Am I depressed again, or just bored and lonely?

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

I recommend porn and masturbation.

[Tinker 0]

I recommend porn and masturbation.

While checking out hotornot?

[Leney 0]

hotornot = poor mans porn?

[Sheriff Uling 3]

I'm getting depressed too. My wife's menstrual cycle will be starting soon...

Well I'm sure she appreciates THAT being broadcast to the nations....

Why? It's a natural thing like sitting on the toilet. Nothing to be ashamed about...

[Lizzy 0]

Hi!

You could also try www.secondlife.com. Its an online virtual world, the largest in the world. I play it a LOT.

Maybe i missed something, i normally do.. but could you get a part time job? Even do some volunteer work?

If you need someone to chat to IM me and i will give you my email:)

I get depressed a lot even through i have everything in the world i wanted, we all get lonely and depressed, i really hope you find something to help you along.

Take care of YOU and other things will follow. *hugs*

[JenT 0]

...like sitting on the toilet.

Next time she does, be sure to let us know.

[doodlebug 3]

jigzone.com passes the time away for me

[Krikit 1,164]

I'm going to be blunt here so please don't be offended. It's for a good cause.

You've gotten yourself into a rut and you need to snap out of it. The good thing is that you're fully aware of it. Women aren't as inclined to be interested in men who have no motivation and, hence, no lives. And friends will quickly fall by the wayside, too. You need to get out and get involved in life. No finances? Go walking. Visit the library. Join a club. Need finances? Don't go out with your friends on Thursdays and weekends and see how much you have to do other things.

The biggest thing you need to remember is to not let things continue to slide. Take an interest in yourself because no one else will until you do.

Best wishes.

Edited May 22, 2007 by Krikit

[dingding 0]

I'm going to be blunt here so please don't be offended. It's for a good cause.

You've gotten yourself into a rut and you need to snap out of it. The good thing is that you're fully aware of it. Women aren't as inclined to be interested in men who have no motivation and, hence, no lives. And friends will quickly fall by the wayside, too. You need to get out and get involved in life. No finances? Go walking. Visit the library. Join a club. Need finances? Don't go out with your friends on Thursdays and weekends and see how much you have to do other things.

The biggest thing you need to remember is to not let things continue to slide. Take an interest in yourself because no one else will until you do.

Best wishes.

Thanks. Thing is noone knows that I feel like this. When Im around people and when Im out with friends I am always in a great mood, very popular, and often the "life and soul of the party" to use a cliche!

If my friends knew how I felt or saw me like this on my own they would be kinda shocked.

Its just getting used to entertaining my own self and getting used to spending time on my own.

I feel a fair bit better tonight i must admit. I think some of it is almost like a "coming down" effect if that makes sense. Like I had a really great weekend with my mates out and about, and then monday being alone again, was like...well as i said maybe like coming down of some kind of high. Not sure why I feel better tonight. Havent really done much. Watched Cops on TV (see as cheesy as it is thats a programme that actually holds my interest. And now im just lay in bed listening to the radio on my MP3 player. I guess It could be affected by a comedown from the alcohol, I know full well it can be a depressant, with going out so much over the weekend, and having been going out at pretty much every opportunity I guess I have been consuming a fair amount, so maybe that has something to do with it.

Anyways ive made an appointment to go check out one of the local gyms this weekend. Its $60 a month but I know that i will get my moneys worth.

[Jenn! 918]

I guess It could be affected by a comedown from the alcohol, I know full well it can be a depressant, with going out so much over the weekend, and having been going out at pretty much every opportunity I guess I have been consuming a fair amount, so maybe that has something to do with it.

Ok, JMHO, but that definitely has something to do with it. In short, you've been having too much fun, so being by yourself just sort of blows. I've felt like that before, and it was when I was going out with friends partying it up almost every night. If I had a night at home alone, I didn't know what to do with myself and felt very anxious.

Great job joining the gym, I think that's a really good start!

[Krikit 1,164]

I agree with Jenn. Good for you on joining the gym, dnkelly! When you're fit you have a natural high and it's a really good feeling.

I also agree with you and Jenn about the alcohol. It truly is a depressant and a vicious vicious cycle. Not to mention the calories!!! LOL

All the best!