does it affect my VAWA case if i have a baby with other guy during marriage

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

You need to get a good lawyer, in many states if you are married to someone and a child is born, they are the legal father of the child. It sounds like the BF has not taken a legal paternity test. You are saying/praying the child is the BF's but do not have the test to prove that, depending on the state you live in, that may be a moot point and your husband may be the legal father and as such entitled to birth right parental rights. You need good legal representation, seek support and information here, but you are at the point you need professional support for this

[Ontarkie 14,228]

On 11/9/2018 at 1:32 PM, Randyandyuni said:

You need to get a good lawyer, in many states if you are married to someone and a child is born, they are the legal father of the child. It sounds like the BF has not taken a legal paternity test. You are saying/praying the child is the BF's but do not have the test to prove that, depending on the state you live in, that may be a moot point and your husband may be the legal father and as such entitled to birth right parental rights. You need good legal representation, seek support and information here, but you are at the point you need professional support for this

The ex husband has already had DNA tests in court. He is not responsible for anything or have any rights to her child. 

[Boiler 45,538]

Seems only the BF can be the Father and she needs to go through the proper process to find out.

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

1 hour ago, Ontarkie said:

The ex husband has already had DNA tests in court. He is not responsible for anything or have any rights to her child. 

depending on the state, if married at time of birth it may not matter

[geowrian 22,337]

13 minutes ago, Randyandyuni said:

depending on the state, if married at time of birth it may not matter

Simply being married is usually not the determining factor. It's having a relationship with the child. No such relationship appears to be in the picture here.

[Ontarkie 14,228]

20 minutes ago, Randyandyuni said:

depending on the state, if married at time of birth it may not matter

Yes some states do that, court overrules what the state says. He is off the hook.

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

Thanks for the update, wasn't trying to argue