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Would you find it hard to leave VJ if you got a divorce/broke up?

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  1. 1. Would you want to stay on VJ if you got a divorce/broke up?

    • ONLY for the divorce forum if necessary. Then I'd leave
      5
    • Yes, for the emotional support/friendships I've made/OffTopic amusement
      19
    • Yes, other (incl. to help others)
      2
    • No, I'd have no reason to stay
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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Senegal
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I voted that I would leave, but after reading all of the other posts I do realize that it might be carthartic to pour out my feelings on VJ. I think I'd probably take a break because VJ would be a constant reminder of all we went through.

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I'm not in this situation, but I was thinking that I'm kinda VJ-addicted and would have a hard time giving it up even if my relationship didn't work out... I also noticed some members whose relationships have ended posting.

I think I'd stay. I am not really into these things, and prefer talk to lawyers when I need advice on some immigration issue, but people here share their opinions and life stories so it's great for me as a writer! And topics are sometimes very controversial so it's interesting to read and gives good "food for thought"

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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I'd leave. The friends I've made here I have other ways to communicate, no reason to stick around, I'd have no business here.



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* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Canada
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I think I would stick around. It would hard to quit cold turkey.

I tried to get my husband here, he logged on one night when I asked him too and he hasn't been back.

Thats's fine.

VJ has been my sanctuary. I enjoy it here.

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Filed: Country: Morocco
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i'd probably stay in the divorce forum then go. as much as i like vj, it would be painful and i wouldn't want reminders of it. i'd want to move on and better my life somehow! if i've made any great friends, we wouldn't need vj to keep in touch!.

"It's far better to be alone than wish you were." - Ann Landers

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Filed: Other Country: Lebanon
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id stay.......

see we dont actually 'have' a visa process because of our circumstances and even tho we have come to know that ive stuck around. i love the mena forum, even with all the fighting...i pretty much stick in there but id poke around other areas too........

June 11 05-Married George, civil ceremony in New York

May 30 08-Baby Joshua was born

Jan 15-Back to NY we go...

May 10-made decision not to go back overseas.

July 10-filed for divorce

Jan 11-Divorce final

July 11-1st trip to take Josh to see George

Mar 12-2nd trip to take Josh to see George

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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I'd leave. The friends I've made here I have other ways to communicate, no reason to stick around, I'd have no business here.

Are you here for "business"? :o

you know what I mean, there would be no reason, better? :bonk:



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

Complete Timeline

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