Jump to content
Aster

Highly tough situation

By Aster in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

 Share

79 posts in this topic

Recommended Posts

  • Replies 78
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

Popular Days

Top Posters In This Topic

Popular Days

Popular Posts

NovaDC
NovaDC

I would suggest attending the interview and fly to USA. You are her husband, the head of your wife. Be a husband this time by leading in resolving whatever strains that happened to you marriage due to

JFH
JFH

I guess what you’re saying is the the K-1 is better than the CR-1 for people who are not sure about their relationship? Why would being able to “bail out until the last minute without commitments” be

Loren Y
Loren Y

You think they are going to let him into the United States on a B2 visit Visa with a pending cr1. Not on your longest day. You think there might be some immigration intent there? And I hire private in

Aster Explorer

Aster   24

Posted
Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Pakistan
 Timeline
  • Author
Posted
1 minute ago, Going through said:

Was this an arranged marriage?...just wondering as earlier you'd mentioned that the mother and brothers were "involved in the marriage", and they are not speaking to you either.  Possible her family is putting pressure on her (for whatever reason has come up/been discovered) to not continue the marriage?

 

 

It was arranged but I asked couple of time from her mother and her that are you agreed ,  are you happy to marry with me ,   Her mother told me if she not happy and agreed then I never say yes,   She also told me couple of times she agreed .

 

 

 

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Going through Mentor

Going through   5,671

Posted
Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Canada
 Timeline
Posted
2 minutes ago, Aster said:

I don't know , what's going on , she is not replying ....  It's bothering me a lot ,   At least tell me what is in her mind ...  I will have to fly other city for interview ,  and I have to book my air ticket , accommodation ,  put leave on work,  documents , etc and one week is  left and  if I don't book then I might not get any seat 

As mentioned several times, better to postpone the interview at this point.

Applied for Naturalization based on 5-year Residency - 96 Days To Complete Citizenship!

July 14, 2017 (Day 00) -  Submitted N400 Application, filed online

July 21, 2017 (Day 07) -  NOA Receipt received in the mail

July 22, 2017 (Day 08) - Biometrics appointment scheduled online, letter mailed out

July 25, 2017 (Day 11) - Biometrics PDF posted online

July 28, 2017 (Day 14) - Biometrics letter received in the mail, appointment for 08/08/17

Aug 08, 2017 (Day 24) - Biometrics (fingerprinting) completed

Aug 14, 2017 (Day 30) - Online EGOV status shows "Interview Scheduled, will mail appointment letter"

Aug 16, 2017 (Day 32) - Online MYUSCIS status shows "Interview Scheduled, read the letter we mailed you..."

Aug 17, 2017 (Day 33) - Interview Appointment Letter PDF posted online---GOT AN INTERVIEW DATE!!!

Aug 21, 2017 (Day 37) - Interview Appointment Letter received in the mail, appointment for 09/27/17

Sep. 27, 2017 (Day 74) - Naturalization Interview--- read my experience here

Sep. 27, 2017 (Day 74) - Online MYUSCIS status shows "Oath Ceremony Notice mailed"

Sep. 28, 2017 (Day 75) - Oath Ceremony Letter PDF posted online--Ceremony for 10/19/17

Oct. 02, 2017 (Day 79) -  Oath Ceremony Letter received in the mail

Oct. 19, 2017 (Day 96) -  Oath Ceremony-- read my experience here

 

 

 

Link to comment
Share on other sites
TNJ17 Proficient

TNJ17   1,329

Posted
Filed: K-1 Visa Country:
Timeline
Posted
57 minutes ago, Aster said:

Please guys at least advice me , what should be best for me on this stage ?   

 

I have been continuously calling , messaging her and her mother and brothers but no response ....     

You need to move on with your life. I don't think you can salvage your relationship, it doesn't look like she does. And as far as traveling to the US for a visit, sorry to break it to you but your tourist visa is most likely done too. Maybe 10 years down the road when you've completely changed your life around. Right now you're too much of a red flag. You won't get passed the border. Just because you have a valid tourist visa doesn't mean they'll let you passed CBP. You've shown immigrant intent.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Aster Explorer

Aster   24

Posted
Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Pakistan
 Timeline
  • Author
Posted
Just now, Going through said:

As mentioned several times, better to postpone the interview at this point.

