Ex Husband's permission

[T&A2018 4]

1 minute ago, Lemonslice said:

What do you think will happen when the child goes back to visit the father? Unless the plan is to not let the child visit...

We will cross this bridge when we reach it . That's not a main concern now .

[Crazy Cat 41,884]

Just now, T&A2018 said:

We will cross this bridge when we reach it . That's not a main concern now .

I think you're playing with fire......

[Ontarkie 14,226]

Talk to another lawyer one who actually knows about international child custody laws. He is wrong on so many levels. The birth country will forever hold jurisdiction over that child. The US will not change alter any order her birth country has set. 

 

[T&A2018 4]

1 minute ago, missileman said:

I think you're playing with fire......

Desperate times , desperate measures .

[Crazy Cat 41,884]

1 minute ago, T&A2018 said:

Desperate times , desperate measures .

and desperate measures sometimes results in catastrophic results like bans...and worse....good luck..be careful.

[Ksenia_O 696]

14 minutes ago, T&A2018 said:

I'm not worried about passport control over there  , my main worry is the child getting the visa.

You should be worried about Passport control over there - they take it really seriously when a parent travels with a minor kid without other parent's permission. 

 

And as it's been already mentioned - even if a K2 visa gets issued..somehow, the kid won't be able to leave Ukraine anyway if father's permission is not presented at Customs. 

Edited November 29, 2018 by Ksenia_O

[T&A2018 4]

Just now, missileman said:

and desperate measures sometimes results in catastrophic results like bans...and worse....good luck..be careful.

Thank you , we will see .

[T&A2018 4]

1 minute ago, Ksenia_O said:

You should be worried about Passport control over there - they take it really seriously when a parent travels with a minor kid without other parent's permission. 

 

And as it's been already mentioned - even if a K2 visa gets issued..somehow, the kid won't be able to leave Ukraine anyway.

Znakomstva xoroshie  .

[Russ&Caro 1,549]

One reason to work things out at least civilly if not amicably with the biological father are the uncertainties of life. If you can eventually convince him that it's in the best interests of the child to immigrate and remain with the mother, you not only avoid all the possible administrative nightmares that have already been pointed out, but you probably lower the risk that the father would keep the kid on a subsequent visit. Remember, he could remarry to a wife who would love the kid and want custody.

 

One other situation to consider in the life can throw you a curve category is if you and/or your wife encounter hardship here in America, such as a health or financial crisis. At that point, having an civil relationship with the kid's father could give you some flexibility, especially, if as you say, he has plenty of money and could possibly support the kid here or in Ukraine, through the crisis. Good luck!

[Carpe Vinum 2,327]

I have been through the K1 process in Ukraine as well and have spent much time there. Greasing of the wheels may be helpful. It all depends how determined the father is...Good Luck...

[dwheels76 5,468]

Gosh I pray they don't check out ya'lls emails and texting. Man you are truly playing a very dangerous mean game of some keep away.

Who will the child stay with for the 4 to 6 months before your fiance' ten wife will be able to travel. Don;t think ya'll have thought this through at all.

[Boiler 45,522]

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[T&A2018 4]

2 minutes ago, Russ&Caro said:

One reason to work things out at least civilly if not amicably with the biological father are the uncertainties of life. If you can eventually convince him that it's in the best interests of the child to immigrate and remain with the mother, you not only avoid all the possible administrative nightmares that have already been pointed out, but you probably lower the risk that the father would keep the kid on a subsequent visit. Remember, he could remarry to a wife who would love the kid and want custody.

 

One other situation to consider in the life can throw you a curve category is if you and/or your wife encounter hardship here in America, such as a health or financial crisis. At that point, having an civil relationship with the kid's father could give you some flexibility, especially, if as you say, he has plenty of money and could possibly support the kid here or in Ukraine, through the crisis. Good luck!

I wish it was that easy, she even offered him the apartment . He has all signs of borderline narcissist personality disorder . Hard to deal with this type of people .

[Carpe Vinum 2,327]

I would not even think about taking the child out of Ukraine without the father's permission...

Edited November 29, 2018 by boris64

[T&A2018 4]

3 minutes ago, dwheels76 said:

Gosh I pray they don't check out ya'lls emails and texting. Man you are truly playing a very dangerous mean game of some keep away.

Who will the child stay with for the 4 to 6 months before your fiance' ten wife will be able to travel. Don;t think ya'll have thought this through at all.

We are not playing any games. The main reason for this topic is to find out if anyone from Ukraine had the same issue and how it was resolved legally . That's it