VAWA, Part 12

[FridayGirl@69 318]

5 hours ago, Blunt said:

yea you got it,,its the previous one..you should have told them to connect with your Vawa..now they are scheduling you for interview on the previous i485 not the vawa i485

No, I am still waiting...maybe in a few more weeks I will hear from USCIS local office. I read average time they others is about 5-8 months after VAWA’s approvals so I am in the 4th month still...I am anxiously waiting for my CouryLetter

[FridayGirl@69 318]

17 hours ago, Jawithlove said:

For those of us here with an approval how long did it take for you to receive it 

Mine 17 months and 4 days

[FridayGirl@69 318]

I am wondering what is the sequence of notifications that we are supposed to get once I360/Vawa is approved? 

Do we get notify or it just go as usual silent until we get the Courtesy Letter?

Best Luck today @xoxox our positive force is with you! 🙏🏼🙌🏼🇺🇸💫

[FridayGirl@69 318]

@MAYgirl when is your interview date?

if you don’t mind sharing?

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1 hour ago, FridayGirl@69 said:

No, I am still waiting...maybe in a few more weeks I will hear from USCIS local office. I read average time they others is about 5-8 months after VAWA’s approvals so I am in the 4th month still...I am anxiously waiting for my CouryLetter

😊 it will come dear..here's wishing you all expecting your courtesy letters speedy outcomes. Goodluck 🙏🇺🇸

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8 hours ago, Naperi said:

Yes i applied in oct 2018 reciet date 22 oct 2018 igot my ead in hand on 9th February 2019

Hi Naperi is your EAD category co9? Did you file sith VSC or NBC?  Congrats on your EAD. 

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10 hours ago, HolaBola31 said:

@sandranj and all residents of this  thread I need you help, advice and support.

 

First of all i can't believe that I will ever ask help here after spending time on VJ and waiting for approving our case year ago. Was so excited and happy. And now...here I'm am! Applying for VAWA:(

 

 I'm very confused so I need your help.

 

My husband and I met on March 2017. It was love! I felt in love and even after his actions I still have a feelings(

So I will skip big part of story and jump on April 2018 when I first put my feet on American land.

 

You know...our relationship never was fine. All the time was something what caused fights. But I swear our first fight was on the next day when my husband got pissed because I ate 5 cookies. Seems. That I shouldn't eat as much.

Next fight was on a fifth day.

And you may ask why I didn't run away immediately? I thought that it just differences between countries. I thought that everything will settle down we will get used to each other and everything will be okay.

 

Somehow we love together but all the time was something what made him not satisfied. 

From October 2018 starts hell.

He was threatening by my deportation almost from the very beginning. But from October it was happening almost every next weekend. 

 

He started be so mean and rude. Stopped control his mouth at all! He called me a , piece of , trash, moron, stupid, idiot and etc.

He want me obey, I should do just everything he wanted! He control all my phone. He took away my card every time I had "bad behavior". He put cameras in his house and even in a living room was online camera and he can see and hear everything we were doing from work!

I was told what to buy. 

Also he was eating separate food. Expensive eggs and meat, salmon, all grass fed products.

 

He was mad that I spent 10$ on my lunch one day but he bought for himself "present  from Santa"-guns on 5-6 K $ 

I was doing everything in the house. Cleaning, cooking, laundry. I was getting up at 3:30 am for make him breakfast, lunch and dinner for work. I was taking care about the kids (His and my sons).

Fir all this 10 months I was in his house he never did anything.

I put sock to sock after washing and drying. All his clothes was bolder or put on a hangers so he never should look for it. 

I was taking away the dust from coffee powder because it was not good with it. I was counting every calories in his meals because  he was in a keto-diet. 

 

I was taking care about my husband as much as I just could. For show him my appreciation that he is working and provide everything for us. I was supportive and loving.

Bug it was never enough!

Last month was just hell!

 I did my own decision (let my husband sleep and went to rake my step-son from school and went to buy some groceries for his food) and I paid for it.

 

He put his hands over me twice. Than left me and my son in a park after taking me to school for pick up my son and tell "figure out how to go back by yourself!"

 

It was my last luck of patience!

 

Its been 3 weeks how me and my son went to shelter. 

 

I want apply VAWA based on emotional and financial abuse.

 

But how do you think will I have any luck with it?

What I'm going provide:

 

-Copy his passport

-Marriage license 

-Utility bills on both names

-Paper from bank about sharing bank accoumt

-Sharing insurance 

-A lot of medical bills

- 100 papers with our text messages where he cussing and threatened me sending home. It's shows that he all the time was blaming me.

- Text essagea with his mom where she tell me that u need shut my mouth and do not touch him.

-Also of course proofs of good faith marriage

Pictures and cards, hotel reservation and tickets from zoo,  aquarium.

poctures from trips and other.

It will be affidavits from friends, therapist, school teacher, shelter.

My police certificate from my  country and I will obtain fe here.

 

Also have text messages without our mutual friends and my step son. With my mother in law where she is telling me thank you for everything.

 

Also I have pictures of my bruisers.

Poctures how he was throwing my clothes from stairs, putting my pillow Andre the door so I should go to sleep on another bedroom. It was his punishment.

Also we had started going through the therapy. So I also have 2 appointment confirmation. Third was canceled and I told to the therapist that he was threatened me if I will tell her that I was in a shelter before and police will be involved it will  be not for good.

