Removal of Conditions, not sure what to do, HELP

[p-ana 933]

Agreed with the previous answers. Please say safe and make sure you keep proof of entering the marriage in good faith and proof of living together and commingling finances.

 

other than that, as it seems your username might be your real name, I’d change it just in case the husband, friends or family see it, with his mood it could be very dangerous 

 

best of luck

[accumbyte 149]

18 hours ago, Carolina Wilson said:

- can I apply for ROC after a divorce? Marriage was legit and I do not wish to get a divorce, but his threats are very frequent and I am terrified.

If you get your divorce finalized then you don't have to wait until 90 days before the conditional GC expiration date; you could file ROC early with a final order of divorce: https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/divorce-your-conditional-residence-status-how-file-divorce-waiver-with-form-i-751.html

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You can file Form I-751 at any time if you have a final order of divorce or annulment. That's true even if your conditional green card is not close to its expiration date.

 

Edited February 28, 2019 by accumbyte

[EM_Vandaveer 2,408]

A heads-up if he doesn't divorce you and time comes to file for ROC: his non-cooperation may cause problems. You may be forced to file for divorce yourself so you can deal with the I-751 divorce waiver by yourself without the need for his co-operation.

[discoverusa 267]

If you do a lot of your own research I am sure you can file ROC by yourself and save your money. Some immigration lawyers are not that good. This website is full of helpful information.

[Carolina Wilson 2]

So a sad update.

 

As many of you prolly though or said, he finally hit me. Three times. Three times for different reasons, all of them very simple things. All of the reasons were not me. Any small situation that stressed him out, when I tried to intervene to calm him down, I got screamed at for hours, and in some occasions physically hit. Never severe enough to send me to urgent care, (except one time I was actually driving our car on the interstate, and he struck me in the head; it could have gone so wrong for both of us) but it is a matter of time. I am going home for a bit before I start my residency in July. We are not divorced yet but I will have to make that happen once I move out. I consulted a lawyer and I have been gathering more evidence of a true relationship (pictures with his friends and relatives). But I do not wish to continue with this relationship. It is scary. all the time. I now am used to the verbal abuse and started thinking less of myself after the things he says to me. I finally reached out to some friends and they all begged for me to move out sooner. Being naive and stubborn I did not listen. Anyways. I will leave in two weeks, and then move to start my residency.

 

 

I just hope the ROC is possible and goes well, I truly do not want to lose my GC and my residency after such a horrible relationship. No green card in the world is worth this hell.

 

- Do I need to file as soon as I get divorced?

- Can I leave the country to visit home if I am divorced but with a valid GC?

- I read somewhere that I will need to write a letter to the USCIS, how detailed should that be? tell them everything?

- Any other advice?

 

 

Thank you, fellow kind people. Thank you.

 

Carolina

 

 

[TBoneTX 45,288]

{{{{ hugs }}}}

[mytruelove18 608]

On 5/7/2019 at 2:24 PM, Carolina Wilson said:

So a sad update.

 

As many of you prolly though or said, he finally hit me. Three times. Three times for different reasons, all of them very simple things. All of the reasons were not me. Any small situation that stressed him out, when I tried to intervene to calm him down, I got screamed at for hours, and in some occasions physically hit. Never severe enough to send me to urgent care, (except one time I was actually driving our car on the interstate, and he struck me in the head; it could have gone so wrong for both of us) but it is a matter of time. I am going home for a bit before I start my residency in July. We are not divorced yet but I will have to make that happen once I move out. I consulted a lawyer and I have been gathering more evidence of a true relationship (pictures with his friends and relatives). But I do not wish to continue with this relationship. It is scary. all the time. I now am used to the verbal abuse and started thinking less of myself after the things he says to me. I finally reached out to some friends and they all begged for me to move out sooner. Being naive and stubborn I did not listen. Anyways. I will leave in two weeks, and then move to start my residency.

 

 

I just hope the ROC is possible and goes well, I truly do not want to lose my GC and my residency after such a horrible relationship. No green card in the world is worth this hell.

 

- Do I need to file as soon as I get divorced?

- Can I leave the country to visit home if I am divorced but with a valid GC?

- I read somewhere that I will need to write a letter to the USCIS, how detailed should that be? tell them everything?

- Any other advice?

 

 

Thank you, fellow kind people. Thank you.

 

Carolina

 

 

Sorry that happened to you.

Only i can say good luck and continue with your life, life is too short to live unhappy