We got NOIR need help

[Crazy Cat 41,878]

3 minutes ago, Sparrow said:

No we didn't get an attorney because they said we don't need attorney because our case was simple thats  what my wife said to me and we have short time to find attorney we did by ourself 

Who said that your case is simple? 

[Sparrow 23]

Just now, missileman said:

Who said that your case is simple? 

Attorney said that's what my wife told me 

[Sparrow 23]

4 minutes ago, missileman said:

Who said that your case is simple? 

They updated status this and why they update this status if we response to their noir 

Intent to Revoke Notice Was Sent
On January 11, 2019, we mailed you a notice explaining our intent to revoke our earlier approval of your case, Receipt Number . The notice explains what we will do. Please follow the instructions in the notice and submit any requested materials. If you  do not receive your notice before January 25, 2019, contact the USCIS Contact Center at

[Lemonslice 4,841]

25 minutes ago, Sparrow said:

We understand the process We have friend Carolyn she help us alot she having alot knowledge and we already summit the evidence but I am wondering why they update status about sending us intent to revoke notice because this is the first time they said they are sending us NOIR because when they update our case on uscis website they said case was approved and they mail us intent to revoke notice I don't know why they are playing games with us.

You keep telling stories showing you guys do not understand what's going on. 

 

You don't need hope. You're case is not simple. If your wife is not taking this process seriously and seeking assistance, visiting you more often, and getting... involved, I don't see you ever getting the spousal visa. 

 

Wishing you the best. I'm out.

 

[Crazy Cat 41,878]

6 minutes ago, Sparrow said:

Attorney said that's what my wife told me 

I see.......I wish for the very best in life.......If I were you, I would have a very serious talk with my wife about her commitment to this relationship.  It is extremely difficult for me to believe that an immigration attorney told her that this is a simple case......

[gregcrs2 1,778]

22 minutes ago, Sparrow said:

Attorney said that's what my wife told me 

Sorry but It's not believable that your wife talked to an immigration attorney.  This case is not simple.  

[geowrian 22,337]

Anytime a NOIR is involved, it's no longer "simple" IMO. Failure to not just have but also present a strong case at that point usually does not end well. this is when you start throwing in everything including the kitchen sink.

[Going through 5,671]

4 hours ago, missileman said:

I had hoped your wife would come here on VJ........

The wife is a member of VJ (as disclosed by the OP in another thread, with her username), but appears she has not visited the site since signing up a year or so ago.

[Crazy Cat 41,878]

1 minute ago, Going through said:

The wife is a member of VJ (as disclosed by the OP in another thread, with her username), but appears she has not visited the site since signing up a year or so ago.

I see.......Thanks....

[Going through 5,671]

4 hours ago, Lemonslice said:

You don't need hope. You're case is not simple. If your wife is not taking this process seriously and seeking assistance, visiting you more often, and getting... involved, I don't see you ever getting the spousal visa. 

This.

 

In this thread, and others in the past---you've said how your wife doesn't want to visit, didn't want to do anything in terms of paperwork or research (and left you to do everything on your own, find out answers by yourself, figure out the processes and forms yourself, etc.), didn't want to hire an attorney way back in the beginning....because she's always "very busy"....your wife needs to GET INVOLVED in this just as much as you are, if you hope to have a future together.

 

At this point, I really hope she's as invested in this whole marriage as you are...and not playing you for a fool all this time.

Edited January 12, 2019 by Going through

[Sparrow 23]

2 hours ago, Going through said:

This.

 

In this thread, and others in the past---you've said how your wife doesn't want to visit, didn't want to do anything in terms of paperwork or research (and left you to do everything on your own, find out answers by yourself, figure out the processes and forms yourself, etc.), didn't want to hire an attorney way back in the beginning....because she's always "very busy"....your wife needs to GET INVOLVED in this just as much as you are, if you hope to have a future together.

 

At this point, I really hope she's as invested in this whole marriage as you are...and not playing you for a fool all this time.

Ikr I give her time if she didn't visit me in march or April this is going to end because she was telling me that since 2016 that she is coming to visit me so it's been four years but I just told her what's going to happen I hope she take this serious this time because I promise her that this is going to end for us if she didn't visit me in march or April I didn't talk to her for few weeks becase of that I hope she don't throw this relationship like this.

[Going through 5,671]

3 minutes ago, Sparrow said:

Ikr I give her time if she didn't visit me in march or April this is going to end because she was telling me that since 2016 that she is coming to visit me so it's been four years but I just told her what's going to happen I hope she take this serious this time because I promise her that this is going to end for us if she didn't visit me in march or April I didn't talk to her for few weeks becase of that I hope she don't throw this relationship like this.

If she's made no real effort to see you for almost 4 years, that's a very strong indication of a reality you may not want to face, my friend.

[Sparrow 23]

17 minutes ago, Going through said:

If she's made no real effort to see you for almost 4 years, that's a very strong indication of a reality you may not want to face, my friend.

I am ready to see it I just give her enough time I am waiting for March or April this is her last chance so let's see well she make reservations in guest house in islamabad so I hope she serious about visit this time if not that's mean she throwing five years of true love 

[Ahmed&Freda 628]

1 hour ago, Sparrow said:

I am ready to see it I just give her enough time I am waiting for March or April this is her last chance so let's see well she make reservations in guest house in islamabad so I hope she serious about visit this time if not that's mean she throwing five years of true love 

I wouldn't recommend a guest house.   As an American a hotel with security is best.  Serena is the nicest but if you want to save the money Islamabad hotel is cheaper priced.  

 

I've been to Pakistan 3 times and have had no issues but if Pakistan makes her nervous Dubai is a great vacation spot.  My husband and i have vacationed there twice and its super comfortable.  

[Sparrow 23]

9 hours ago, Going through said:

If she's made no real effort to see you for almost 4 years, that's a very strong indication of a reality you may not want to face, my friend.

If my wife was not serious about me then why she is keep supporting me financely and I don't know what to say but I am very worried about my promise I made my promise to my wife if she didn't come to pakistan in march or April I am going to end this relationship so I hope this time she dont take it easy my words because when I make my promise I won't break my promises she knows very well I won't break my promise this time either no matter what happen