she’s just not that into you.

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35 minutes ago, Neonred said:

Reminds me of my past.  I met the greatest girl in the summer between I think my second and third years of college.  I was just a simple geology major at South Carolina.  She was so cute, funny, a home and consumer economics major that could cook anything from scratch, make her own clothes, etc.  We were great together and so in love, but we were going to school almost 1000 miles from each other.  We eventually broke up and it was my fault as I was young and immature and I got bored with her ( or at least wanted to explore...).   A year or so later I met her in a bar.  She asked what I was doing and I told her I was leaving for Louisville in a few weeks to start dental school.  WOW did things change.  She put on the full court press...talked about us getting back together and how she would love to move to Louisville and they had a great graduate program for her and.....  I think she was ready to get married.   Told her she knew how to get a hold of me.  Of course a few days later she is calling.  Got together with her once but played it cool.

 

I still think about her and wonder if I made a mistake blowing her off and missing my second chance.  Wonder what my life would have been like if....  Would love to just see a picture of her now.  Kind of hope she is fat and ugly.

 

Damn I am still a horrible person.

 

 

Nothing more rewarding than a chick who blew you off early in life , all up your tail pipe later in life. I have had a couple of opportunities since I have been married, for old high school girls that would not give me the time of day back in the day, hitting me up on FB to meet for lunch. It always ends when I reply, great I am sure Mrs Scruffydawg would love to meet you.  I think they think because my wife is Asian they can intervene  or are superior 

 

I went overseas a little bit later in life, not because I could not find women here, its just that most single women here over 45 re tainted 

 

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1 hour ago, Prizm123 said:

 

just check the dating sites. i don't know about your cities, but in mine, it is filled with women who fall into one of the following categories: morbidly obese,  narcissists, ugly,  lazy, drug addicts, extremely stupid, or gold diggers....or in most cases some horrible combination of these undesirable traits

 

and they all want someone who is christian grey and looks like some random meathead on some show they like

 

 

Yes, exactly.  Noticed the same here several years ago when I looked.  In fact just looking at some of their pictures scared the hell out of me.

1 minute ago, Nature Boy 2.0 said:

Nothing more rewarding than a chick who blew you off early in life , all up your tail pipe later in life. I have had a couple of opportunities since I have been married, for old high school girls that would not give me the time of day back in the day, hitting me up on FB to meet for lunch. It always ends when I reply, great I am sure Mrs Scruffydawg would love to meet you.  I think they think because my wife is Asian they can intervene  or are superior 

 

I went overseas a little bit later in life, not because I could not find women here, its just that most single women here over 45 re tainted 

 

Yep.

[Nature Boy 2.0 8,378]

2 hours ago, Prizm123 said:

 

just check the dating sites. i don't know about your cities, but in mine, it is filled with women who fall into one of the following categories: morbidly obese,  narcissists, ugly,  lazy, drug addicts, extremely stupid, or gold diggers....or in most cases some horrible combination of these undesirable traits

 

and they all want someone who is christian grey and looks like some random meathead on some show they like

 

 

When I was single I didnt give two hoots about traits. Its a mind set. My favorite girl when i was single was very stupid and wild. Loved her death. Thats a great combo in a woman for a long term semi serious relationship 

[Nature Boy 2.0 8,378]

I am sure you have all seen this

 

 

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36 minutes ago, Nature Boy 2.0 said:

I am sure you have all seen this

 

 

LOL.  Never saw that before.  I could tell you some CRAZY stories about a girl I dated for a while....she lived in the DANGER zone, and I suffered for it, but you would think I was making the stories up.  Don't know how I got out of that relationship alive.  Seriously, as in it nearly cost me my life.

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2 hours ago, Nature Boy 2.0 said:

 

 

I went overseas a little bit later in life, not because I could not find women here, its just that most single women here over 45 re tainted 

 

my last girlfriend before i met my current fiance is like that. she was really nice, had her act together, we had a lot of fun together, we liked the same music etc.... but boy was she judgemental.... thinking that everyone who lived in trailers was trailer park trash, thinking that i was horrible for being broke because unlike her persona non grata baby daddy, i paid my child support and she kept asking me why i did that..... needless to say, we parted ways....

