopefully she will get a hold of someone. Once she has confirmation she said she will have that "video chat" with him. God be with her.  I cant imagine. 

 

Will be uncomfortable but has to be done. If you can update us here with anything the embassy gets back to her with information wise about the cancellation, while it's a hard situation for her, it could be helpful to others later on.

[Crazy Cat 41,904]

2 minutes ago, SJordanS said:

Oh I told her just that. Thankfully she is smart and not too gullible. Embassy will know first and shes starting the cancellation process. She is completing her email to them now. Then she will call them late tonight/morning their time and hopefully she will get a hold of someone. Once she has confirmation she said she will have that "video chat" with him. God be with her.  I cant imagine. 

Hopefully, she can get the visa stopped.  Even if he somehow got to the US, he could not succeed unless the petitioner married him........

[Pengunista 221]

2 minutes ago, SJordanS said:

Oh I told her just that. Thankfully she is smart and not too gullible. Embassy will know first and shes starting the cancellation process. She is completing her email to them now. Then she will call them late tonight/morning their time and hopefully she will get a hold of someone. Once she has confirmation she said she will have that "video chat" with him. God be with her.  I cant imagine. 

Yeah, tell your friend to keep at it (calling and email), until she talks to someone and can have a good confirmation other than someone just saying ok.  Tell her to ask if there is something she needs to file or what she needs to do to have it cancel.  Coz I doubt her calling and talking is good enough for them to cancel it. Good luck and let us know how it goes. 

[SJordanS 343]

1 minute ago, Ben&Zian said:

 

Will be uncomfortable but has to be done. If you can update us here with anything the embassy gets back to her with information wise about the cancellation, while it's a hard situation for her, it could be helpful to others later on.

Im not letting her leave my sight for the next few days as I see she is physically and emotionally in shock. I will help her through this process with the Embassy because yes others should know what needs to be done. This may not happen immediately. Embassy in Jordan is only opened one more day and then closed for the weekend there so hopefully something will happen tomorrow. (On another note, I cant wait for the "show down")

[SJordanS 343]

8 minutes ago, Pengunista said:

Yeah, tell your friend to keep at it (calling and email), until she talks to someone and can have a good confirmation other than someone just saying ok.  Tell her to ask if there is something she needs to file or what she needs to do to have it cancel.  Coz I doubt her calling and talking is good enough for them to cancel it. Good luck and let us know how it goes. 

Yes she will need to email several different sources. She will call Embassy tomorrow their time. I will help her. 

[geowrian 22,337]

Agree with the others - contact the embassy to request withdrawal of the petition and a quick letter explaining the situation. Also contact USCIS, although there's nothing than can do right now.

 

My prediction is he will not bother trying to use the visa anyway once he learns of what she knows. He has no means to obtain legal status in the US with just the K-1 visa, and if his goal is to bring somebody else over, he needs that first. His path has essentially been closed already.

The claims of his attempted scam will likely make it hard for any future visa attempt anyway. Nothing guaranteed, but I do imagine they will look at any other application with some more scrutiny (especially if he does marry his "actual" girlfriend).

Edited April 10, 2019 by geowrian

[SJordanS 343]

Just now, geowrian said:

Agree with the others - contact the embassy to request withdrawal of the petition and a quick letter explaining the situation. Also contact USICS, although there's nothing than can do right now.

 

My prediction is he will not bother trying to use the visa anyway once he learns of what she knows. He has no means to obtain legal status in the US with just the K-1 visa, and if his goal is to bring somebody else over, he needs that first. His path has essentially been closed already.

The claims of his attempted scam will likely make it hard for any future visa attempt anyway. Nothing guaranteed, but I do imagine they will look at any other application with some more scrutiny (especially if he does marry his "actual" girlfriend).

He wont even have the money to book his ticket anyways. She was going to book it once he received Visa in hand. Now all he will get is a ticket to hell. 

[Crazy Cat 41,904]

1 minute ago, SJordanS said:

He wont even have the money to book his ticket anyways. She was going to book it once he received Visa in hand. Now all he will get is a ticket to hell. 

Sounds like he has created a very serious situation for himself.  Not only has he damaged Sarah, he has very possibly ensured that he will never set foot on American soil.........attempted visa fraud is a very serious violation .

[Ben&Zian 4,398]

Hopefully they will put a note in the system about him so for any future visa they will see the reason for this cancellation and hopefully will restrict him in the future, because he will do it again clearly.

[junkmart 320]

1 hour ago, SJordanS said:

VJ'ers

 

I have a friend over who has been trying to become a member of VJ for 2 days now. System is not sending the verification email for her to verify and she's re-tried several times. Same thing happened to me and it took me a week to join. Hopefully any moderators reading this can help fix this problem the site is having. 

 

Same thing happened to me when I tried to join. I was using a gmail address, and VJ wouldn't send the confirmation email. I tried multiple times over a couple of weeks. I sent emails to the site admin using the "contact us" link at the bottom of the page, but no reply. I finally decided to re-register with a different email (AOL this time) and it worked right away.

Edited April 10, 2019 by junkmart