visa process has me so stressed

[Sinergy 3]

I had a doctors appointment today, just a normal check up, and my blood pressure was way too high. My only stress right now is waiting for the approval and for my fiance to be here, and the fact im raising 2 kids alone when if CSC would hurry up i would have my fiance here to be supportive in more than words.

Anyway she put me on valums (sp i know i spelt it wrong).

anyway i feel like a dork now. I cant believe ive let this visa process control my health so badly.

>hands some out to other ppl who may need one<

[Satisfaction 1]

I agree that the whole process is s sickening, but things can only get better after all

Hang in there

[Not Available 0]

I totally understand! It's amazing what the body can do when you are stressed! Just remember that it will be all over soon!

[Melo 1]

Hang in there!!! Nothing else that you can do that is worth talking of... if you need us we are here for you.

[Kaitie64 0]

Sorry to hear how stressful this whole thing has been for you, I can totally relate. I've also noticed changes to my health lately. This process is difficult enough, never mind raising a family alone until your SO is there to help lighten the load a bit. I just try to hold on to the fact that sooner or later (hoping sooner ) it will all be over and our family will be under one roof. I hope you and your fiance are reunited very soon. Try and stay strong and when you can't... scream into a pillow lol

[Sinergy 3]

Thanks guys, i no longer feel like a dork. And these valums really do work well

[Paul & wubit 0]

Hello i have not even started the process yet and iam already stressed out, And i have no kids yet but i know how you feel cant eat cant sleep and the mind is going in all differnt directions. It is so hard being away from the ones we love and that fill that void in our lives. Iam just glad that we all each other here to make through this process. and one day we all will say those words VISA IN HAND She or he is on his or her way home so we all are to help and support one another. My SO is in ethiopia and trust me iam sooo alone with out her. and i just got back from there .

I hope this helps

Paul

[MichelleandCraig 1]

awwwwwww...I just wanted to add my 'sorry you're feeling so stressed' and also I understand! It's been a rough waiting period for most of us and we do know where you're coming from! Mine is over now, but I do remember what it was like..I think all of us here who are reunited really truly wish we could do something to hurry it along for the rest of you!!! Some very tiny small consolation if any I know, but it's true! Anyway, wishing you all the very best for as speedy as possible visa in hand so you can have a wonderful reunion!! Be good to yourself..and enjoy the Valium! hhaha M & C

[munchkins 0]

I don't think there is a person on this board who will not know what you are going through, we all feel the same at times. I know my blood pressure reached a dangerous point and I now have to take blood pressure tablets but the doctor is sure that once this process is over, I will be fine.

I used to take Valium years ago when I was loosing my business and vowed I would never do so again so if I feel stressed now I just take some herbal ones, seem to do the trick, or even better - just a few Bacardi and cokes - that's even better

Keep going, it will be over and you will be together ***hugs ***** to you

[Sinergy 3]

well darn, too bad i didnt see the idea about rum and coke before i went to bed ofcorse its 7am and a wee bit too early for that, but its on the top of my list for tonight

[munchkins 0]

well darn, too bad i didnt see the idea about rum and coke before i went to bed ofcorse its 7am and a wee bit too early for that, but its on the top of my list for tonight

Bet it works Friday night is what we call "Crunchie night" here, time to totally chill and go out and enjoy ourselves, which would you believe means just a few more bacardi's and coke

Hope it works and you can have a nice relaxing weekend

[Sinergy 3]

Guess i better find a babysitter

[mercuryroad 0]

Guess i better find a babysitter

Yes! And party like it's 1989!

[almaty 19]

Thanks guys, i no longer feel like a dork. And these valums really do work well

no etoh...alcohol for you....serious their is a synergy effect and it is dangerous..

[mercuryroad 0]

Thanks guys, i no longer feel like a dork. And these valums really do work well

no etoh...alcohol for you....serious their is a synergy effect and it is dangerous..

Good point.....feel free however, to enjoy a Coke and let other people believe you are drinking. The great part is that you can act as crazy as you want and feel fine the next day.