Age Difference question

[mohakhadija 0]

On 10/4/2018 at 7:10 PM, old-fella said:

Few questions:

How did you meet her?

how many times did you meet her?

does your and her family know?

was she ever married? 

Does she uses Govt. aid?

 

let me be straightforward and put it black and white for you:

 

From CO point of view 

• why you married older women with disabilities?  (sorry I am not ignorant. I dont want to start an argument about why should disable women not be treated same. I am all pro treating everyone same way) would you marry older women with disabilities if she was from your country?
• You are young and yet a student. Instead of marrying a young lady why you choose older lady.  I don't want to imply you married for a green card but that is what CO will imply. 

 

If you really love her, instead of worrying about denial - focus on love. Focus on building a life with her. I suggest she should move to your country for a few years and live with you and your family. Post that you guys may have a better chance than now. 

 

sorry, i dont mean to be rude. I just was painting the black and white picture. My best wishes to you and your wife. 

 

Hi thank you for everything she can't be with me years she eat medicine of her illness she need go back to the us after 1 mounth this is probleme too and thr travel by plan is dangerous for her healthy too but shr is motivated .

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