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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Canada
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Hello, 

 

Does anyone know of any time an immigrant has been scrutinized for not changing their last name after marriage? I don’t mind keeping my maiden name and frankly would prefer to avoid the headache of changing it, but since I am an immigrant and my marriage is unlike most people’s in that it is being scrutinized by immigration, I'm wondering if it’s a bad idea not to change it? Anybody know? Thanks. 

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Change it or not...that's a personal preference. It won't be an issue.

Timelines:

ROC:

Spoiler

7/27/20: Sent forms to Dallas lockbox, 7/30/20: Received by USCIS, 8/10 NOA1 electronic notification received, 8/1/ NOA1 hard copy received

AOS:

Spoiler

AOS (I-485 + I-131 + I-765):

9/25/17: sent forms to Chicago, 9/27/17: received by USCIS, 10/4/17: NOA1 electronic notification received, 10/10/17: NOA1 hard copy received. Social Security card being issued in married name (3rd attempt!)

10/14/17: Biometrics appointment notice received, 10/25/17: Biometrics

1/2/18: EAD + AP approved (no website update), 1/5/18: EAD + AP mailed, 1/8/18: EAD + AP approval notice hardcopies received, 1/10/18: EAD + AP received

9/5/18: Interview scheduled notice, 10/17/18: Interview

10/24/18: Green card produced notice, 10/25/18: Formal approval, 10/31/18: Green card received

K-1:

Spoiler

I-129F

12/1/16: sent, 12/14/16: NOA1 hard copy received, 3/10/17: RFE (IMB verification), 3/22/17: RFE response received

3/24/17: Approved! , 3/30/17: NOA2 hard copy received

 

NVC

4/6/2017: Received, 4/12/2017: Sent to Riyadh embassy, 4/16/2017: Case received at Riyadh embassy, 4/21/2017: Request case transfer to Manila, approved 4/24/2017

 

K-1

5/1/2017: Case received by Manila (1 week embassy transfer??? Lucky~)

7/13/2017: Interview: APPROVED!!!

7/19/2017: Visa in hand

8/15/2017: POE

 

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Taiwan
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My wife didn't....and will not in the future........no effect at all.....

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Russia
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My wife chose to change her family name.  To be honest, it would have been less of a hassle if she had not, but as the other learnered members have said, it is a personal choice and should not impact anyone’s immigration journey.

 

Good Luck!

Visa Received : 2014-04-04 (K1 - see timeline for details)

US Entry : 2014-09-12

POE: Detroit

Marriage : 2014-09-27

I-765 Approved: 2015-01-09

I-485 Interview: 2015-03-11

I-485 Approved: 2015-03-13

Green Card Received: 2015-03-24 Yeah!!!

I-751 ROC Submitted: 2016-12-20

I-751 NOA Received:  2016-12-29

I-751 Biometrics Appt.:  2017-01-26

I-751 Interview:  2018-04-10

I-751 Approved:  2018-05-04

N400 Filed:  2018-01-13

N400 Biometrics:  2018-02-22

N400 Interview:  2018-04-10

N400 Approved:  2018-04-10

Oath Ceremony:  2018-06-11 - DONE!!!!!!!

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Ukraine
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my wife didn't change hers either and after so much wait....(laughing) it took us only 8 month to get AOS interview. Waiting for the notice in the mail currently.

 

no it doesn't affect your immigration paperwork

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8/7/2017                    NOA-1

3/1/2018                    NOA-2

3/15/2018                  NVC case received

3/22/2018                  NVC case assigned

3/23/2018                  Consulate ready

4/11/2018                  Medical

4/17/2018                  Visa Approved

4/24/2018                  Visa on hand

5/23/2018                  Point of Entry ATL

5/24/2018                  Marriage license, officiant and certificate / applied for SS#

5/31/2018                  AOS/AP/EAD

6/7/2018                    email notification of NOA-1

6/11/2018                  NOA-1 hard copies for AOS/EAD/AP

6/27/2018                  Biometrics for AOS/EAD

7/7/2018                    ready to be scheduled for interview

7/11/2018                  We are still reviewing your case and there are no updates at this time (email from USCIS)

8/22/2018                  We are still reviewing your case and there are no updates at this time (same email again)

9/5/2018                     We are still reviewing your case and there are no updates at this time (this is getting boring!!!)