 

 

Maybe I forgot something and will add.

 

What can you say? I will be happy to have your advices!

 

Thank you very much!

 

 

 

Hi dear, rest assured you have not being ignored..we are hoping the attorney @sandranj stumbles into this and gives her proffessional diagnosis as usual. However judging from your narrative, you did suffer abuse and seem to have most of the documentation needed to file for Vawa. It's always worth it to have a legal representation even though a lot of folks here emerge victorious without one..apparently our cases are different so please patiently await sandra's proffessional opinion. Keep gathering evidence you can never have too much in cases like this. Best of luck. Stay safe.😊

[FeDaniela 673]

13 hours ago, xoxox said:

Hi Sandra 

Hi Everyone , 

Please I need help .

I am so Anxious now .

 

I Received letter from USCIS local office form G-56 they asking me to meet with immigration services officer .

It's says the reason for Appointment is I 485 Application to Adjust status !! 

What's is that mean ?

What is form G -56 ?

What will happen in this appointment ?

Please I need help .

 

If you have an approved i360 (Vawa ) on hand you should not be so worry take your approval Receipt to this interview. This interview seems to be base on your pending i485 with your ex husband, since the first time you mentioned he did not appear to the interview... Sandra always advice us not to file a new I485 when we have one pending... With your VAWA approval this interview should be the end of your process and an approval for your GC with that i360 approval if you don't have another grounds of inadmissibility.. but you have another i485 on line let see what decision USCIS makes. Take all your bonafide proof from your marriage, take everything you have...  Don't give up and fight with hope everything will be ok, Hire a lawyer to go with you.

[xoxox 72]

1 hour ago, FridayGirl@69 said:

I am wondering what is the sequence of notifications that we are supposed to get once I360/Vawa is approved? 

Do we get notify or it just go as usual silent until we get the Courtesy Letter?

Best Luck today @xoxox our positive force is with you! 🙏🏼🙌🏼🇺🇸💫

Thanks so much .

I am trying to do some research about G56  while waiting for Sandra  , I didn't up to anything from the research just I see some people get it after the first interview .

I Don't know if I am in Stoke interview or investigation ?

I don't know it's the final interview or there's other interview I 797 ?

 

[FridayGirl@69 318]

4 minutes ago, xoxox said:

Thanks so much .

I am trying to do some research about G56  while waiting for Sandra  , I didn't up to anything from the research just I see some people get it after the first interview .

I Don't know if I am in Stoke interview or investigation ?

I don't know it's the final interview or there's other interview I 797 ?

 

Let’s wait for lawyer and @sandranjto disperse our doubts, Do not make conslusions yet 🙌🏼

[xoxox 72]

6 minutes ago, FeDaniela said:

If you have an approved i360 (Vawa ) on hand you should not be so worry take your approval Receipt to this interview. This interview seems to be base on your pending i485 with your ex husband, since the first time you mentioned he did not appear to the interview... Sandra always advice us not to file a new I485 when we have one pending... With your VAWA approval this interview should be the end of your process and an approval for your GC with that i360 approval if you don't have another grounds of inadmissibility.. but you have another i485 on line let see what decision USCIS makes. Take all your bonafide proof from your marriage, take everything you have...  Don't give up and fight with hope everything will be ok, Hire a lawyer to go with you.

I know was Mistake to file new 485 , The reason why I filed when I didn't got any update for my pervious 485 and they didn't issue renewal EAD based on pervious 485 after I filed new 485 I got courtesy letter for medical for pervious 485 . 

Now I got G 56 for the new 485 Not for pervious 485 I saw the receipt number on the letter it's for the new 485 .

[xoxox 72]

4 minutes ago, FridayGirl@69 said:

Let’s wait for lawyer and @sandranjto disperse our doubts, Do not make conslusions yet 🙌🏼

I made appointment with my lawyer for tomorrow and cannot wait . @sandranj she has Much experience with vawa cases more than any other attorney I still want to hear from her .

[FeDaniela 673]

4 minutes ago, xoxox said:

I know was Mistake to file new 485 , The reason why I filed when I didn't got any update for my pervious 485 and they didn't issue renewal EAD based on pervious 485 after I filed new 485 I got courtesy letter for medical for pervious 485 . 

Now I got G 56 for the new 485 Not for pervious 485 I saw the receipt number on the letter it's for the new 485 .

Maybe this is the trigger, they see 2 I485 on your behalf. Don't worry you have i360 approval on hand, but be prepared for the questioning and take all documents with you. Also please try to go with an attorney.

[xoxox 72]

1 minute ago, FeDaniela said:

Maybe this is the trigger, they see 2 I485 on your behalf. Don't worry you have i360 approval on hand, but be prepared for the questioning and take all documents with you. Also please try to go with an attorney.

I understand the thing is Sandra mentioned before they shouldn't ask questions about the abuse anymore in adjustment status interview based on vawa approved !!

 

 

[FridayGirl@69 318]

3 minutes ago, FeDaniela said:

Maybe this is the trigger, they see 2 I485 on your behalf. Don't worry you have i360 approval on hand, but be prepared for the questioning and take all documents with you. Also please try to go with an attorney.

@xoxoxit makes total sense! You know all answers so no worries! You were in a legit truthful marriage!!!