I want this to be over soo soon

[James Michelle 0]

I can't sleep my (PUSO) HEART it's been hurting since last week ... so really stressful a lot lately and my fiance and i are ALWAYS fighting. he always mad at me.. I try to understand him that, it's really hard for him also to process that papers but i been trying to do my best to help him but then he wants to be RIGHT always.

[raymaga 25]

When we were going through the K-1 Visa process, we fought a lot too. The stress of the whole process does take it's toll on both people. It seemed like all we ever talked about was immigration, and the fun part of our relationship kind of got forgotten.

Hopefully, you will have a successful interview in June and then you can be together and start your new lives together.

Best wishes to you both.

[Sinergy 3]

It happens. The stress, the arguments, being mad at fiance, fiance being mad at you. Just remember it will all be over soon, you will be together and the wait will be over.

I remember me and edi faught all the time. Not bc we did anything, but bc the stress was so bad we were taking it out on eachother.

USCIS is a long process, and its easier sd than done but if you can keep in mind your not alone in this it does make it easier.

Take it easy, breathe a couple deep breaths and make yourself at home here, this site will become your best friend.

My wait was over a year, and i had a baby in the process in which my husband watched on webcam, i swear if it werent for VJ i would have gone nuts. The info is plentiful and the friends you can make are even more.

Try not to argue with your fiance, if he argues with you, just be calm and go with it. the worst thing is to argue and fight from such a distance

[MaydayDas 1]

it takes a lot of understanding, support, tears, love and patience from both of the persons involved in the visa process in order to succeed

[YuAndDan 153]

The interview is only a few weeks away for you, you need to look at it as seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.

Fighting is not normal, in our case we never argued or got angry, just did our work, and prepared for the day.

[James Michelle 0]

thank you for the support...my fiance been try to call me now but i not answer his call cause i cant talk i cant move my tongue his words so much hurting me,. its like i want to give up now for everything. But we are now in the middle to process this papers and i love him. its just anxiesty eh

[cellarlily 0]

Ditto. While it was a stressful process (AOS as well), we didn't have one fight about it. There were a couple times when we were upset and weren't as bubbly on the phone or write essay-long e-mails, but we were really good to each other throughout. You realize that it's a long and stressful process and you have to work on other things in the meantime to keep your mind off it.

I think this whole visa thing is the ultimate test of a relationship. During this whole thing we've stuck by each other, not arguing or anything and it just shows that certain people are truly meant to be. I'm lucky to have such a level-headed husband!

[*JG* 2]

Fighting is normal. The stress of the entire process takes a huge amount of patience and understanding. And, it does not end when they arrive here.

Just hang in there. It does get better. The more time that passes and the further along in the process you get, the easier it gets.

[cellarlily 0]

thank you for the support...my fiance been try to call me now but i not answer his call cause i cant talk i cant move my tongue his words so much hurting me,. its like i want to give up now for everything. But we are now in the middle to process this papers and i love him. its just anxiesty eh

Again, you have your interview. It's in less than a month...what more does he want? Tell him to relax and you'll be there before he knows it.

[James Michelle 0]

thank you to all the vj's reading my message i am so emotional tonight ...(salamat) thank you you guys make me feel better now.

[john_and_marlene 162]

A bottle of Tanduay will help you sleep.

[James Michelle 0]

A bottle of Tanduay will help you sleep.

well i was outside thinking to buy a gin with pumelo but didnt happen...theres no tindahan that open this late!!

[john_and_marlene 162]

A bottle of Tanduay will help you sleep.

well i was outside thinking to buy a gin with pumelo but didnt happen...theres no tindahan that open this late!!

Stock up when they are open.

[Detty2809 0]

Hang in there Everything will be over soon.

My fiance and I fought too....couldn't help it he was just bad at keeping distance relationship haha. Talking for hours on the phone irritates him and he doesn't really write e-mails nor chat. And he was the kind of person who'd do something when he wants to. Whenever I tried to remind him about finishing paperwork or adding up details and all that, it just made him delay things even more hahaha.... We both were frustrated and so badly wanting the "being away from eachother" to end...but with me, the stress made me wanna rush everything, and with him, the stress made him wanna stay away from the whole obligations (paperwork etc.) because it got too much at some point...plus i was nagging all the time LOL. Anyways, what I am trying to say is....i believe he wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him at this second... but you guys deal with the stress differently. Try to give him some space, calm down and try to be stronger . More patient!!

*hugs*

[James Michelle 0]

A bottle of Tanduay will help you sleep.

well i was outside thinking to buy a gin with pumelo but didnt happen...theres no tindahan that open this late!!

Stock up when they are open.

yeah right... but i never drink but think to drink milk though