2018 vs 2019 filing I-129F

[John & Rose 7,239]

1 hour ago, fluffykim said:

yes i understand.  However for ME, planning a wedding abroad with my teenage son and all that is going is just not going to work for me.  Additionally, my GF who got married overseas and getting divorced ( americans had destination wedding) is having a HECK of a time getting copies of documents, etc.  all set with that.  Its just more than i want to take on.  Im glad that those that went a different route had a great experience.  I wish the best to all and their choices

Just keep in mind that there is actually only one marriage.  The second in Jamaica is a renewing of vows.  This has come up often here.  There are issues if you have two marriage licenses and two marriage certificates.  Everything is the same for the wedding in Jamaica but the paperwork will not be required.  

 

You complete the process of marriage but you are already married so there is no second "marriage".

Edited November 9, 2018 by John & Rose

[fluffykim 333]

Just now, John & Rose said:

Just keep in mind that there is actually only one marriage.  The second in Jamaica is a renewing of vows.  This has come up often here.  There are issues if you have two marriage licenses and two marriage certificates.  Everything is the same for the wedding in Jamaica but the paperwork will not be required.  

yup...agree... i think thats what i said too...a ceremony in jamaica in like 2020 when we are settled and adjusted

[John & Rose 7,239]

Just now, fluffykim said:

yup...agree... i think thats what i said too...a ceremony in jamaica in like 2020 when we are settled and adjusted

Perfect!!!  There is confusion here at times and that was a legal issue for a few couples.  I'm glad you understand.

[fluffykim 333]

Just now, John & Rose said:

Perfect!!!  There is confusion here at times and that was a legal issue for a few couples.  I'm glad you understand.

i love your wedding pics by the way...looks like a beautiful day...congrats xoxox

[geowrian 22,337]

4 hours ago, missileman said:

That is an entirely different situation.  I challenge anyone to give me more than one advantage of a K-1.......

1) Children aged 18-20 can immigrate with the parent.

2) Sooner to be united in the US (was more noticeable back when it was taking only a few months to process).

3) Can start the process sooner (some people get engaged but don't want to marry ASAP, or cannot get the time off for another visit for x months to marry then start the process).

[Crazy Cat 41,845]

1 minute ago, geowrian said:

1) Children aged 18-20 can immigrate with the parent.

2) Sooner to be united in the US (was more noticeable back when it was taking only a few months to process).

3) Can start the process sooner (some people get engaged but don't want to marry ASAP, or cannot get the time off for another visit for x months to marry then start the process).

LOL.....well done......

[John & Rose 7,239]

5 minutes ago, fluffykim said:

i love your wedding pics by the way...looks like a beautiful day...congrats xoxox

It was an amazing day and I am so happy that we were able to get married in front of Rose's family.  I believe that being denied the K-1 was a good thing.  I have a very small family and hers is huge.  Sharing that moment with them was very special.

[geowrian 22,337]

7 minutes ago, missileman said:

LOL.....well done......

👍

But yeah, it's a sliver of cases where a K-1 above is actually "better"...usually it's the reuniting in the US that trumps everything else. And that's fine, so long as you know the drawbacks that come with it (working, traveling, potentially driving, longer to get a green card or naturalize, stress at home with somebody sitting home all day, etc.).

[payxibka 10,045]

16 minutes ago, missileman said:

LOL.....well done......

Failed to mention the return policy differences 

[Crazy Cat 41,845]

Just now, payxibka said:

Failed to mention the return policy differences 

Oh, yea.......that is an important one for some people.....😂

[angelbrown 195]

31 minutes ago, John & Rose said:

It was an amazing day and I am so happy that we were able to get married in front of Rose's family.  I believe that being denied the K-1 was a good thing.  I have a very small family and hers is huge.  Sharing that moment with them was very special.

I agree, sharing the moment was very special. It was amazing having both of our families at our wedding. 

[Action1 2]

15 hours ago, John & Rose said:

Welcome to the club!  When did your denial happen. Our was after the interview. 

Same here.. After Interview..  Anyway! Now I realize how CR1 is SO SUPERIOR then any other visas... Everything happens for good reason...

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17 hours ago, Brittani said:

Totally second this! We did the K1 and are currently waiting for his AOS, AP, and EAD approval. We are on day 83 with no word. Although it's a bit quicker than CR1 as far as initially getting here...it's a longer wait in the long run. Really wish we had just done the CR1 now...

 1000% Agree.. CR1 Is SO SUPERIOR then any other VISA... 

[John & Rose 7,239]

24 minutes ago, Dil2020 said:

Same here.. After Interview..  Anyway! Now I realize how CR1 is SO SUPERIOR then any other visas... Everything happens for good reason...

You are 100% correct. Everything about the CR-1 is superior.  Yes. If we were denied we would not have been able to have the most incredible wedding with the most amazing people I have ever met. 

[Sabrina02 108]

@John & Rose what caused your K1 to be denied. I am a nervously waiting k1 person & we keep reading about RFE but have not seen denials. Please share.