we are seperated with restraining order on him, he says he will contact to uscis

[Aureliaxue 10]

i am still waiting for legal aid to get a lawyer so i can file for divorce. we are seperated and i have the possesion of the house temporarily. 

 

can he do something about this? calling them so they will deport me. 

[Georgia16 2,858]

What is your immigration status?

[Aureliaxue 10]

1 minute ago, Georgia16 said:

What is your immigration status?

i am sorry, i forgot to mention. i have conditional green card. 

and we are seperated with the court order (i filed for injunction order) , because he was abusive. threatening to kill me, punching walls etc. 

[Georgia16 2,858]

1 minute ago, Aureliaxue said:

i am sorry, i forgot to mention. i have conditional green card. 

Okay, he can't do anything about that. Make sure you start saving paperwork for your ROC. You can file as soon as you are divorced or if your ROC date is before that.

[Aureliaxue 10]

1 minute ago, Georgia16 said:

Okay, he can't do anything about that. Make sure you start saving paperwork for your ROC. You can file as soon as you are divorced or if your ROC date is before that.

thank you. i was worried. one quick question; we have a land and the mobile house that sits on it together. bank accounts and monthly statements, credit card, insurance, electric bill together. photos, i can get 2-3 peoples affidavits. we have a car together. (it doesn't work anymore but the title has both of our name. i have another car but it is financed, he didn't work so they couldn't put his name on the car title. and i have his ice cream van title on my name (because that day he forgot his id at home) but he has the business on his name. but i don't think i have paperwork for his business. he took it all i suppose. maybe i should not mention that at all. 

 

and do you think i should mention about the domestic violence or should i just file for divorce waiver. 

 

do you think this will be enough? maybe i should have start a new topic but i didn't wanna waste space. 

[Boiler 45,564]

Sounds like you are good for the Divorce Waiver.

[Georgia16 2,858]

3 minutes ago, Aureliaxue said:

thank you. i was worried. one quick question; we have a land and the mobile house that sits on it together. bank accounts and monthly statements, credit card, insurance, electric bill together. photos, i can get 2-3 peoples affidavits. we have a car together. (it doesn't work anymore but the title has both of our name. i have another car but it is financed, he didn't work so they couldn't put his name on the car title. and i have his ice cream van title on my name (because that day he forgot his id at home) but he has the business on his name. but i don't think i have paperwork for his business. he took it all i suppose. maybe i should not mention that at all. 

 

and do you think i should mention about the domestic violence or should i just file for divorce waiver. 

 

do you think this will be enough? maybe i should have start a new topic but i didn't wanna waste space. 

I would just do the divorce waiver. You have evidence of living together as a couple including financing and so on so that seems to be the better route for you.

[Aureliaxue 10]

4 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Sounds like you are good for the Divorce Waiver.

 

2 minutes ago, Georgia16 said:

I would just do the divorce waiver. You have evidence of living together as a couple including financing and so on so that seems to be the better route for you.

thank you both for answering!

[Boiler 45,564]

Just so you know this is MUCH the easier option, DV would be a last resort.

[Aureliaxue 10]

Just now, Boiler said:

Just so you know this is MUCH the easier option, DV would be a last resort.

one more question then. 

 

should i mention about it if they ask at interview? like should i tell them he has permanent restraining order on him if they ask about why we split. 

[Boiler 45,564]

Not sure it is relevant but if it comes up I see no harm.

[Aureliaxue 10]

23 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Not sure it is relevant but if it comes up I see no harm.

ok thank you! 

[Jeanne Adil 1,651]

I just hope u r out of the house and in a shelter

[Ksenia_O 696]

12 hours ago, Aureliaxue said:

thank you. i was worried. one quick question; we have a land and the mobile house that sits on it together. bank accounts and monthly statements, credit card, insurance, electric bill together. photos, i can get 2-3 peoples affidavits. we have a car together. (it doesn't work anymore but the title has both of our name. i have another car but it is financed, he didn't work so they couldn't put his name on the car title. and i have his ice cream van title on my name (because that day he forgot his id at home) but he has the business on his name. but i don't think i have paperwork for his business. he took it all i suppose. maybe i should not mention that at all. 

 

and do you think i should mention about the domestic violence or should i just file for divorce waiver. 

 

do you think this will be enough? maybe i should have start a new topic but i didn't wanna waste space. 

Looks like you have really enough . I'd advise to get Tax Transcripts from IRS. They show your filing status, which should be Married Filing Joint or Married Filing Separate, and the address you both lived at. You can go back as far as 4 years. 

https://www.irs.gov/individuals/get-transcript

 

Good luck!

[Waittrain 17]

On 11/14/2018 at 6:22 PM, Georgia16 said:

Okay, he can't do anything about that. Make sure you start saving paperwork for your ROC. You can file as soon as you are divorced or if your ROC date is before that.

I agree.

 

I was in the same boat and was approved