Spouse abuse

[Kakou 0]

Hi everyone I need help.. I been married for 3 years.. I applied for AOS last year in March 2017 in Dallas I already got my work permit.. I been abused and raped by my husband since last year I never call the police for him because I was scared of  him I got my interview last month so we went over there he messed up then officer didn't approve me after 3 weeks I received a letter for a second interview so my husband didn't show up.. so they reschedule me a third interview... he said hes not going the interview..he left the house then he changed his phone number but I got pictures of the injured and voice record when he tried to raped me and I have messages when he insulted me and I have videos when he puts my stuff out all the time... the third interview is next week I don't know what to do please help me 

[Dashinka 24,523]

49 minutes ago, Kakou said:

Hi everyone I need help.. I been married for 3 years.. I applied for AOS last year in March 2017 in Dallas I already got my work permit.. I been abused and raped by my husband since last year I never call the police for him because I was scared of  him I got my interview last month so we went over there he messed up then officer didn't approve me after 3 weeks I received a letter for a second interview so my husband didn't show up.. so they reschedule me a third interview... he said hes not going the interview..he left the house then he changed his phone number but I got pictures of the injured and voice record when he tried to raped me and I have messages when he insulted me and I have videos when he puts my stuff out all the time... the third interview is next week I don't know what to do please help me 

The first thing you need to do is get yourself somewhere safe.  Along with that you need to document the evidence you have with the proper authorities.  Beyond that, I would look for a good divorce attorney, and possibly one with immigration experience as you may need to change your AOS to a divorce waiver with documentation of abuse.  Here is a thread that may be helpful.

 

Good Luck and Stay Safe.

 

 

 

[azblk 338]

1 hour ago, Kakou said:

Hi everyone I need help.. I been married for 3 years.. I applied for AOS last year in March 2017 in Dallas I already got my work permit.. I been abused and raped by my husband since last year I never call the police for him because I was scared of  him I got my interview last month so we went over there he messed up then officer didn't approve me after 3 weeks I received a letter for a second interview so my husband didn't show up.. so they reschedule me a third interview... he said hes not going the interview..he left the house then he changed his phone number but I got pictures of the injured and voice record when he tried to raped me and I have messages when he insulted me and I have videos when he puts my stuff out all the time... the third interview is next week I don't know what to do please help me 

Get a lawyer and file for divorce. File for VAWA. If he ever abuses you again call the police.

[Boiler 45,571]

Not sure of you have moved out that would be the first priority, get to a safe place.

[Ontarkie 14,234]

~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes, from AOS from W,S & T Visas - as a more appropriate forum.~~

[Sandra G. 5,048]

On 10/1/2018 at 6:08 AM, Kakou said:

Hi everyone I need help.. I been married for 3 years.. I applied for AOS last year in March 2017 in Dallas I already got my work permit.. I been abused and raped by my husband since last year I never call the police for him because I was scared of  him I got my interview last month so we went over there he messed up then officer didn't approve me after 3 weeks I received a letter for a second interview so my husband didn't show up.. so they reschedule me a third interview... he said hes not going the interview..he left the house then he changed his phone number but I got pictures of the injured and voice record when he tried to raped me and I have messages when he insulted me and I have videos when he puts my stuff out all the time... the third interview is next week I don't know what to do please help me 

 

Go to the interview, tell the officer that you suffered abuse and you will file VAWA soon and ask the officer to put the I-485 on hold until final adjudication of your VAWA. 

Go to the police and file a police report, and if you fear for your life get a restraining order against him as well.  

 

Go to the police to file a police report against him for two reasons, first because your husband should be punished,  and second with the police report you don't have to attend therapy and have a psychological evaluation done, because to file VAWA if the person doesn't have a police report, hospital record or a  restraining order etc is advised to attend therapy .

 

IF YOU ARE STILL LIVING with him leave asap, go to a shelter for victims of domestic violence.