Put On Your Big-Boy Rants

[NikLR 13,232]

6 hours ago, TBoneTX said:

No one wished us a happy anniversary, no and hmmmph man.

Sorry if you had stated it. I get lost in some of the things you write and skip over.  So important details are likely lost with all the "pmath" bologna. 

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

1 hour ago, NikLR said:

Sorry if you had stated it. I get lost in some of the things you write and skip over.  So important details are likely lost with all the "pmath" bologna. 

 

This is truth.

 

 

[Scottish Mernymph 514]

Times is dark, dunno if we're gonna pull through, s'all going to hell in a handbasket, shoulda known happiness isn't to be mine & nobody can truly love me. Time'll tell I guess.

Edited December 2, 2018 by Scottish Mernymph

[Ontarkie 14,499]

16 hours ago, TBoneTX said:

We spent Saturday morning "batching it" with Mini-B., no chicas (except rubias) allowed man.

 

First, we went to the monthly Kids Activity at Home Despot, first time man.

Mini-B. expertly constructed and decorated a gingerbread man, barely had to look at instructions man.

Only help from us was holding what he was trying to nail with use of the adult-sized hammer, two hands man.

Mini-B. very pleased and so were we, wee proud and we proud of wee man man.

 

We next hit the above-reported GS, much clothing for Mini-B. found man.

 

We next lunched heartily at Arby's, of course with use of coupon man.

Mini-B. ingested his entire gut-bomb and most of both curly-fries, proud we of voracious wee man.

 

We finally visited the public library, return & check out books man.

Mini-B. was bored and wanted to show Mommy his gingerbread man, priorities for wee man.

We efficiently qualified & out-checked books, respect wee man's priorities we man.

 

At the casa, we proudly showed Mrs. T-B. the fruits of Mini-B.'s construction talents, considerable man.

Mini-B. explained the construction & decoration processes in detail, explanatory wee man.

Mrs. T-B. was very proud and we were re-proud, she proud and we re-proud of wee man.

 

Next week, perhaps we shall safari for rubias, always an appealing activity man.

How many years have I been telling you to take him to these!?! They are great. Glad he had fun. 

[Ontarkie 14,499]

39 minutes ago, Scottish Mernymph said:

Times is dark, dunno if we're gonna pull through, s'all going to hell in a handbasket, shoulda known happiness isn't to be mine & nobody can truly love me. Time'll tell I guess.

Big hugs, because I suck at words. 

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

3 hours ago, Scottish Mernymph said:

Times is dark, dunno if we're gonna pull through, s'all going to hell in a handbasket, shoulda known happiness isn't to be mine & nobody can truly love me. Time'll tell I guess.

 

Oh no!  You can always rant or cry about it here. Things were rocky for us during the immigration process and for a little while afterwards. Sometimes it is better to work out all the kinks early.

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

The Dane is cold.  This is because he refuses to wear a shirt to bed, it is Minnesota in the winter, and he uses this super thin $10/10 year old Ikea comforter.  His solution is that we need to turn up the heat.  Meanwhile I'm burning hot already and don't even need a blanket.  

 

So, tonight, I tried to warm him up with my body heat.  He says, "you are just as uncomfortable as a t-shirt."  I'm not sure how to take that.

[TBoneTX 46,129]

We read everything that everyone writes, bologna or not, respect man.

 

Sunday report, see man:

Did not leave the casa, perfect Sunday man.

Only Many (2+1) laundry loads, intense-but-finished man.  Mini-B. helped fold warshcloths, delighted wee man.

Raked leaves (none of them ours, grrr man), and Mini-B. jumped in the piles, delighted wee man.

Temperatures in the Manys ([2x2x2]0s) again today, take that man.

Texas weather Many, everywhere else Seward's Icebox, take that man.

 

[TBoneTX 46,129]

8 hours ago, Ontarkie said:

How many years have I been telling you to take him to these!?!

Today is the very first time, si D ma'am.

8 hours ago, Ontarkie said:

They are great.

This one was mobbed, many Munchkins man.

8 hours ago, Ontarkie said:

Glad he had fun

Gracias, si D ma'am.

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

57 minutes ago, TBoneTX said:

We read everything that everyone writes, bologna or not, respect man.

 

 

It is actually more the style of your prose, it makes it very easy to miss something, especially if I'm half awake. * 

 

*I'm partially awake now as I just woke up from a nightmare in which a house-building monster tried to eat me from under the sofa. I also spilled a lot of German food on multiple outfits and was pursued by short men in this dream.

 

[Scottish Mernymph 514]

6 hours ago, N-o-l-a said:

 

Oh no!  You can always rant or cry about it here. Things were rocky for us during the immigration process and for a little while afterwards. Sometimes it is better to work out all the kinks early.

Thankyou & Ontarkie too, thanks to everyone here(even T-Bone lol)....it's a bit of a rough time & I guess I'm feeling a bit sorry for myself, my sister is awaiting a cancer diagnosis & it'll be a year to the day tomorrow since I said goodbye to my Best Boy(my dog) I'm struggling right now I admit it.

[Scottish Mernymph 514]

PS-sorry for showing up here all needy like

[Russ&Caro 1,549]

This is a thread where we can all be needy or ranty. I truly hope things work out for you as you navigate multiple difficult things. After my wife arrived 3+ yrs ago, I briefly did some therapy and the counselor reminded me that simultaneously I was dealing with: geographic re-location, job change, marriage and death (both my parents), 4 of the biggest stressors in life. I started cutting myself some slack after that.

[NikLR 13,232]

7 hours ago, TBoneTX said:

We read everything that everyone writes, bologna or not, respect man.

 

Sunday report, see man:

Did not leave the casa, perfect Sunday man.

Only Many (2+1) laundry loads, intense-but-finished man.  Mini-B. helped fold warshcloths, delighted wee man.

Raked leaves (none of them ours, grrr man), and Mini-B. jumped in the piles, delighted wee man.

Temperatures in the Manys ([2x2x2]0s) again today, take that man.

Texas weather Many, everywhere else Seward's Icebox, take that man.

 

Jumping in leaves is always fun. Regardless of age. 

 

16 hours ago, Scottish Mernymph said:

Times is dark, dunno if we're gonna pull through, s'all going to hell in a handbasket, shoulda known happiness isn't to be mine & nobody can truly love me. Time'll tell I guess.

We cannot know happiness without sadness. We are not always going to get along during this process either.  The hardest part is when we're angry at the process and the distance and we end up taking it out on our significant other.  We arent mad at them nor them with us, just mad in general and needy at the same time.  It'll be okay.  

[cdneh 3,112]

7 hours ago, Scottish Mernymph said:

PS-sorry for showing up here all needy like

Not to worry. You are in the right place. You can show up here in any mood that suits you. I am of the feeling you've just hit a bad patch, this process is a  long drawn out misery in itself. Add into the mix any single thing going on in ordinary life, and it can feel like the straw that broke the camels back.