"Detailed Personal Interview"?????

[Ben&Zian 4,398]

"Stokes interview"... not the greatest of experiences, so I've heard.

Edited April 3, 2019 by Ben&Zian

[bdglen 31]

3 minutes ago, missileman said:

"The Stokes interview is a secondary interview conducted on a couple who are trying to obtain an immigration green card in the United States on the basis of their marriage. It occurs when the immigration officer conducting the adjustment of status interview suspects that a couple's marital status is fraudulent."

Thank you, I may be an old fart but I learn something new everyday!

[payxibka 10,045]

1 minute ago, bdglen said:

Thank you, I may be an old fart but I learn something new everyday!

While the consulates do not do true "Stokes" interviews,  they have occasionally been known to do interviews in Stokes "style" 

[Allaboutwaiting 2,503]

Sounds like an instruction from the USCIS to the embassy. I think they mailed it to your partner by mistake, as that file is with the agent during the interview. 

See it as a positive: now you know what's their main concern.

[dwheels76 5,468]

Well they never should have sent that too you. But what you got to see is something no one else probably has.

 

I would advise for you to be there. You may get a stokes interview. No big deal. Nothing to stress about. If you know each other you know each other.

 

My husband interviewed in Nigeria and we are 26 years apart me the woman being older. Previously married to a Nigerian. Past childbearing years. Red flags everywhere. And absolutely no issues.

 

[GP1977 288]

43 minutes ago, AnneA said:

My thought too ... I think they sent you the embassy copy 

When our embassy (Ukraine) sent us the email that our petition for the K1 was ready for an interview at the consulate they sent us an electronic copy of the petition as well.  You could see where the adjudicator was checking to make sure all the questions were answered on the i129f and the top had the approval stamp.  I guess some embassy's send you a copy and others do not.

 

 

[Russ&Caro 1,549]

If this is a case of a mistaken mailing, you and your fiancee might want to keep it on the down low. The consulate might get a little upset or concerned if they learn you were mailed a copy of the application. Hopefully it wasn't the original and your file is empty. 🤣🤣

[payxibka 10,045]

Just now, Russ&Caro said:

If this is a case of a mistaken mailing, you and your fiancee might want to keep it on the down low. The consulate might get a little upset or concerned if they learn you were mailed a copy of the application. Hopefully it wasn't the original and your file is empty. 🤣🤣

What they got sent was an email copy not an original hard copy 

[NDB052714 122]

23 minutes ago, Ben&Zian said:

 

Exactly. Even on here been like three gay couples, two were Filipinos and one Thai or something, and some of them had 30-35 year age gaps... but tends to be fairly common among Asians and foreign partners so.

 

Maybe one of those gay couples on VJ that you're thinking about is us. My husband is Thai and there's a 30 year age difference. No one seemed to care. Embassy interview was easy and the usual questions. But I think you're right that significant age differences in Asia aren't unusual. 

 

--David

[Ben&Zian 4,398]

4 minutes ago, NDB052714 said:

 

Maybe one of those gay couples on VJ that you're thinking about is us. My husband is Thai and there's a 30 year age difference. No one seemed to care. Embassy interview was easy and the usual questions. But I think you're right that significant age differences in Asia aren't unusual. 

 

--David

 

Yup there you are, you are one of the ones I was thinking of. And then couple others from Philippines, but yea tends to be common for Asians and foreign partners as I had said.

[optlh0 19]

My wife and I have a 29 year age gap. At the Philippine consulate I think that's more common but I was there at the interview which I believed helped. They asked me how many times I've visited so far (that trip was the 7th time) and I believe having 7 visits in the previous 2.5 years helped a lot as well

[Shiran 1,134]

37 minutes ago, dwheels76 said:

Well they never should have sent that too you. But what you got to see is something no one else probably has.

That is not true. I've got 129F approved copy as well with our "schedule the interview" e-mail from the embassy. No dramatic remarks, but a lot of check marks, and hand written A number, Approved stamp on the header etc. You could even see punch holes on the top. I am guessing some embassies just routinely send approved 129F digital copies as attachments to petitioners/beneficiaries. 

 

P.S. Every time I read "Stokes" all I think about Gérard Depardieu, film "Green Card" and name of the night-cream Monticello

 

Edited April 3, 2019 by Shiran

[HP+IC 292]

1 minute ago, Shiran said:

That is not true. I've got 129F approved copy as well with our "schedule the interview" e-mail from the embassy. No dramatic remarks, but a lot of check marks, and hand written A number, Approved stamp on the header etc. You could even see punch holes on the top. I am guessing some embassies just routinely send approved 129F digital copies as attachments to petitioners/beneficiaries. 

 

I sometimes wonder if it is a part of Know Your Petitioner package because it comes with the IMBRA pamphlet. Probably to better protect the beneficiary

[Carpe Vinum 2,327]

3 hours ago, jkstark said:

I have to wonder if some of those questions that were asked in London were simply questions to verify that the interview had not been rehearsed with extreme details - ie. far more than would be in a normal relationship, but rather as the basis of a scam of sorts.  It almost sounds like the kind of information that somebody in "deep cover" would memorize...

It sounds more like the interviewer was having a go at them. They get bored asking the same questions I imagine. At our POE we had some dead time at the immigration booth we first checked in to while waiting for a supervisor to come and stamp Rox's passport. He started leafing through the file and asking random questions that came to him. He even said he was just waiting and passing time)))))

[Georgia16 2,858]

They had written "18 years age gap" on our also but nothing about a detailed interview and hardly got asked anything and nothing about age at all. 

 

Good luck and keep us updated!