November 2018 I-129 Filers

[Fe.Ta 874]

1 minute ago, jeka1700 said:

I'm exhausted. Every day I'm waiting checking the sites and the mail. This is very tiring and frustrating.  Sorry  I want to cry 

This is the worse part for everyone.  Believe me, I understand.  But, you are closer to moving on to the next thing.  Out of all the processes, this is the longest wait, so just keep going!  I feel like looking for information and getting educated about the following steps has helped me in feeling like I am doing something.

[msrodriguez 267]

1 minute ago, jeka1700 said:

I'm exhausted. Every day I'm waiting checking the sites and the mail. This is very tiring and frustrating.  Sorry  I want to cry 

Hang in there! I am feeling exactly the same. I am becoming more impatient every day. I haven't been able to eat or sleep as normal either. It's really quite exhausting. There are still a lot of open cases from November. We just have to remember to be patient and stay busy with other things. I do hope you receive some good news very soon!! *hugs* ❤️ 

[Fe.Ta 874]

Just now, msrodriguez said:

Hang in there! I am feeling exactly the same. I am becoming more impatient every day. I haven't been able to eat or sleep as normal either. It's really quite exhausting. There are still a lot of open cases from November. We just have to remember to be patient and stay busy with other things. I do hope you receive some good news very soon!! *hugs* ❤️ 

AMEN to that!

[msrodriguez 267]

Just now, Fe.Ta said:

This is the worse part for everyone.  Believe me, I understand.  But, you are closer to moving on to the next thing.  Out of all the processes, this is the longest wait, so just keep going!  I feel like looking for information and getting educated about the following steps has helped me in feeling like I am doing something.

Yep, that's what we have been doing - preparing for the next step! It does help you to feel like you are at least doing something.  

[msrodriguez 267]

My coworker asked why I look so rough when I got to work today. Hahahahaah!!!! I'm not even joking! Freaking exhausting!!!! 

[Juliee 59]

2 minutes ago, msrodriguez said:

Yep, that's what we have been doing - preparing for the next step! It does help you to feel like you are at least doing something.  

Thank you guys 

[GaLy 43]

It's still early for November filers.  5-7 months is normal Noa2 waiting range.

It will come.

[MsNina 184]

2 minutes ago, msrodriguez said:

My coworker asked why I look so rough when I got to work today. Hahahahaah!!!! I'm not even joking! Freaking exhausting!!!! 

Hang in there...me too.. dont worry. They are getting thru november pretty well....so any day now. Im RD too🙏🏾 but december/january.

[msrodriguez 267]

2 minutes ago, GaLy said:

It's still early for November filers.  5-7 months is normal Noa2 waiting range.

It will come.

Agreed! 

 

@jeka1700 

 

Being on here is quite helpful, but if you're like me (I have terrible anxiety) - then it's not so helpful when you see everyone getting approved and read the horror stories of people being used for green cards. Omg.

 

I know it feels like we are kind of left behind in the dust but our time is coming!! 

Edited March 28, 2019 by msrodriguez

[msrodriguez 267]

2 minutes ago, MsNina said:

Hang in there...me too.. dont worry. They are getting thru november pretty well....so any day now. Im RD too🙏🏾 but december/january.

 

I saw that!! I was so excited lol. What part of the country is he in? 

[MsNina 184]

Just now, msrodriguez said:

 

I saw that!! I was so excited lol. What part of the country is he in? 

Santo Domingo...and urs?

[GaLy 43]

Maybe you shouldn't watch so closely then, just let it happen.

A watched pot never boils kind of thing.

[MsNina 184]

2 minutes ago, msrodriguez said:

Agreed! 

 

@jeka1700 

 

Being on here is quite helpful, but if you're like me (I have terrible anxiety) - then it's not so helpful when you see everyone getting approved and read the horror stories of people being used for green cards. Omg.

 

I know it feels like we are kind of left behind in the dust but our time is coming!! 

Have u read about green card horror stories here? 😟 i feel u on the anxiety..😫

[Fe.Ta 874]

Just now, msrodriguez said:

Agreed! 

 

Being on here is quite helpful, but if you're like me (I have terrible anxiety) - then it's not so helpful when you see everyone getting approved and read the horror stories of people being used for green cards. Omg.

 

I know it feels like we are kind of left behind in the dust but our time is coming!! 

I am glad I found this group.  I hear you about the anxiety!  It is beginning to kick for me and my fiance (he has it way worse), so anything to manage it the best way I can.  If you like tea, chamomile helps, at least to sleep.

 

Don't read too much into the horror stories.  Yes, they do happen, but only you know what you feel and what you've experienced with your partner.  So, make sure you don't filter your relationship through other people's negative experience.  After all, if you decided to pursue this, is because you know how you both feel about one another and the conversations you've had.

 

MIND OVER MATTER! 😁

[MsNina 184]

Just now, GaLy said:

Maybe you shouldn't watch so closely then, just let it happen.

A watched pot never boils kind of thing.

Thats ez and true to say. But u have already been approved.😭