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Did you have, are having, or expect to have cold feet?  

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  1. 1. Did you have, are having, or expect to have cold feet?

    • Yes, big time!
      7
    • A little...but that's normal...right?...RIGHT?
      28
    • None whatsoever. I'm a regular daredevil
      41

  2. 2. If yes...What's your biggest fear?

    • Heartbreak
      26
    • Economic loss
      3
    • Separating after having children
      4
    • Other
      11
    • N/A
      32

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Nessa Grand Master

Nessa   23

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no cold feet. if i had any doubt whatsoever i wouldnt leave my country and risk coming here.



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

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chri'stina Veteran

chri'stina   190

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No cold feet here. I was waiting every day for it to finally happen.

I'm not a daredevil though! To me getting married to Suj was not a risk but something I felt totally sure about.

Edited by stina&suj

Married since 9-18-04(All K1 visa & GC details in timeline.)

Ishu tum he mere Prabhu:::Jesus you are my Lord

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GOLDEN.247   0

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Cold feet yes!!!!!

But not about marring my husband but about getting married and being the center of attention.

I-130

03-17-07 Mailed

03-23-07 Recvd fwd to CSC NOA1

03-27-07 Update

APPROVED 09-05-07

09-06-07 Update

09-10-07 NOA2 in mail

I-129F

04-04-07 Mailed

04-24-07 Updated Recvd NBC NOA1

04-26-07 Update

05-08-07 Update

05-11-07 Update trnsfr to CSC

05-15-07 Update

05-17-07 Recvd trnsfr letter in mail

06-05-07 Update case pending @ CSC

06-06-07 Update

APPROVED 09-05-07

09-06-07 Update

09-10-07 NOA2 in mail

09-27-07 Arrived at NVC

10-06-07 NVC notice via mail

10-31-07 Mailed to the Embassy

11-04-07 Recvd at the Embassy

02-20-08 Medical Appointment

03-11-08 Redo Police record

04-11-08 Interview

02-17-09 Interview

06-04-09 redo medical & Police Record

06-09-09 Resubmit info @ Embassy

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CarlaM Collaborator

CarlaM   0

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My answers:

1) 2

2) 1

Caro,

Same here

20/Dec/06 I-129F sent to TSC

06/Jan/07 transfered to the CSC

15/Jan/07 I-129F sent to CSC

18/Jan/07 NOA1

03/May/07 NOA2

04/May/07 touched

07/May/07 NVC recived

09/May/07 left NVC

15/May/07 NOA2 hard copy

17/May/07 Package 3 recived

31/May/07 medical exams

04/Jun/07 interview, approved!!

06/Jun/07 visa in hand

10/Jun/07 going home

14/Jun/07 wedding

22/Jun/07 SSN name changed

27/Jul/07 filed for AOS

30/Jul/07 Chicago recived

01/Nov/07 called 911 domestic abuse

05/Nov/07 police came to help me to get my stuff out of the house

07//Nov/07 Biometrics

19/Nov/07 EAC

??/Dec/07 injunction granted against him

??/Jan/08 failure to interview

??/Feb/08 Notice from immigration: 30 days to leave the country before removal procedures start

01/Apr/08 I-360 NOA1

29/Aug/08 I-360, I-765,I485 NOA1 (my attorney sent a new I360...???)

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CarlaM Collaborator

CarlaM   0

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He actually had to hold my hands to keep me from running away during the ceremony, and it was probably about 8-9 months after we were married before I got over my cold feet.

No idea why. Absolutely none. I love him, I knew I wanted to marry him, not worried about any of the things you mentioned or anything else that came to mind ... just this weird feeling that I was making the wrong decision. Even though I knew I wasn't.

We'll have been married three years in July.

That sounds like something i could do :whistle: but i dnt think he would hold my hand instead he would just point me out the nearest exit :lol: jk

Edited by carla-justin

20/Dec/06 I-129F sent to TSC

06/Jan/07 transfered to the CSC

15/Jan/07 I-129F sent to CSC

18/Jan/07 NOA1

03/May/07 NOA2

04/May/07 touched

07/May/07 NVC recived

09/May/07 left NVC

15/May/07 NOA2 hard copy

17/May/07 Package 3 recived

31/May/07 medical exams

04/Jun/07 interview, approved!!

06/Jun/07 visa in hand

10/Jun/07 going home

14/Jun/07 wedding

22/Jun/07 SSN name changed

27/Jul/07 filed for AOS

30/Jul/07 Chicago recived

01/Nov/07 called 911 domestic abuse

05/Nov/07 police came to help me to get my stuff out of the house

07//Nov/07 Biometrics

19/Nov/07 EAC

??/Dec/07 injunction granted against him

??/Jan/08 failure to interview

??/Feb/08 Notice from immigration: 30 days to leave the country before removal procedures start

01/Apr/08 I-360 NOA1

29/Aug/08 I-360, I-765,I485 NOA1 (my attorney sent a new I360...???)

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msu17 Proficient

msu17   0

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2 & 1 I what if everything to death, which is NOT good in this situation.

