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[Jaffakin 1]

Hello vj Members 

Still my wife is treating me, he will send me back to Africa, because I said he don't care about my children and only think about her children. So she going to file for divorce and she will said I marry her because of green card. What should I do.  

[Roel 7,192]

If she does have proofs of green card scam she can report you to USCIS. If she doesn't, then nothing will happen. 

 

If you already have a green card then there is nothing to worry about it. 

[Jesus is Love 40]

I recommend that you go to speak with a lawyer or a friend face to face. Putting your business on here is not the best option especially after you last post. People will just continue to attack you. Seek professional counseling for these answers and make your adjustments from there. 

[geowrian 22,337]

Advice was provided on this topic in your previous post.

[Jaffakin 1]

19 minutes ago, Roel said:

If she does have proofs of green card scam she can report you to USCIS. If she doesn't, then nothing will happen. 

 

If you already have a green card then there is nothing to worry about it. 

She have no proof, she said all I do is work and when I got paid too he dont see my money, she now I pay my bills phone, car payment, food and I and her have mango farm in Africa, I used the same money to maintain the farm. Is all because she asked of $300 for her son I didn't gave it to her.

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

1 hour ago, Jaffakin said:

She have no proof, she said all I do is work and when I got paid too he dont see my money, she now I pay my bills phone, car payment, food and I and her have mango farm in Africa, I used the same money to maintain the farm. Is all because she asked of $300 for her son I didn't gave it to her.

How you handle your finances as a couple is something you need to work out.  None of us is capable of telling you how you need to intermingle your money, was her request for money for her child valid? Medical or School related ? That is different than he wants a new pair of Air Jordans.  You need as a couple to determine how finances are handled in your house, avoid the argument, money is too easy to fight about. 

 

If you have a mango farm in Africa and it detracts from your finances in the US perhaps it is better to sell it, unless you intend to move back there to farm it. 

[Ontarkie 14,234]

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[Jaffakin 1]

Thank you all for your response. I found the solution.

If you have already successfully applied for permanent residence (a green card), USCIS has no reason to take a second look at your application just now, so you need not worry.

But we’re talking only about permanent residence here, not conditional residence, as described next. The only people who become permanent residents immediately after applying for their green card are those whose marriages were already two years old or older at the time they were approved for the green card.

However, if you later apply for U.S. citizenship, you’re giving USCIS a reason to take another look at your file. Read the entry below concerning this issue.

[milimelo 4,486]

2 hours ago, Jaffakin said:

Thank you all for your response. I found the solution.

If you have already successfully applied for permanent residence (a green card), USCIS has no reason to take a second look at your application just now, so you need not worry.

But we’re talking only about permanent residence here, not conditional residence, as described next. The only people who become permanent residents immediately after applying for their green card are those whose marriages were already two years old or older at the time they were approved for the green card.

However, if you later apply for U.S. citizenship, you’re giving USCIS a reason to take another look at your file. Read the entry below concerning this issue.

You realized you had a ten year green card? 

[Pinkrlion 2,724]

On December 26, 2018 at 11:08 AM, Jaffakin said:

She have no proof, she said all I do is work and when I got paid too he dont see my money, she now I pay my bills phone, car payment, food and I and her have mango farm in Africa, I used the same money to maintain the farm. Is all because she asked of $300 for her son I didn't gave it to her.

Why didnt u give money to ur wife?  I see that she has legitimate complaint.  Why are u not helping to support the household?

[NikLR 13,227]

7 hours ago, Pinkrlion said:

Why didnt u give money to ur wife?  I see that she has legitimate complaint.  Why are u not helping to support the household?

He is.  He just doesnt want to also help the households of his adult step children. They're adults and should pay their own bills and buy their own cars. 

[EM_Vandaveer 2,408]

On 12/27/2018 at 12:21 AM, milimelo said:

You realized you had a ten year green card? 

This! BTW, OP if you are right & you came on an IR visa then you have a 10-year GC already. Easy to figure out. Look at the "Residence since" & "Valid until" dates on your GC. If they are 10 years apart then you have a 10-year GC & don't have to worry about ROC. If you divorce then you do have to wait 5 years (minus 90 days) from the "Resident since" date on your GC to apply for naturalization. That is the only thing pertaining to your immigration journey that would change due to divorce.

[Mrsamoah2019 593]

I dont blame you one bit taking care of no grown stepchildren......However, you are a LPR nothing she can do to deport you

Edited January 19, 2019 by Mrsamoah2018