VAWA, Part 12

[Jhn 14]

2 hours ago, Mike2234 said:

Hi all,

My wife cheated on me and I found out that recently. She is now filing divorce because she is actually going to marry that another guy. Situation is very crazy and unexpected.
I will briefly describe the story and in the end pls advise advise if I am eligible for VAWA because I called a lawyer today and they advised to file VAWA after I told my full story.

So, my wife told me around 1.5 month ago that she is not sure she wants to be with me, I thought maybe she i just stressed by something or idk...so we have been talking about it and her family have been talking to me and her (separately)...no one was getting what's going on and why she is telling that...Her family (mom and sister) was on my side and they know everything. During all this time she was coming home with very expensive gifts (she was saying it is from their Gen Manager...he is getting it for everyone), she was coming with sticky notes with words like I love you, I want to be with you, etc (she told me it is someone random secret admire at work and maybe it is a joke, she said she does know), also once I found her panties in her car...and she just told some bullshit again...like I forget them there dont remember when. So I was truly in love with her and was planning to have babies and live happily, this is why I didn't question that a lot, I trusted my wife. I thought it is normal to trust.
Then like 1 week ago she told me that she is sleeping with someone from work, she is moving out ASAP and moving in with him, also she is filing divorce, also all that gifts was from this guy and that secret admire was that guy. So, she lied me and her family for a long time. After she told it to everyone, her sister and mom stopped talking with her and cancelled their planned vacation together (they told her, we dont want you to come and be with us). They all dont communicate for a week already, but her sister and mom are talking with me and supporting me, they agree she cheated, they agree she acted inhumanly and very dissrespective. She filed divorce today. During this week we were fighting a lot because we still live together...while this fights she told phrases like: "You are an idiot and it was so easy to lie to you", "I will destroy you, test me and watch", "If you do not sign divorce papers right now, I will take everything from you because they favor wife in this state", "If you do not sign divorce papers right now, I will call USCIS to withdraw my petition and kick you out of this country like tomorrow", "My future is brighter then yours".....etc. Her mom and sister agreed with me that she is doing this because of money (that guy is rich)...she was proudly saying like he will get me a ring for 40k...I will not be able to say NO (after saying to me that she does not want to marry again)...he will pay for my plastic surgery and he will pay for business I want to start, and I dont need to work at all, I am leaving my job in June...because he has a lot of money and he will pay for me. I didn't record her saying any of that, so it is only my personal statement.

During all this is happening she realized that I am very psychologically distressed...I am really down by this. I can't believe my wife cheated on me and how she is acting towards me now - very aggressive and with no pity. So, she said I need to go to therapist because I need mental help. I agree with that because I was never so much down in my life, I really need help. So she will take me to the doctor I guess, or I will go alone. I will probably need multiple visits because situation with my mental state is very hard. I do not even believe what I am typing now here for you. I want to believe that this isnt my story...but it is. 

So after saying all of this to random lawyer I called today...lawyer said that apply for VAWA. I am thinking is there any sense in applying or it is just a chance for lawyer to make money and this is why she is telling so?
Please advise what are the chances of getting VAWA approved, especially for man.
P.S: I am now pending AOS from K1, interview was not scheduled yet. I have an EAD and AP (will it be cancelled and when in case I am applying for VAWA and not applying?)
Thank you and love each other, people.

It’s sad to hear this. But more sadly, cheating is not a ground for filling  vawa. Sandra mentioned this million times already. 

[Mercy of God 0]

I came into the country in May 2017 with my daugther. I got married to my soon to be ex husband in March 2018..Our marriage lasted only 2month as I was abused on some occasions which one of them includes my 7 year old daughter been involved. He at first seized my daughter n I passport,my phone and all documents we were keeping for the green card filling..Eventually I got my passport back .The only evidence I have is Our marriage certificate, copy of his birth certificate,a copy of his i.d,letters from friends and social worker and just our wedding pictures(as my phone got broken by him and the second phone was forcefully taken from when so I wont call the police during the last physical abuse...We could not open a bank account because I Did not have social security. We could not get a house too and we were staying first at his mother then later my cousins. I ran away from Indiana to Maryland when I could not take the abuse anymore..I am saying a lawyer who said I should file for Asylum and vawa.  My questions are:Can i still file for vawa with the new saying it has expired?.. I need help in getting a free legal service as I cant afford my lawyers bill of 7000.

Edited February 8, 2019 by Mercyjeg

[Omega 15]

9 hours ago, Cozutuk said:

 

 

Thank you very much. I was in a abusive relationship. But now financially abusive attorney. Any help would be greatly appriciate it. I will pray for you and everybody going through this. 

