Would you find it hard to leave VJ if you got a divorce/broke up?

[Alex+R 0]

I'm not in this situation, but I was thinking that I'm kinda VJ-addicted and would have a hard time giving it up even if my relationship didn't work out... I also noticed some members whose relationships have ended posting.

[Fandango 1,440]

I'd leave.

[ya falaha! 0]

I'd leave. No reason to stick around.

[Elphie 0]

I would leave b/c I wouldn't have a reason to come here anymore.

[Yaads 0]

I wouldn't post as much but I wouldn't leave all together. I have made great friends with a group in the regional forums and they will always be my friends regardless of my relationship.

Plus what else is there to do to waste time at work?

[Ban Hammer 13,656]

i'd leave. *waits for flurry of pm's to nessa demanding we get divorced*

[mawilson 2,133]

I'm not in this situation, but I was thinking that I'm kinda VJ-addicted and would have a hard time giving it up even if my relationship didn't work out... I also noticed some members whose relationships have ended posting.

I'd stay just for you, Alex.

[Dwarf_Ogress 0]

I would stay because only us VJ'ers know how difficult the visa process is, all the stress, emotions, and feelings of hopelessness. It may even help to continue the story to help others learn or to know what to watch out for.

[Cassie 8]

I'd say goodbye to the people I would want to say goodbye to, and then let VJ go.

[JenT 0]

I'd leave... the reminder would be too painful....

[Fandango 1,440]

I'd leave... the reminder would be too painful....

Exactly. And how can one move on if you're always going to be talking about the process/pitfalls/answering questions about how you're doing/etc.

[Alex+R 0]

I'd leave... the reminder would be too painful....

Exactly. And how can one move on if you're always going to be talking about the process/pitfalls/answering questions about how you're doing/etc.

That's true. On the other hand the support you'd get here might be nice because you could get some of the horrible feelings out without spending too much time whining to your real-life friends and feeling like a burden to them... here if someone doesn't want to help you feel better they can just not open your thread.

[Yaads 0]

I'd leave... the reminder would be too painful....

Exactly. And how can one move on if you're always going to be talking about the process/pitfalls/answering questions about how you're doing/etc.

That's true. On the other hand the support you'd get here might be nice because you could get some of the horrible feelings out without spending too much time whining to your real-life friends and feeling like a burden to them... here if someone doesn't want to help you feel better they can just not open your thread.

So true.

Also if you are anywhere in the process past the initial visa (married/already in the country) there is quite a lot of information you need when separating/divorcing.

[Mags 112]

I'd leave.

[Mary Lou 682]

No, i'd leave.