Put On Your Big-Boy Rants

[SAT 9,609]

I'll send you a clip...

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

16 hours ago, SAT said:

 

They're not here to be Americans. 

They're here to continue the way they live, in their third world ways. 

But now I'm being redundant. 

So ends this post....

 

BTW, you know why their country of origins suck? 

because they were there! 

 

 

The first and second generation Irish were pretty annoying to live around and generally sucked too.  *Can confirm being related to that line.  

 

It can take cultures some time to integrate.

[SAT 9,609]

This is rampant throughout NY. 

I know this for a fact. 

Here's Part 4. 

 

https://nypost.com/2018/09/22/stabbed-babys-father-recounts-terrifying-ordeal-at-day-care/

 

"Almost all of the moms living at the center — and dozens of others scattered in the city’s Chinese neighborhoods come to the US on tourist visas expressly so their babies can be born here, and gain US citizenship.

“Ninety percent of them in these centers come from China,” to recover from giving birth in New York hospitals, said a community source. “They don’t advertise. It’s word of mouth."

 

 

And, I know a couple of these jack azzes here, too....

 

https://nypost.com/2018/09/22/john-jay-professors-allegedly-ran-swamp-of-drug-dealing-sexual-assault/

[NikLR 13,228]

29 minutes ago, SAT said:

 

And why, may I ask, are you thinking bout work....

Okay I'm training a new guy.  He is doing really well (with only a few mistakes)  and I was SUPER busy with 3 doctors.  So I gave him the easy dr, both were willing to have a go at it.  It was physcial exams and vaccinations except for one quality of life.  Now about 1/2 the quality of life for ongoing (not new) patients end up being put to sleep.  Most people want to keep going on their animals but sometimes it's best for the animal, which is why they're talking to the dr about it.  No one wants their loved ones to be suffering or in pain.

 

I was very busy, but I was checking in on him a lot, making sure everything was okay.  He assured me it was.  At the end of the day I come to find out the QOL ended up as a PTS.  This would have been his first PTS and I would want to be there for him to help with paperwork and checking the person out for any payments.  It's REALLY REALLY hard to ask people for money at this time.  Unless the Dr says otherwise, we have have to, and if the dr says otherwise, we have to make a note.  It's just hospital policy.  There are always expenses when a pet is given their final resting.  Paperwork etc, has to be done so that we can send them cards, sometimes flowers, and make sure everything is done correctly to the owner's wishes.  It's just hard, and your first one is ALWAYS the hardest.  I've cried over pets I've just met.  Especially the ones where the owner's dont want to stay.   This guy has a huge heart (he's currently out in the desert rescuing stray dogs) and is a vegan.  Just loves animals with all of his being.  I'm not sure he's ever had to deal with his own pets who have passed, let alone pets that belong to someone else.  I grew up on a farm. I've had lots of pets, and some we've had to have euthanized.  The worst was being 13 and picking up my dead cat on the side of the road because my ex-step-father refused to do it.  Other's I've had to give away or sell, like my horse.  That doesn't make it easier, it just is and I can only hope their lives were happy after I was no longer in them.  ANYHOW.... 

 

Now the Dr he was with started the practice in 1985.  He's mostly retired right now and works 2 days a week. He knows how to do all of this obviously.  

 

But I feel horrible that I wasn't there to help this new guy because I didn't know they were at that point.  Neither him nor the dr informed me nor asked for help.  I would have stopped helping the 2 drs I had, moved the new guy to helping check them out for regular items, and helped the older dr with the PTS.  Or at the very least, been there to help the new guy figure out the details.  I'm not sure the paperwork was done.  I know the owners weren't checked out and haven't paid yet.  I feel horrible that I wasn't there for him when he likely needed me to be.  I've had some personal issues with my own child recently as well and my mind was still spinning from that BUT I made a mistake and I HATE HATE HATE making mistakes that can hurt someone's feelings.  I am really hard on myself for messing anything up tbh, but this feels worse.  I can't even check in with him until Monday.  BUT I let my supervisor and a dr know that I understood my mistake and feel terrible about it.  They both tell me just to move onward and it's okay since I understand where the error was.  I know what corrections to make in the future and everything that may or may not have been done CAN be corrected and fixed.  I plan on calling the owners on Monday to let them know their clay paw is here and reminding them gently that we need payment before we can proceed with their final wishes.  

 

Regardless, it's kept me from sleeping well for 2 days, combined with my own family issues.  I wish I could be there for my kiddo and I can't.  I'm only a phone call away and being there wouldn't help anyhow, but a real hug is always better than a virtual one.  

 

[TBoneTX 45,571]

1 hour ago, Ontarkie said:

I definitely can't be 29 anymore, not when the oldest will be 27 

This is why, via P-math, you can be Many and Oldest can be Many and it will all work out very logically,    D ma'am!

[TBoneTX 45,571]

1 hour ago, SAT said:

these brand new, empty houses are evidence of the wealth that the Chinese in the United States have sent back to this area.

Why are they building casas that won't be lived in?  Purely showing off?

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Come to think of it, an entire set of blocks in Ciudad de Nueva York is like Ecu was transported there, no difference man.

Mrs. T-B. is quite vague about whether these Ecus are legal or not, vague she man.

We wonder whether half of Cd. de Nueva York couldn't be mass-deported with high accuracy of targeted segments, wonder and sigh we man.

[TBoneTX 45,571]

1 hour ago, SAT said:

Got to Westfield NJ

Departed NJ

Got home

Got to reception

Many-course dinner

We told you that P-time works, si and whee man!

[TBoneTX 45,571]

1 hour ago, SAT said:

didn't get to eat the delicious-looking....pig

At least you weren't arrested for cannibalism, no and oink man.

