Injustices and Waking up Dissapointed and Saddened

[Jaquelly 1,647]

Just now, Beth & Achraf said:

Observation?.   Well, good luck on your case, from your "observation" you know what your up against in Morocco for interview.

Dude, their case is complete. 

[NYCruiser 423]

46 minutes ago, pushbrk said:

Perhaps learn the difference between fair and equal.  They are not synonyms.  The Google the exact words "Are Older Women Marrying Younger Men Discriminated Against?"

Hope I can offer a perspective? You will notice many many gay marriage couples where there is a big age difference are getting approved. Why do you think that is? Culture...plus gays do not have children. In the muslim/african/asian world, this is very very important. So, if a couple has a big age difference, then the visa will be denied

[Hobidyali 267]

Very true, I agree with you 100% and am very aware of what Morocco is or isn't , like you said, sad but true, it really it what it is.

[Hobidyali 267]

9 minutes ago, mcdull said:

I married a guy (US citizen)15+ years younger than I am.

Do I think it happens that younger men just happen to fell in love with older women? yes.

However, I also believe the absolute majority of people sitting in front of a computer, sending unsolicited messages on social media, hoping to fell in love with an older western woman (man) are scammers. NO, THEY DON'T LOVE YOU, THEY LOVE YOUR NATIONALITY

Unfortunately, it happens too often in countries like Morocco and the Philippines.

No, he doesn't love my nationality, wow this thread took a turn for the worst.

[mcdull 474]

1 minute ago, Hobidyali said:

No, he doesn't love my nationality, wow this thread took a turn for the worst.

Oh I apologize.

 

Perhaps moving to Morocco if the love of your life can't make it to America?

 

After all, it is love, not the place that matters.

[Hobidyali 267]

8 minutes ago, NYCruiser said:

Hope I can offer a perspective? You will notice many many gay marriage couples where there is a big age difference are getting approved. Why do you think that is? Culture...plus gays do not have children. In the muslim/african/asian world, this is very very important. So, if a couple has a big age difference, then the visa will be denied

I never said that age gaps or people should be approved no matter what , I said that they are extremely harsh from what I read. I agree that they should crack down, I am not disagreeing with that.

[Jaquelly 1,647]

Just now, mcdull said:

Oh I apologize.

 

Perhaps moving to Morocco if the love of your life can't make it to America?

 

After all, it is love, not the place that matters.

I'm pretty sure they're already married. Since you're so busy passing judgement, you haven't asked, so I thought I'd let you know.

[Hobidyali 267]

Just now, mcdull said:

Oh I apologize.

 

Perhaps moving to Morocco if the love of your life can't make it to America?

 

After all, it is love, not the place that matters.

Thank you for this, thank you. Wish you the best of luck on your journey.

[mdma11 121]

If the inference that more than half of the cases are fraudulent, then the CO has his work cut out for her/him, every single day. Imagine culling bad cases and getting them right with precision. It's impossible. As much as I sympathize and empathize, unless there's a perfect system in place the unfairness of it all will go on ad infinitum. I commend the OP for opening up this dialogue for all to chime in but I think the change will have to come from within in Morocco and/or other countries with problems alike.

[Uoas 58]

44 minutes ago, Chocobo said:

Keto is not for the faint of heart.  I salute you.  😊

Side note: my dad lost 30 lbs on Keto 😁I could never do it but the results are pretty rad. 

[Hobidyali 267]

1 minute ago, mdma11 said:

If the inference that more than half of the cases are fraudulent, then the CO has his work cut out for her/him, every single day. Imagine culling bad cases and getting them right with precision. It's impossible. As much as I sympathize and empathize, unless there's a perfect system in place the unfairness of it all will go on ad infinitum. I commend the OP for opening up this dialogue for all to chime in but I think the change will have to come from within in Morocco and/or other countries with problems alike.

Thank you, very nicely stated, I appreciate your honesty and respectful comment.

[Hobidyali 267]

1 minute ago, Uoas said:

Side note: my dad lost 30 lbs on Keto 😁I could never do it but the results are pretty rad. 

It is the best way to go to lose weight, atleast for me anyway, it's challenging at times but wonderful. Geez, I am going to need a cheat meal tonight after all of this.😂

 

[Ontarkie 14,529]

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Edited September 19, 2018 by Ontarkie