10/3/2018                  We are still reviewing your case and there are no updates at this time (this is insanity, 4th time while some got GC)

10/17/2018                After 136 days of wait in HELL, finally EAD in production

10/21/2018                Card was mailed to me, and yes it said so on a Sunday night, while Vj-ing

10/22/2018                Card was picked up by the USPS

10/24/2018                EAD in hand. F%^&& finally

12/28/2018                Interview has been scheduled. Waiting for notification with date by snail mail

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: United Kingdom
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I didn't change mine and it honestly doesn't make you any less 'married' if you choose not to! I was scarred from Social Security-that I decided stuff it 😂

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Myanmar
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Years ago, on flyertalk, I recall a hassle a couple had at YYC (CBP preclearance POE) who were married but had different last names. The CBP officer gave them a hassle, so they just told him they will be denying the USA the opportunity to receive their visit that day. 

 

My fiancee won’t be changing her last name (she actually doesn’t have a last name) to mine, and I don’t expect any hassles until she travels on her green card. 

 

But I do expect hassles.  

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10 minutes ago, Mike E said:

Years ago, on flyertalk, I recall a hassle a couple had at YYC (CBP preclearance POE) who were married but had different last names. The CBP officer gave them a hassle, so they just told him they will be denying the USA the opportunity to receive their visit that day. 

 

visiting is different than immigrating. 

You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose.  - Dr. Seuss

 

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Myanmar
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10 minutes ago, NikLR said:

visiting is different than immigrating. 

As someone who went through YYC over 50 times as a green card holder, and dozens through most of the other preclearance stations around the world and Canada, I beg to differ.  

 

At preclearance POEs, CBP officers have essentially unchecked power over admitting anyone: visitor, immigrant visa holder, green card holder, or citizen. For example, another flyertalk thread from years ago discusses a USA citizen patent attorney who was told by a CBP officer in YUL that if he didn’t break attorney client privilege, he was not going to be flying to the USA that day.  

 

Married couples with different last names are unusual to CBP officers and so the likelihood of a hassle goes up. Just be prepared to drive to the USA from Canada.

 

As I am. 

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How would CBP officers know the marital status of anyone? I have a marriage-based GC but I could be divorced or widowed for all they know. CBP are only going to know you're married if you tell them. And you only need to tell them if you are specifically asked. I have only enteted the country once since immigrating. I wasn't asked anything personal such as whether I am married or not. They were only interested in where I had been and whether I had brought anything prohibited back with me. 

Timeline in brief:

Married: September 27, 2014

I-130 filed: February 5, 2016

NOA1: February 8, 2016 Nebraska

NOA2: July 21, 2016

Interview: December 6, 2016 London

POE: December 19, 2016 Las Vegas

N-400 filed: September 30, 2019

Interview: March 22, 2021 Seattle

Oath: March 22, 2021 COVID-style same-day oath

 

Now a US citizen!

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1 hour ago, Mike E said:

As someone who went through YYC over 50 times as a green card holder, and dozens through most of the other preclearance stations around the world and Canada, I beg to differ.  

 

At preclearance POEs, CBP officers have essentially unchecked power over admitting anyone: visitor, immigrant visa holder, green card holder, or citizen. For example, another flyertalk thread from years ago discusses a USA citizen patent attorney who was told by a CBP officer in YUL that if he didn’t break attorney client privilege, he was not going to be flying to the USA that day.  

 

Married couples with different last names are unusual to CBP officers and so the likelihood of a hassle goes up. Just be prepared to drive to the USA from Canada.

 

As I am. 

CBP in Montreal have to see married people with their birth name all day, everyday, as it hasn't been legal to take your spouse name in Québec since the 1980s... 

 

Anecdotal evidence to anecdotal evidence, I didn't change my name and have yet to experience negative. 250+ entries to the USA, land, US airports, and preclearance in Canada and abroad. Zero issue entering other countries either. No fee, no hassle. 

 

 

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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14 hours ago, Mike E said:

Married couples with different last names are unusual to CBP officers and so the likelihood of a hassle goes up.

 

I have no idea where you get this idea. Are you a time traveler from the 1950s?

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Canada
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no you do not have to change your name.

 

no one (CBP, USCIS, etc) cares if you do or don't.

i 485, 130, EAD and AP

04/09/2019    NOA1 received/check cashed i 485 and 130 (direct adjustment)

11/7/2019      Interview- Norfolk

11/10/2019    APPROVED (notification rec'd 11/10, approval dated 11/8)

DONE FOR TWO YEARS!!! ;)

 

Filed everything ourselves with no RFE's or delays.

 

CR1 for Child under 21 (20 at time of filing)- Filed by LPR Spouse for his son

4/4/20     Mailed packet

4/12/20   NOA1 rec'd

10/14/21 (havent heard anything... when do i start to get worried?)

9/15/22 APPROVED! Now to wait for NVC and interview....

 

ROC

10/14/21 Mailed to AZ PO Box. Let the waiting begin. Again.

10/16/21 Received at PO Box

10/19/21 Received Text NOA1

10/23/21 Received Mailed NOA1

 

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