Lol 🤣😭 

[Omega 15]

9 hours ago, Cozutuk said:

 

 

Thank you very much. I was in a abusive relationship. But now financially abusive attorney. Any help would be greatly appriciate it. I will pray for you and everybody going through this. 

i will recommend two attorneys for you, they're really good in VAWA (if you're in Los Angeles area)

 -  Law office of David Haghighi

 

- Law office of Victoria Suh

 

look them up, they're really good and doesnt charge much.

 

praying for you.

[Omega 15]

11 hours ago, Trizzle said:

—Filed I-360, I-765, I-485 on April 2017

— RFE In August 2018

—Rfe respond Nov 2018

—Case approved December 19, 2018

— New card in Production for I-360 Dec 19, 2018

—EAD in hand Dec 31, 2018 “EAD was for I-360 cuz they normally send it for Category C31 when you get approved”

—Approval NOA Jan 1, 2019

— Feb 6, 2019 I-765 changed to New Card in Production

wow, you got USCIS to approve your vawa quickly after responding to RFE? after one month of response they approved it -- that's nice

My question why did you take long (three months) to reply to the RFE? was it a tough RFE? whats your RFE?

 

I responded back to my RFE just last week, have not got any acknowledgement from them that they received it. still waiting and

praying for success, God will see us through. AMEN

[Naperi 15]

8 hours ago, Florecita_Bella said:

Hello,
Is there anyone here in the forum who has archived your EAD (C-09) in September 2018 or after this date that you received that EAD?
Thank you for your answers….

I applied my ead in October 2018 went for biometrics up to now still waiting

[Naperi 15]

1 minute ago, Naperi said:

I applied my ead in October 2018 went for biometrics up to now still waiting

Reciete date for my ead is 15 th oct. Went for biometrics on 19 nov

[Naperi 15]

4 hours ago, Mike2234 said:

Hi all,

My wife cheated on me and I found out that recently. She is now filing divorce because she is actually going to marry that another guy. Situation is very crazy and unexpected.
I will briefly describe the story and in the end pls advise advise if I am eligible for VAWA because I called a lawyer today and they advised to file VAWA after I told my full story.

So, my wife told me around 1.5 month ago that she is not sure she wants to be with me, I thought maybe she i just stressed by something or idk...so we have been talking about it and her family have been talking to me and her (separately)...no one was getting what's going on and why she is telling that...Her family (mom and sister) was on my side and they know everything. During all this time she was coming home with very expensive gifts (she was saying it is from their Gen Manager...he is getting it for everyone), she was coming with sticky notes with words like I love you, I want to be with you, etc (she told me it is someone random secret admire at work and maybe it is a joke, she said she does know), also once I found her panties in her car...and she just told some bullshit again...like I forget them there dont remember when. So I was truly in love with her and was planning to have babies and live happily, this is why I didn't question that a lot, I trusted my wife. I thought it is normal to trust.
Then like 1 week ago she told me that she is sleeping with someone from work, she is moving out ASAP and moving in with him, also she is filing divorce, also all that gifts was from this guy and that secret admire was that guy. So, she lied me and her family for a long time. After she told it to everyone, her sister and mom stopped talking with her and cancelled their planned vacation together (they told her, we dont want you to come and be with us). They all dont communicate for a week already, but her sister and mom are talking with me and supporting me, they agree she cheated, they agree she acted inhumanly and very dissrespective. She filed divorce today. During this week we were fighting a lot because we still live together...while this fights she told phrases like: "You are an idiot and it was so easy to lie to you", "I will destroy you, test me and watch", "If you do not sign divorce papers right now, I will take everything from you because they favor wife in this state", "If you do not sign divorce papers right now, I will call USCIS to withdraw my petition and kick you out of this country like tomorrow", "My future is brighter then yours".....etc. Her mom and sister agreed with me that she is doing this because of money (that guy is rich)...she was proudly saying like he will get me a ring for 40k...I will not be able to say NO (after saying to me that she does not want to marry again)...he will pay for my plastic surgery and he will pay for business I want to start, and I dont need to work at all, I am leaving my job in June...because he has a lot of money and he will pay for me. I didn't record her saying any of that, so it is only my personal statement.

During all this is happening she realized that I am very psychologically distressed...I am really down by this. I can't believe my wife cheated on me and how she is acting towards me now - very aggressive and with no pity. So, she said I need to go to therapist because I need mental help. I agree with that because I was never so much down in my life, I really need help. So she will take me to the doctor I guess, or I will go alone. I will probably need multiple visits because situation with my mental state is very hard. I do not even believe what I am typing now here for you. I want to believe that this isnt my story...but it is. 