Can you please help me to guide me the procedure of postponed the interview on this stage ?

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Going through Mentor

Going through   5,671

Posted
Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Canada
 Timeline
Posted

Contact the consular immigration visa unit and request the interview be rescheduled.

Applied for Naturalization based on 5-year Residency - 96 Days To Complete Citizenship!

July 14, 2017 (Day 00) -  Submitted N400 Application, filed online

July 21, 2017 (Day 07) -  NOA Receipt received in the mail

July 22, 2017 (Day 08) - Biometrics appointment scheduled online, letter mailed out

July 25, 2017 (Day 11) - Biometrics PDF posted online

July 28, 2017 (Day 14) - Biometrics letter received in the mail, appointment for 08/08/17

Aug 08, 2017 (Day 24) - Biometrics (fingerprinting) completed

Aug 14, 2017 (Day 30) - Online EGOV status shows "Interview Scheduled, will mail appointment letter"

Aug 16, 2017 (Day 32) - Online MYUSCIS status shows "Interview Scheduled, read the letter we mailed you..."

Aug 17, 2017 (Day 33) - Interview Appointment Letter PDF posted online---GOT AN INTERVIEW DATE!!!

Aug 21, 2017 (Day 37) - Interview Appointment Letter received in the mail, appointment for 09/27/17

Sep. 27, 2017 (Day 74) - Naturalization Interview--- read my experience here

Sep. 27, 2017 (Day 74) - Online MYUSCIS status shows "Oath Ceremony Notice mailed"

Sep. 28, 2017 (Day 75) - Oath Ceremony Letter PDF posted online--Ceremony for 10/19/17

Oct. 02, 2017 (Day 79) -  Oath Ceremony Letter received in the mail

Oct. 19, 2017 (Day 96) -  Oath Ceremony-- read my experience here

 

 

 

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Reqahmed Collaborator

Reqahmed   92

Posted
Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Bangladesh
 Timeline
Posted (edited)
3 minutes ago, Going through said:

Contact the consular immigration visa unit and request the interview be rescheduled.

They have a link on interview email letter if someone want to change interview date.

Edited by Reqahmed
Link to comment
Share on other sites
Boiler Grand Master

Boiler   45,468

Posted
Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Wales
 Timeline
Posted

Time to move on, focus on what you need to do for you.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

Link to comment
Share on other sites
debbiedoo Experienced

debbiedoo   2,339

Posted
Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Canada
 Timeline
Posted
1 hour ago, Aster said:

Please guys at least advice me , what should be best for me on this stage ?   

 

I have been continuously calling , messaging her and her mother and brothers but no response ....     

divorce.

 

at this point, with no contact from her for 2 months? am i remembering that right? she made her decision. cut your losses, file, and move on. 

i 485, 130, EAD and AP

04/09/2019    NOA1 received/check cashed i 485 and 130 (direct adjustment)

11/7/2019      Interview- Norfolk

11/10/2019    APPROVED (notification rec'd 11/10, approval dated 11/8)

DONE FOR TWO YEARS!!! ;)

 

Filed everything ourselves with no RFE's or delays.

 

CR1 for Child under 21 (20 at time of filing)- Filed by LPR Spouse for his son

4/4/20     Mailed packet

4/12/20   NOA1 rec'd

10/14/21 (havent heard anything... when do i start to get worried?)

9/15/22 APPROVED! Now to wait for NVC and interview....

 

ROC

10/14/21 Mailed to AZ PO Box. Let the waiting begin. Again.

10/16/21 Received at PO Box

10/19/21 Received Text NOA1

10/23/21 Received Mailed NOA1

 

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Aster Explorer

Aster   24

Posted
Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Pakistan
 Timeline
  • Author
Posted
6 minutes ago, debbiedoo said:

divorce.

 

at this point, with no contact from her for 2 months? am i remembering that right? she made her decision. cut your losses, file, and move on. 

Not two month , two weeks ,    I told her to send me her tax paper two months ago since then she did not send me and now it happened 

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Going through Mentor

Going through   5,671

Posted
Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Canada
 Timeline
Posted

Someone earlier asked if you'd messaged her outright asking for a divorce....might be a good idea, just to shake a response out of her, if anything.

