We got NOIR need help

[shan1000 0]

4 hours ago, Sparrow said:

At this moment you know it's really hard but she will definitely visiting me soon if she didn't visit me thats not mean that she is not my wife some people think she can visit me in third country but we are not rich like that we can't afford that poor people also live in this world and we will do what we can do I know it's going to be tough for us but that's life right now we are going to respond to NOIR with the help of attorney and my wife is on the phone with me and she is finding the attorney.oneday me and my wife will be together by the grace of God.

sparrow they kept your passport or when refused visa they send back your passport ??

Edited December 14, 2018 by shan1000

[Crazy Cat 41,985]

4 hours ago, Sparrow said:

At this moment you know it's really hard but she will definitely visiting me soon

I'm a little confused....Have you been together more than the one time in Sri Lanka? 

[Boiler 45,735]

6 minutes ago, missileman said:

I'm a little confused....Have you been together more than the one time in Sri Lanka? 

They met and married there 3 years ago.

[aaron2020 11,651]

1 hour ago, missileman said:

I'm a little confused....Have you been together more than the one time in Sri Lanka? 

They've met once.  In Sri Lanka when they got married during their first meeting.  That was 3 years ago.

[Sparrow 23]

1 hour ago, Boiler said:

They met and married there 3 years ago.

So visits only show our marriage is bona field? Where it's says? well we talk on camera and everyone is not rich in this world sadly many things happen whenever she tried to apply for the visa you know sometime things happen so let's see what our future hold for us but I am sure that will be great God willing 

[Crazy Cat 41,985]

2 minutes ago, Sparrow said:

So visits only show our marriage is bona field? Where it's says? well we talk on camera and everyone is not rich in this world sadly many things happen whenever she tried to apply for the visa you know sometime things happen so let's see what our future hold for us but I am sure that will be great God willing 

Time actually together is the best evidence of a bona fide relationship.......and it overcomes all red flags in immigration...even large age differences.

[Ahmed&Freda 628]

15 minutes ago, Sparrow said:

So visits only show our marriage is bona field? Where it's says? well we talk on camera and everyone is not rich in this world sadly many things happen whenever she tried to apply for the visa you know sometime things happen so let's see what our future hold for us but I am sure that will be great God willing 

I have seen applicants from Pakistan get visas when i honestly thought they wouldn't.  I've seen couples with one visit others with a  20 year age difference and got the visa the first time no or little AP.   Sometimes I think that after refusing many under these conditions they slide one through to keep the imagination growing.   

 

You will drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out.  The best you can do is try to do your best to show your relationship is real.   

 

IMO trips are very important being together personally you learn things you can not get over video.  If this doesn't work out for you hopefully you two can work it out in the budget to spend more time together before reapplying.    In the beginning of my relationship I didn't really have the trips thought out much.  I didn't realize it would take so long or be so hard.   Each time we have been together the harder it gets to be apart.   We have not seen each other in almost two months and its total agony.  I agree it is very difficult but you do what you have to do.  InshaAllah it will all work out.

 

 

Edited December 14, 2018 by Ahmed&Freda

[Sparrow 23]

1 minute ago, Ahmed&Freda said:

I have seen applicants from Pakistan get visas when i honestly thought they wouldn't.  I've seen couples with one visit others with a  20 year age difference and got the visa the first time no or little.   Sometimes I think that after refusing many under these conditions they slide one through to keep the imagination growing.   

 

You will drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out.  The best you can do is try to do your best to show your relationship is real.   

 

IMO trips are very important being together personally you learn things you can not get over video.  If this doesn't work out for you hopefully you two can work it out in the budget to spend more time together before reapplying.    In the beginning of my relationship I didn't really have the trips thought out much.  I didn't realize it would take so long or be so hard.   Each time we have been together the harder it gets to be apart.   We have not seen each other in almost two months and its total agony.  I agree it is very difficult but you do what you have to do.  InshaAllah it will all work out.

 

 

I didn't said she will not visit me no matter what happens to our case she still going to visit me.because we havnt meet in person Its going to be in this February 4 years.I request to my wife back in three years but she was scared to come here before.and I told her we can't be together.if she didn't meet me.this is really hard.I admit that visiting is important but you can't force someone who don't understand.thank God she finally accept that she is coming to visit me.I know I will be lucky if our case got reaffirmed but chance are zero right now.and she talk with immigration attorney today and she said that my wife can do this by her self too and she said it's easy case I can't believe that attorney said to my wife 

[Ahmed&Freda 628]

2 minutes ago, Sparrow said:

I didn't said she will not visit me no matter what happens to our case she still going to visit me.because we havnt meet in person Its going to be in this February 4 years.I request to my wife back in three years but she was scared to come here before.and I told her we can't be together.if she didn't meet me.this is really hard.I admit that visiting is important but you can't force someone who don't understand.thank God she finally accept that she is coming to visit me.I know I will be lucky if our case got reaffirmed but chance are zero right now.and she talk with immigration attorney today and she said that my wife can do this by her self too and she said it's easy case I can't believe that attorney said to my wife 

This is the thing about a NOIR.   All it really is is notes from the embassy.  USCIS reviews it compiles into a letter (along with a bunch of generic garb) and sends to you.   It is your chance to prove your case.   I do not believe the information in the letter is even investigated much at all at the USCIS stage.  This is why they can very easily be overcome.   

 

As bad as your NOIR looks you may still have a chance to convince USICS.   It's the embassy that you have to be concerned with.  They can refuse again using not enough bonafide which is why those visits are so important.

[Sparrow 23]

11 minutes ago, Ahmed&Freda said:

This is the thing about a NOIR.   All it really is is notes from the embassy.  USCIS reviews it compiles into a letter (along with a bunch of generic garb) and sends to you.   It is your chance to prove your case.   I do not believe the information in the letter is even investigated much at all at the USCIS stage.  This is why they can very easily be overcome.   

 

As bad as your NOIR looks you may still have a chance to convince USICS.   It's the embassy that you have to be concerned with.  They can refuse again using not enough bonafide which is why those visits are so important.

Right now she can't visit me because we have deadline soon after reaffirmed our case then she will visit me and I am sure she will go with me to our interview but I hope we will get reaffirmed our case seem to me impossible right now they only keep saying me that my family was not agree about my marriage because we having age gap they were repeating their self over and over again but I was telling them they are agree on this marriage.I give answer in english one of consular  officer told me where my wife born I thought he is asking me about hospital name obviously children born in hospital so I give him hospital name then he told me that he dont know about his wife where she born?now they put lie on me that I dont know about my wife personal life they lie about me so much specially about 2 marriage 

Edited December 14, 2018 by Sparrow

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[Boiler 45,735]

Perhaps we need to go back to basics.

 

From a US perspective it is simply not normal to marry on a first visit and then not see each other again for nearly 4 years.

 

I have no idea what sort of case a Lawyer could put together to overcome this. Certainly interested to know what your wife is told.

[Going through 5,671]

When is your wife planning on applying for her visa to come and visit you?

[Sparrow 23]

4 hours ago, Going through said:

When is your wife planning on applying for her visa to come and visit you?

In this month

[Sparrow 23]

5 hours ago, Boiler said:

Perhaps we need to go back to basics.

 

From a US perspective it is simply not normal to marry on a first visit and then not see each other again for nearly 4 years.

 

I have no idea what sort of case a Lawyer could put together to overcome this. Certainly interested to know what your wife is told.

Well this is not the objection from the Consular officer we are focus on objections right now