So after saying all of this to random lawyer I called today...lawyer said that apply for VAWA. I am thinking is there any sense in applying or it is just a chance for lawyer to make money and this is why she is telling so?
Please advise what are the chances of getting VAWA approved, especially for man.
P.S: I am now pending AOS from K1, interview was not scheduled yet. I have an EAD and AP (will it be cancelled and when in case I am applying for VAWA and not applying?)
Thank you and love each other, people.

She can not get you deporterd ,, stay away from her dont touch her ,, dont give her any chance to call police on you,, some people are evil can lie any thing on you so just be very careful...

[Roms2017 115]

On 2/7/2019 at 7:01 AM, FridayGirl@69 said:

I have United Health Insurance under Cobra. I was part of my divorce agreement. 

Thank you

[staypositive 51]

13 hours ago, Mike2234 said:

Hi all,

My wife cheated on me and I found out that recently. She is now filing divorce because she is actually going to marry that another guy. Situation is very crazy and unexpected.
I will briefly describe the story and in the end pls advise advise if I am eligible for VAWA because I called a lawyer today and they advised to file VAWA after I told my full story.

So, my wife told me around 1.5 month ago that she is not sure she wants to be with me, I thought maybe she i just stressed by something or idk...so we have been talking about it and her family have been talking to me and her (separately)...no one was getting what's going on and why she is telling that...Her family (mom and sister) was on my side and they know everything. During all this time she was coming home with very expensive gifts (she was saying it is from their Gen Manager...he is getting it for everyone), she was coming with sticky notes with words like I love you, I want to be with you, etc (she told me it is someone random secret admire at work and maybe it is a joke, she said she does know), also once I found her panties in her car...and she just told some bullshit again...like I forget them there dont remember when. So I was truly in love with her and was planning to have babies and live happily, this is why I didn't question that a lot, I trusted my wife. I thought it is normal to trust.
Then like 1 week ago she told me that she is sleeping with someone from work, she is moving out ASAP and moving in with him, also she is filing divorce, also all that gifts was from this guy and that secret admire was that guy. So, she lied me and her family for a long time. After she told it to everyone, her sister and mom stopped talking with her and cancelled their planned vacation together (they told her, we dont want you to come and be with us). They all dont communicate for a week already, but her sister and mom are talking with me and supporting me, they agree she cheated, they agree she acted inhumanly and very dissrespective. She filed divorce today. During this week we were fighting a lot because we still live together...while this fights she told phrases like: "You are an idiot and it was so easy to lie to you", "I will destroy you, test me and watch", "If you do not sign divorce papers right now, I will take everything from you because they favor wife in this state", "If you do not sign divorce papers right now, I will call USCIS to withdraw my petition and kick you out of this country like tomorrow", "My future is brighter then yours".....etc. Her mom and sister agreed with me that she is doing this because of money (that guy is rich)...she was proudly saying like he will get me a ring for 40k...I will not be able to say NO (after saying to me that she does not want to marry again)...he will pay for my plastic surgery and he will pay for business I want to start, and I dont need to work at all, I am leaving my job in June...because he has a lot of money and he will pay for me. I didn't record her saying any of that, so it is only my personal statement.

During all this is happening she realized that I am very psychologically distressed...I am really down by this. I can't believe my wife cheated on me and how she is acting towards me now - very aggressive and with no pity. So, she said I need to go to therapist because I need mental help. I agree with that because I was never so much down in my life, I really need help. So she will take me to the doctor I guess, or I will go alone. I will probably need multiple visits because situation with my mental state is very hard. I do not even believe what I am typing now here for you. I want to believe that this isnt my story...but it is. 

So after saying all of this to random lawyer I called today...lawyer said that apply for VAWA. I am thinking is there any sense in applying or it is just a chance for lawyer to make money and this is why she is telling so?
Please advise what are the chances of getting VAWA approved, especially for man.
P.S: I am now pending AOS from K1, interview was not scheduled yet. I have an EAD and AP (will it be cancelled and when in case I am applying for VAWA and not applying?)
Thank you and love each other, people.

This is a really tough situation and I hope that you’ll be able to heal from this. @sandranj is the expert here but she has mentioned many times that cheating is not grounds for VAWA, because it is not abuse, but an unpleasant marriage. You’d have to be physically and/or emotionally abused: threatened by her, isolated from friends/family, made financially dependent on her, called names and belittled, etc as part of her controlling you. 

 

Maybe you have a case, I am just repeating what Sandra has mentioned over and over on this forum.

 

God bless!

[Sandra G. 5,054]

14 hours ago, Viva said:

I can pay but I thought since I paid initial fee when I filled i 485, I don’t have to pay again. Sometimes back, I sent check to renew and they sent it back to me that it’s not needed. So confusing.

thank you @sandranj

If you pay the initial fee there is no fee to renew the I765  if you are using  same category C9. 