Applied for Naturalization based on 5-year Residency - 96 Days To Complete Citizenship!

July 14, 2017 (Day 00) -  Submitted N400 Application, filed online

July 21, 2017 (Day 07) -  NOA Receipt received in the mail

July 22, 2017 (Day 08) - Biometrics appointment scheduled online, letter mailed out

July 25, 2017 (Day 11) - Biometrics PDF posted online

July 28, 2017 (Day 14) - Biometrics letter received in the mail, appointment for 08/08/17

Aug 08, 2017 (Day 24) - Biometrics (fingerprinting) completed

Aug 14, 2017 (Day 30) - Online EGOV status shows "Interview Scheduled, will mail appointment letter"

Aug 16, 2017 (Day 32) - Online MYUSCIS status shows "Interview Scheduled, read the letter we mailed you..."

Aug 17, 2017 (Day 33) - Interview Appointment Letter PDF posted online---GOT AN INTERVIEW DATE!!!

Aug 21, 2017 (Day 37) - Interview Appointment Letter received in the mail, appointment for 09/27/17

Sep. 27, 2017 (Day 74) - Naturalization Interview--- read my experience here

Sep. 27, 2017 (Day 74) - Online MYUSCIS status shows "Oath Ceremony Notice mailed"

Sep. 28, 2017 (Day 75) - Oath Ceremony Letter PDF posted online--Ceremony for 10/19/17

Oct. 02, 2017 (Day 79) -  Oath Ceremony Letter received in the mail

Oct. 19, 2017 (Day 96) -  Oath Ceremony-- read my experience here

 

 

 

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Aster Explorer

Aster   24

Posted
Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Pakistan
 Timeline
  • Author
Posted

I made a whatsapp group and put all of them , her, her mom, and two brother ,   But after few hours bother brother left the group when I start asking reply me and call pick ,    Now I m sending voice message to get them on solution page .

 

but still they are not replying me 

Link to comment
Share on other sites
Unidentified Mentor

Unidentified   2,930

Posted
Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Sweden
 Timeline
Posted
2 minutes ago, Aster said:

I made a whatsapp group and put all of them , her, her mom, and two brother ,   But after few hours bother brother left the group when I start asking reply me and call pick ,    Now I m sending voice message to get them on solution page .

 

but still they are not replying me 

Ask her if she wants a divorce. 





Link to comment
Share on other sites
Boiler Grand Master

Boiler   45,468

Posted
Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Wales
 Timeline
Posted

Did you pay them anything?

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

Link to comment
Share on other sites
SusieQQQ Grand Master

SusieQQQ   11,586

Posted
Filed: Citizen (apr) Timeline
Posted
3 hours ago, Lazybones18 said:

Don’t divorce her .. she is obligated to get consent from  you and will be forced to contact you. Or she will have to come to Pakistan to appear before a court to get divorce .. both ways it’s a great hassle for her which she deserves 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I don’t think this is true under US law at all.

Link to comment
Share on other sites
 
Didn't find the answer you were looking for? Ask our VJ Immigration Lawyers.
Guest
This topic is now closed to further replies.
 Share
Go to topic listing
- Back to Top -

Important Disclaimer: Please read carefully the Visajourney.com Terms of Service. If you do not agree to the Terms of Service you should not access or view any page (including this page) on VisaJourney.com. Answers and comments provided on Visajourney.com Forums are general information, and are not intended to substitute for informed professional medical, psychiatric, psychological, tax, legal, investment, accounting, or other professional advice. Visajourney.com does not endorse, and expressly disclaims liability for any product, manufacturer, distributor, service or service provider mentioned or any opinion expressed in answers or comments. VisaJourney.com does not condone immigration fraud in any way, shape or manner. VisaJourney.com recommends that if any member or user knows directly of someone involved in fraudulent or illegal activity, that they report such activity directly to the Department of Homeland Security, Immigration and Customs Enforcement. You can contact ICE via email at Immigration.Reply@dhs.gov or you can telephone ICE at 1-866-347-2423. All reported threads/posts containing reference to immigration fraud or illegal activities will be removed from this board. If you feel that you have found inappropriate content, please let us know by contacting us here with a url link to that content. Thank you.
×
×
  • Create New...