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2 hours ago, Nature Boy 2.0 said:

When I was single I didnt give two hoots about traits. Its a mind set. My favorite girl when i was single was very stupid and wild. Loved her death. Thats a great combo in a woman for a long term semi serious relationship 

i had some of those experiences, and thats why i dont want a wild woman anymore.... not into the drama, being chased around my apartment with a butchers knife because she though i messed around with her friend, finding needles in my bathroom.... pass

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1 hour ago, Neonred said:

LOL.  Never saw that before.  I could tell you some CRAZY stories about a girl I dated for a while....she lived in the DANGER zone, and I suffered for it, but you would think I was making the stories up.  Don't know how I got out of that relationship alive.  Seriously, as in it nearly cost me my life.

Sexy dumb and crazy all in one is the ultimate aphrodisiac or me 

7 minutes ago, Prizm123 said:

i had some of those experiences, and thats why i dont want a wild woman anymore.... not into the drama, being chased around my apartment with a butchers knife because she though i messed around with her friend, finding needles in my bathroom.... pass

Well according to a guy named Kip you dont know, , all rub women chase you around with a knife at some point LOL. Trust me those of us that have heard the stories will find the inside humor in that

Edited March 31, 2019 by Nature Boy 2.0

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38 minutes ago, Nature Boy 2.0 said:

Sexy dumb and crazy all in one is the ultimate aphrodisiac or me 

Well according to a guy named Kip you dont know, , all rub women chase you around with a knife at some point LOL. Trust me those of us that have heard the stories will find the inside humor in that

it was my knife and my apartment...

Edited March 31, 2019 by Prizm123

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1 hour ago, Prizm123 said:

i had some of those experiences, and thats why i dont want a wild woman anymore.... not into the drama, being chased around my apartment with a butchers knife because she though i messed around with her friend,

You too?

28 minutes ago, Prizm123 said:

it was my knife and my apartment...

same here

 

OK, guess it happens to all of us.

Edited March 31, 2019 by Neonred

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1 hour ago, Nature Boy 2.0 said:

Sexy dumb and crazy all in one is the ultimate aphrodisiac or me 

Well according to a guy named Kip you dont know, , all rub women chase you around with a knife at some point LOL. Trust me those of us that have heard the stories will find the inside humor in that

 

  Sometimes they just throw a dish or two. That's probably not unique to any one nationality though. 

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9 hours ago, Neonred said:

I still think about her

This is probably more prevalent than one might guess.

Couple of buddies reminisce about chicas they knew 20 or 30 years ago, wondering "what if"...

In the end, however, most relationships end for a reason, and time causes one to forget that reason or its significance way back when.

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23 minutes ago, TBoneTX said:

This is probably more prevalent than one might guess.

Couple of buddies reminisce about chicas they knew 20 or 30 years ago, wondering "what if"...

In the end, however, most relationships end for a reason, and time causes one to forget that reason or its significance way back when.

way i see it is everything i have done and gone through has brought me to where i am today with the one i am with today, and i would not change a single thing if it would mean that i was not at this point at this time with the person i am with now

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For some reason, your above makes me think of the following:

 

Customer:  Waiter -- may I have a cup of coffee without cream?

Waiter:  We're all out of cream, sir; how about having it without milk?

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1 hour ago, TBoneTX said:

This is probably more prevalent than one might guess.

Couple of buddies reminisce about chicas they knew 20 or 30 years ago, wondering "what if"...

In the end, however, most relationships end for a reason, and time causes one to forget that reason or its significance way back when.

Thing about fb is you to kinda see them and reconnect from a distsnce. Then you realize why you did not settle down with them .

 

Time seems to make you remember only the fun stuff and forget the bad