Timeline

AOS

Mailed AOS, EAD and AP Sept 11 '07

Recieved NOA1's for all Sept 23 or 24 '07

Bio appt. Oct. 24 '07

EAD/AP approved Nov 26 '07

Got the AP Dec. 3 '07

AOS interview Feb 7th (5 days after the 1 year anniversary of our K1 NOA1!

Stuck in FBI name checks...

Got the GC July '08

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JODO Veteran

JODO   2

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at first I thought this post was about actual cold feet :lol: which I do have a lot of the time...

but no I had no cold feet when it came time to get married etc... I knew he was the one from the moment I first saw him in person and there wasn't a doubt in my mind that I was going to marry him...

:lol::thumbs:

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Cassie Mentor

Cassie   8

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I was completely and utterly calm and at peace. even on our wedding day, the only time I got nervous was when it was my turn to walk down the staircase, I was petrified that I was going to trip and fall!

*Cheryl -- Nova Scotia ....... Jerry -- Oklahoma*

Jan 17, 2014 N-400 submitted

Jan 27, 2014 NOA received and cheque cashed

Feb 13, 2014 Biometrics scheduled

Nov 7, 2014 NOA received and interview scheduled


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JVKn'CVO Experienced

JVKn'CVO   11

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at first I thought this post was about actual cold feet :lol: which I do have a lot of the time...

but no I had no cold feet when it came time to get married etc... I knew he was the one from the moment I first saw him in person and there wasn't a doubt in my mind that I was going to marry him...

:lol::thumbs:

:P "actual cold feet thread" will be next

put it down as upcoming attractions :lol:

Edited by JVKn'CVO

***Justin And Caro***
Happily married and enjoying our life together!

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Savanphil   3

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I was soo ready, didn't have cold feet in the least the only thing I was nervous about was falling in the heels. I'm afraid of heartbreak.

12/03/2005: Married

10/13/2006: Interview Approved

10/26/2006: POE: EWR (ARRIVED) [/size]

182 days from filing to Visa in Hand!!![/color]

AOS/EAD

01/22/2007: Sent to The Lockbox.....let the games begin.....again

02/02/2007: NOA1's for both....the waiting game officially begins

02/15/2007: Biometrics appt.

04/11/2007: EAD APPROVED!! YI-HAW

04/21/2007: Received SSN#

05/23/2007: AOS Interview -------> APPROOOOOOVED!!!!!!

05/29/2007: Received Welcome letter

06/04/2007: Green Card in Hand!!!

122 Days from filing AOS to Green Card in Hand!!!

REMOVING CONDITIONS

05/21/2009: Filed to Remove Conditions

6/18/2009: Biometrics Done

09/14/2009: Approved!!!

Citizenship

2/15/2011: Filed N-400

3/28/2011: Biometrics <-- Done

5/09/2011: Naturalization Interview <--- APPROVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

5/09/2011: Swearing in Ceremony (We're Done)

MY HUSBAND IS NOW A US CITIZEN

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Ban Hammer Grand Master

Ban Hammer   13,340

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no cold feet. if i had any doubt whatsoever i wouldnt leave my country and risk coming here.

:blush: awwww ty sh :luv:(F)(L)

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sereia Experienced

sereia   0

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i'll be honest and say i'm a little scared. its a huge risk marrying someone not only from another culture, another religion, language, etc! anyone who is in my shoes and isn't at least a little afraid is fooling themselves imho.

"It's far better to be alone than wish you were." - Ann Landers

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doc_cute   0

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no cold feet from my side too :thumbs:

no cold feet from my side too :thumbs:

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NVC:

03/14/2007-NVC ASSIGNS CASE NUMBER

03/29/2007-AOS FEE BILL AND DS-3032 GENERATED

03/29/2007-AOS FEE BILL FEES MAILED AND DS-3032 MAILED

04/03/2007-NVC ACKNOWLEDGES CHOICE OF AGENT

04/10/2007-I.V FEE BILL GENERATED

04/18/2007-I-864 GENERATED

04/20/2007-I.V. BILL RECEIVED & MAILED TO N.V.C

04/23/2007-I-864 SENT TO NVC

04/26/2007-I.V. FEE BILL & I-864 ENTERED INTO THE NVC SYSTEM

04/30/2007-NVC BARCODE & INSTRUCTIONS FOR DS-230

05/09/2007-DS-230 SENT

05/23/2007-CASE COMPLETED

VISA APPROVED .

05/XX/2007-FLIGHT To JFK POE

another step of I-751 coming near :)

p.s. My opinion is only what i read research and get advices from experienced people.I aint any

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Namastey !

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Mrs.J06   4

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The actual move was what made me most nervous (packing boxes, decide what to keep and what to give away, sell car/appartment etc. )

No doubts about the man, but some about the location, I have to admit. All is well now...

Conditional Permanent Resident since September 20, 2006

Conditions removed February 23, 2009

I am extraordinarily patient,

provided I get my own way in the end!

Margaret Thatcher

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