1 hour ago, SAT said:

like all wedding cakes, it sucked!

The most dangerous food is Wedding Cake, sigh man...

1 hour ago, SAT said:

Turtle stole the dance floor

Fotos of floor-thieving Turtle now, see wee ma'am.

[TBoneTX 45,571]

37 minutes ago, NikLR said:

a real hug is always better than a virtual one

Virtual hugs regardless, hug we Niki-B. ma'am.  {{{{{{{{ Niki-B. ma'am }}}}}}}

[TBoneTX 45,571]

As reported above, Mrs. T-B. wanted to go out for din-din, OK with we man.

Got to Langosta Roja with coupon, arrive we man.

Fought our way inside amidst mobs of loiterers, fight we man.

Wait for Many (2+1) people was an hour, per detached hostesses man.

"Forget this, man," quoth we man.

 

Mrs. T-B. then suggested Mexican, suggest she man.

We go to other place, enter we man.

Wait was only Many (2+2+1 to 2x2x2+2) minutes, tolerable man.

However, A/C temperature was set on "Antarctic," cold we man.

 

Toughed it out, freezing we & she & wee man.

Situation complicated by waiter who spoke like a mumbling Speedy Gonzalez on a caffeine high, enunciate man.

We were further irritated by getting "no problem" vs. "you're welcome" from all employees every time we said "thank you," grrr man.

Evening not a positive experience, unhappy Mrs. T-B. she man.

[mrmvkjts 459]

1 hour ago, NikLR said:

Okay I'm training a new guy.  He is doing really well (with only a few mistakes)  and I was SUPER busy with 3 doctors.  So I gave him the easy dr, both were willing to have a go at it.  It was physcial exams and vaccinations except for one quality of life.  Now about 1/2 the quality of life for ongoing (not new) patients end up being put to sleep.  Most people want to keep going on their animals but sometimes it's best for the animal, which is why they're talking to the dr about it.  No one wants their loved ones to be suffering or in pain.

 

I was very busy, but I was checking in on him a lot, making sure everything was okay.  He assured me it was.  At the end of the day I come to find out the QOL ended up as a PTS.  This would have been his first PTS and I would want to be there for him to help with paperwork and checking the person out for any payments.  It's REALLY REALLY hard to ask people for money at this time.  Unless the Dr says otherwise, we have have to, and if the dr says otherwise, we have to make a note.  It's just hospital policy.  There are always expenses when a pet is given their final resting.  Paperwork etc, has to be done so that we can send them cards, sometimes flowers, and make sure everything is done correctly to the owner's wishes.  It's just hard, and your first one is ALWAYS the hardest.  I've cried over pets I've just met.  Especially the ones where the owner's dont want to stay.   This guy has a huge heart (he's currently out in the desert rescuing stray dogs) and is a vegan.  Just loves animals with all of his being.  I'm not sure he's ever had to deal with his own pets who have passed, let alone pets that belong to someone else.  I grew up on a farm. I've had lots of pets, and some we've had to have euthanized.  The worst was being 13 and picking up my dead cat on the side of the road because my ex-step-father refused to do it.  Other's I've had to give away or sell, like my horse.  That doesn't make it easier, it just is and I can only hope their lives were happy after I was no longer in them.  ANYHOW.... 

 

Now the Dr he was with started the practice in 1985.  He's mostly retired right now and works 2 days a week. He knows how to do all of this obviously.  

 

But I feel horrible that I wasn't there to help this new guy because I didn't know they were at that point.  Neither him nor the dr informed me nor asked for help.  I would have stopped helping the 2 drs I had, moved the new guy to helping check them out for regular items, and helped the older dr with the PTS.  Or at the very least, been there to help the new guy figure out the details.  I'm not sure the paperwork was done.  I know the owners weren't checked out and haven't paid yet.  I feel horrible that I wasn't there for him when he likely needed me to be.  I've had some personal issues with my own child recently as well and my mind was still spinning from that BUT I made a mistake and I HATE HATE HATE making mistakes that can hurt someone's feelings.  I am really hard on myself for messing anything up tbh, but this feels worse.  I can't even check in with him until Monday.  BUT I let my supervisor and a dr know that I understood my mistake and feel terrible about it.  They both tell me just to move onward and it's okay since I understand where the error was.  I know what corrections to make in the future and everything that may or may not have been done CAN be corrected and fixed.  I plan on calling the owners on Monday to let them know their clay paw is here and reminding them gently that we need payment before we can proceed with their final wishes.  

 

Regardless, it's kept me from sleeping well for 2 days, combined with my own family issues.  I wish I could be there for my kiddo and I can't.  I'm only a phone call away and being there wouldn't help anyhow, but a real hug is always better than a virtual one.  

 

I am so sorry you abd the new guy had to go thru this! 

But mistakes happen and it’s better that you know and understand what the issue was rather than ignoring it! I’msure your new co-worker will understand it too! 

 

But i definitely also understand what you mean. Giving pets away is just so hard. We’re about to give our cats away since we can’t bring them to the US and my heart is breaking! They’re my babies and it just sucks!  

 

 

Many virtual hugs to you!

[TBoneTX 45,571]

Plenty of U.S. cats need love and a good home, si QA ma'am.

[mrmvkjts 459]

2 minutes ago, TBoneTX said:

Plenty of U.S. cats need love and a good home, si QA ma'am.

Well, I know. 

but the MIL we’re going to live at (and actually the husband too) have the worst allergies. So no kitties for me.

 

But in the future I demand a pet again

Edited September 23, 2018 by mrmvkjts

[TBoneTX 45,571]

Bummer, QA ma'am.

And what are you doing up so long after midnight yet again, huh ma'am?!

[mrmvkjts 459]

Laundry. many many loads of laundry