[Sandra G. 5,054]

17 hours ago, Mike2234 said:

Hi all,

My wife cheated on me and I found out that recently. She is now filing divorce because she is actually going to marry that another guy. Situation is very crazy and unexpected.
I will briefly describe the story and in the end pls advise advise if I am eligible for VAWA because I called a lawyer today and they advised to file VAWA after I told my full story.

So, my wife told me around 1.5 month ago that she is not sure she wants to be with me, I thought maybe she i just stressed by something or idk...so we have been talking about it and her family have been talking to me and her (separately)...no one was getting what's going on and why she is telling that...Her family (mom and sister) was on my side and they know everything. During all this time she was coming home with very expensive gifts (she was saying it is from their Gen Manager...he is getting it for everyone), she was coming with sticky notes with words like I love you, I want to be with you, etc (she told me it is someone random secret admire at work and maybe it is a joke, she said she does know), also once I found her panties in her car...and she just told some bullshit again...like I forget them there dont remember when. So I was truly in love with her and was planning to have babies and live happily, this is why I didn't question that a lot, I trusted my wife. I thought it is normal to trust.
Then like 1 week ago she told me that she is sleeping with someone from work, she is moving out ASAP and moving in with him, also she is filing divorce, also all that gifts was from this guy and that secret admire was that guy. So, she lied me and her family for a long time. After she told it to everyone, her sister and mom stopped talking with her and cancelled their planned vacation together (they told her, we dont want you to come and be with us). They all dont communicate for a week already, but her sister and mom are talking with me and supporting me, they agree she cheated, they agree she acted inhumanly and very dissrespective. She filed divorce today. During this week we were fighting a lot because we still live together...while this fights she told phrases like: "You are an idiot and it was so easy to lie to you", "I will destroy you, test me and watch", "If you do not sign divorce papers right now, I will take everything from you because they favor wife in this state", "If you do not sign divorce papers right now, I will call USCIS to withdraw my petition and kick you out of this country like tomorrow", "My future is brighter then yours".....etc. Her mom and sister agreed with me that she is doing this because of money (that guy is rich)...she was proudly saying like he will get me a ring for 40k...I will not be able to say NO (after saying to me that she does not want to marry again)...he will pay for my plastic surgery and he will pay for business I want to start, and I dont need to work at all, I am leaving my job in June...because he has a lot of money and he will pay for me. I didn't record her saying any of that, so it is only my personal statement.

During all this is happening she realized that I am very psychologically distressed...I am really down by this. I can't believe my wife cheated on me and how she is acting towards me now - very aggressive and with no pity. So, she said I need to go to therapist because I need mental help. I agree with that because I was never so much down in my life, I really need help. So she will take me to the doctor I guess, or I will go alone. I will probably need multiple visits because situation with my mental state is very hard. I do not even believe what I am typing now here for you. I want to believe that this isnt my story...but it is. 

So after saying all of this to random lawyer I called today...lawyer said that apply for VAWA. I am thinking is there any sense in applying or it is just a chance for lawyer to make money and this is why she is telling so?
Please advise what are the chances of getting VAWA approved, especially for man.
P.S: I am now pending AOS from K1, interview was not scheduled yet. I have an EAD and AP (will it be cancelled and when in case I am applying for VAWA and not applying?)
Thank you and love each other, people.

Cheating is not ground for VAWA, not even if you got depressed because of the cheating. 

[Sandra G. 5,054]

19 hours ago, Favoured Queen👑 said:

Hi everyone😂👋🙌 i want to know where to file my EAD renewal under c9 my i485 was sent to Vermont while i360 is being adjucated since the former was put on hold. I need the info like right now..let's go beautiful people😘😘😘🌺🌺🌺🌼🌼🌼🌼❤❤❤

You must submit to VSC.

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

32 minutes ago, sandranj said:

You must submit to VSC.

Thanks so much @sandranj gracias! merci!

 

[Stillwinning!!!😊 4,570]

21 hours ago, sandranj said:

There is no fee to renew your work permit,your attorney is a thief!!! run.

 

Your attorney screwed your VAWA because he didn't ask you to get  the police clearance from your Country. USCIS just issues a  request of evidence if the person missed to submit some document,  and clearly you can see that he is  imcompetent as well.

 

You can renew  the work permit without his "help".  Fill out  form I-765 and send me to review and I will let you know if everything is fine. He probably filed a motion, and a  motion takes around 5/6 months to be adjudicated.

Exactly what i diagnosed at first sight! Lol @ the lawyer iis a thief! Sad we have dubious attorneys everywhere preying on both ignorance and desperation of unsuspecting victims who are vulnerable and gullible! SMH thank God we have SANDRA!👑 Godbless you dear.🙏😊😘