We got NOIR need help

[Sparrow 23]

1 minute ago, Ahmed&Freda said:

No visits?  Since the wedding?  This could be the most damaging part to your case.   You can attempt to show why you have not been able to see each other but no visits will be a very difficult hurdle to overcome.

 

There are a few post above with lots of tips for a rebuttal.  Quickly compile it as you only have a short amount of time and have your wife meet with an attorney at least if its to get recommendations.

Please check your message box I send you message there and I told millions of times to her to visit me but she was scared to visit me because she saw the news before and she also check the homeland security website for travel and there is travel warning for us citizenships I ask her to visit me but she don't listen to me 

[Crazy Cat 41,985]

2 minutes ago, Sparrow said:

Please check your message box I send you message there and I told millions of times to her to visit me but she was scared to visit me because she saw the news before and she also check the homeland security website for travel and there is travel warning for us citizenships I ask her to visit me but she don't listen to me 

Have you asked your wife to come here on Visa Journey? What is she doing on her end to solve this issue?

[Ahmed&Freda 628]

1 minute ago, Sparrow said:

Please check your message box I send you message there and I told millions of times to her to visit me but she was scared to visit me because she saw the news before and she also check the homeland security website for travel and there is travel warning for us citizenships I ask her to visit me but she don't listen to me 

OK

 

I understand it can be a very scary.  I'm a tiny little white as white girl with green eyes standing out like a sore thumb in these places.   I traveled to Quetta (a red zone) because it was so important to me to meet my husbands family.   There are many other much safer places in Pakistan to travel or you could meet in Dubai.  

[Sparrow 23]

19 hours ago, Sparrow said:

Hi we got NOIR but uscis status said case was approved and they lie about my case like I married twice which is not true I only married once with my wife I was single before I am uploading the pictures 

 

[gregcrs2 1,778]

6 hours ago, Sparrow said:

She is coming to visit me if they give us extension and she is putting me in her insurance and I am on the property lease too she is doing joint bank  accounts too we will definitely send them documents my family affidavits of supports my friend letter and everything we are hiring the attorney also 

So if you don't get an extension then your wife will not be visiting you?   

[Crazy Cat 41,985]

8 hours ago, Sparrow said:

this is not unusual thing in pakistan culture

So it normal in Pakistan for the female to be 15 years older then their male spouse?  Really??

[Crazy Cat 41,985]

I must ask this question.  Is your wife still committed to this marriage and petition?

[Kastrs 723]

1 hour ago, Ahmed&Freda said:

OK

 

I understand it can be a very scary.  I'm a tiny little white as white girl with green eyes standing out like a sore thumb in these places.   I traveled to Quetta (a red zone) because it was so important to me to meet my husbands family.   There are many other much safer places in Pakistan to travel or you could meet in Dubai.  

THIS!

I am blonde with blue eyes, stick out like a sore thumb, but I have been to Pakistan several times, you have other options, it is relatively easy to get a visa to visit Dubai and you could meet there

 

Also to the OP, despite what you have said, it is not culturally normal for an older (much older) woman to marry a younger man

5 minutes ago, missileman said:

So it normal in Pakistan for the female to be 15 years older then their male spouse?  Really??

NO it is NOT normal, it would definitely be a source of gossip

[Crazy Cat 41,985]

Just now, Kastrs said:

Also to the OP, despite what you have said, it is not culturally normal for an older (much older) woman to marry a younger man

My thoughts exactly.............I'm not sure why Sparrow said that because he knows it isn't the norm.

[gregcrs2 1,778]

6 minutes ago, missileman said:

So it normal in Pakistan for the female to be 15 years older then their male spouse?  Really??

I don't think it is normal anywhere.  

[Ben&Zian 4,398]

Would agree with others, two other big issues are the age gap, which can be overcome with lots of visits and face time.... but then you said you haven't seen eachother but once since the marriage? That's an issue, and "fear of traveling" to one's country isn't a good reason to not visit. Go to a third party country... lot's of ways to avoid whatever the "fear" is... but when someone only pays attention to the news, they tend to get themselves psyched out since the media loves fear mongering about everything these days.

[Sparrow 23]

24 minutes ago, missileman said:

I must ask this question.  Is your wife still committed to this marriage and petition?

Yes she does she is calling the attorney right now 

30 minutes ago, gregcrs2 said:

So if you don't get an extension then your wife will not be visiting you?   

She is coming to visit me no matter what happen 

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@Sparrow if I remember correctly from your previous threads I've taken part in, you also married your wife on the FIRST visit, correct?

 

And then you haven't seen your wife for 3+ years since marrying, sent no evidence whatsoever in terms of living in marital union except for emails and chat messages....not difficult to see why the officer began to think it was not a bonafide marriage.

[Crazy Cat 41,985]

Just now, Sparrow said:

Yes she does she is calling the attorney right now 

That's great....because it takes both people to get through this painful process.......good luck..

[Sparrow 23]

24 minutes ago, Kastrs said:

THIS!

I am blonde with blue eyes, stick out like a sore thumb, but I have been to Pakistan several times, you have other options, it is relatively easy to get a visa to visit Dubai and you could meet there

 

Also to the OP, despite what you have said, it is not culturally normal for an older (much older) woman to marry a younger man

NO it is NOT normal, it would definitely be a source of gossip

Well I know they care about age thing but we don't care I know it's going to be age problem my family accept this I accept this we will fight with them until death so let's see who is going to win age is just number I love my wife and I will love her forever and ever we have strong love